Khumbula ukungaziva unetyala ngokufuna ukuphelisa ubudlelwane obungenampilo okanye ubudlelwane obungasawenzi wonwabe, iukuxhomekeka kwixesha elityalomali kolo lwalamano. Uqhawulo mtshato okanye ukwahlukana emva kobudlelwane bexesha elide kunokuba yenye yezona zinto zibuhlungu kunye noxinzelelo ebomini.
Imvakalelo yokusondelelana kunye nokwabelana ngobomi bakho bonke neqabane lakho ngokuqinisekileyo kukhokelela ekubeni ubandakanye iqabane lakho kwisigqibo ngasinye osenzayo yonke imihla. Yiba yinto elula "Ufuna ntoni ngesidlo sasemini?" Okanye iklasikhi "Sithandwa, ndisekhaya", sinokuziva kakubi ngombono wokwahlukana. Uqhawulo-mtshato lunokuba buhlungu kakhulu njengoko ixesha lihamba, ezi zibini zikhulisa imeko ekwabelwana ngayo yesazisi. Nangona kunokuba buhlungu kunokuba kunjalo, kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzikhumbule ngaphambi kokuba ungene.
Cinga ngezizathu zakho
Kuqala kuya kufuneka ucinge ngezizathu zokuba kutheni ungacinga ngokushiya iqabane lakho ... Ngaba akathembekanga kuwe? Izinto azisebenzi? Mhlawumbi ufuna ukwahlukana kodwa kukho izinto ebomini bakho ezenza kube nzima ngakumbi. Mhlawumbi unabantwana, mhlawumbi uhlala ebomini bakho bemihla ngemihla, mhlawumbi ukufumanisa kunzima kakhulu, njl.
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu sokuba ufuna ukushiya iqabane lakho ixesha elide, cinga ngononophelo ngaphambi kokwenza njalo. Sukwenza nantoni na onokuzisola ngayo kamva.
Hlala kude kwimidiya yoluntu
Ezona mpazamo zixhaphakileyo izibini ezenzayo xa ziqhekeka kukungena kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo, njenge-Facebook. Sonke mhlawumbi siyamazi umntu osebenzisa imidiya yoluntu njengedayari yakhe yoluntu. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, xa sithumela into kwi-intanethi, Kukukhumbula ukuba ihlala ilapho ngonaphakade kwaye inokubonwa ngabo bonke.
Ke ngoko, kungcono uzigcinele inkathazo kwaye uqwalasele ukuphonononga iposti yakho ngaphambi kokuba ucofe iqhosha u "ngenise" Okanye kungcono, gcina ubudlelwane bakho kunye nemicimbi yobuqu kwi-Facebook. Bamba intloko yakho phezulu kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kukho ubomi emva kokwahlukana.
Ngaphambi kokuba uyeke, thabatha ikhefu kubudlelwane
Ngamanye amaxesha zonke izibini ezitshatileyo zifuna ixesha elithile ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Rhoqo amaxesha, abantu abasathandanayo baphendukela kuqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukwahlukana emva koko bafumanisa kamva ukuba bayaphoswa zizinto abazakhe kunye. Endaweni yokwenza intshukumo, cinga ukuthatha ixesha kude neqabane lakho. Umzekelo, ungaya kwiholide kunye nabahlobo bakho kwaye wonwabe ngexesha elisemgangathweni wedwa.
Kunzima ukuya ekwahlukaneni ngaphandle kwenkxaso yabahlobo kunye nosapho. Nangona kunjalo, ababaninzi abantu abaziingcali ngomtshato okanye uqhawulo-mtshato, kwaye abanye basenokuba bebengazange babe kulwalamano olunzulu ngaphambili. Ke ngoko, khumbula ukuba awufanele ubonisane naba bantu malunga neengxaki zakho zobudlelwane. Enye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo izibini ezinokuzenza kunyango lwesibini. Kubonakalisiwe ukugcina ubudlelwane kwaye kuya kukufundisa iindlela zokusombulula ukungavisisani.
Ukuba ngaphandle kwayo yonke into okhetha ukwahlulahlula, kuya kufuneka ucinge ngemali kunye nendlela yokukhusela eyakho, Kunye nokufuna ingcebiso kwezomthetho ukuba kukho imfuneko.