Musa ukoyika ukuzazisa iqabane enokwenzeka, kodwa phambi kokuba ukuthandana kufuneka ukwazi loo mntu. Nangona kusengqiqweni ukuba ukuthandana kufuneka uqale wazi omnye umntu, oku akusoloko kunjalo. Unokuba ngomnye wamantombazana anethamsanqa adibana nomfo ogqibeleleyo kwindawo yoluntu.
Nangona kunokuba buhlungu ukuya kumntu ongamaziyo ngokupheleleyo kwaye uzazise, nokuba kukhulu, kuya kumbonisa ukuba uyazithemba kwaye uya kutsaleleka kuwe. Khumbula ukuba amadoda ayabathanda abafazi abazithembileyo.
Yazi lo mfana ngaphambi kokuba uthande
Uninzi lwabasetyhini, ngokubanzi, luthanda ukuthandana kuqala ngaphandle kokubona oko singena kuko ngokwenene. Uninzi lwethu lunetyala lokuthandana ngenxa nje yalo. Nangona kuvakala kumnandi kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha, kunokuba namandla atshabalalisayo achitha ubomi bethu. Asitsibi singakhange sijonge, kutheni sizibandakanya nendoda esingayaziyo?
Thetha nalo mfo…umbuze imibuzo. Mbuze into ayithandayo, into angayithandiyo: iimuvi azithandayo, ukutya kunye nemisebenzi. Uya kufumanisa ukuba usenokungazithandi iimpendulo zabo kwaye oko kulungile. Kungcono ukwazi ngoku kunokuba emva kokuchitha iinyanga uthandana naye. Ukuba nobabini niyahambelana, ke nisendleleni eya ekusekeni ubudlelwane obukhulu. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ayizukusebenza, ngoko ukhululekile ukuba uhambe.
Kufana nokuvavanya imoto yamaphupha akho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ibonakala ilungile kwiintengiso nakwindawo yokupaka, kodwa awuyi kukwazi ukuba isithuthi silungile kangakanani ude usiqhubele. Yindlela esebenzayo yokubona ukuba uyafuna na ukuzibophelela okanye uhambe uye ufumane into engcono. Oku kuya kongela ixesha, intlungu kunye nokulala.
Musa ukoyika ukumenza umhlobo wakho
Eli lelona nyathelo libalulekileyo kuwo onke. Ubudlelwane obuhle buhlala buqala ngobuhlobo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Usebenzisa elo thuba ukuze uchithe ixesha kunye naye, umazi kakuhle, uze umthelele kwizinto obungakhe uzenze ngaphambili. Ngale ndlela, uya kufumanisa imikhwa emibi okanye ecaphukisayo, ubudlelwane obudlulileyo, kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo onokuthi ungaziqapheli kude kube kamva ebomini. Izinto ezinkulu zithatha ixesha, Ngoko kutheni uhamba ngokukhawuleza? Ziphe ixesha lokuba ngumhlobo wakhe uze umazi kakuhle.
Nangona ukufumana isoka kungumsebenzi onzima, ayisiyonzululwazi ye-rocket. Yiba nguwe, wonwabe kwaye ufunde ukwenza abahlobo abatsha. Yile nto ubomi buthetha ngayo ... uthando luza ngakumbi xa lungafunwa, ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba unganyanzeli iimeko kwaye uzivumele ukuba zihambe ngaphandle kokuzenzisa naluphi na uhlobo. Nangona kungathatha ixesha kwaye kunokophula intliziyo yakho amaxesha amaninzi, ekugqibeleni uya kufumana umntu ofanelekileyo kwaye useke ubudlelwane obunempilo. Ufanelwe ... kodwa ungafuni ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kunokuba kuyimfuneko. Wakuba umfumene loo mntu unokonwabela ubudlelwane obunempilo.