Ukwahlukana, nangona ekuqaleni kwakubuhlungu, kusinika ithuba lokuqala; sizithande kwaye sakhe kwakhona ubomi obuzele lulonwabo. Ukuba unentliziyo ephukileyo ngoku inokukwenza uzive ngathi awusoze uphinde ufane. Ukuba wophuke intliziyo, silapha ukuze sikukhumbuze ngezinto ezintathu eziya kukunceda uqhubele phambili nobomi bakho, Kwaye yintoni engcono, ukuqala ukuyiphila njengoko ufanelwe ngokwenene ... wonwabile!
Sukuqhagamshelana ne ex yakho
Nokuba ufuna ukwenza kangakanani na, asiyondlela yokuyenza. Kulula ukuba ubanjwe kwidrama ejikeleze ukuhlukana, kwaye unokuhendeka (ngokuphindaphindiweyo) ukubiza i-ex yakho ukuba ibaphulaphule, ukuphinda udibanise nawe, okanye ukhuphe umsindo wakho ... umzuzwana wobuthathaka onokuthi, masijongane nayo, ilibazisa yonke inkqubo yokuphilisa ngezijekulo nje ezimbalwa.
Intliziyo yakho esesichengeni kunye nemeko yengqondo ifuna ukuba ubuye umva… cima ifowuni yakho okanye uthintele unxibelelwano, hlala uxakekile kwaye ube nayo yonke i-ayisikrimu oyifunayo ukuba kufuneka ngoku. Kufuneka ugxile kuwe hayi omnye umntu, cinga ukuba ungubani, ufuna ntoni, into ongayifuniyo ebomini bakho nalapho uya khona.
Oku akuthethi ukuba awunakuze ube ngumhlobo nomntu wakho wangaphambili. Nokuba awusekho kubudlelwane bothando, ubuhlobo ngokuqinisekileyo bulawuleka. Kodwa, yonke into yehla ngexesha, kwaye uzinike indawo yokuphilisa kunye nokusebenza ngokukhawuleza. Kufuneka uphilise intliziyo yakho ukuze ukwazi ukuzithanda kwakhona ukuze kwixesha elizayo, Nabani na okuthandayo, ngokwenene uyakwenza oko.
Ixesha liphilisa konke
Kunzima ukuva, kuba intliziyo eyaphukileyo inokukwenza uzive ngathi awusayi kuphinda ufane... Kodwa yeyona nyaniso inkulu esinokukuxelela yona ngoku. Ixesha liphilisa amanxeba ngcono kunayo nayiphi na enye into emhlabeni. Izinto ziya kuba lula, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, uya kulunga. Ndisenokungabi nguwe, kodwa kulungile.
Uya kuyenza
Ngeemvakalelo ezinamandla ozivayo ngoku, Mhlawumbi awuyiboni ngokucacileyo le nto, kuba uva intlungu kwaye usentlungwini yokulahlekelwa ... Ukufumana indlela yokuqhubela phambili kunokubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka. Ukwahlukana, nangona kubuhlungu, kukunika ithuba lokuba uqale kwakhona, uzithande ngakumbi nangcono, womelele kwaye wakhe ubomi obugcwele ulonwabo. Ukongeza, oku kuya kukunika ithuba lokufunda kwizinto zakho zangaphambili, ukuze ungayiphindi kwixesha elizayo. Xolela umntu owaphule intliziyo yakho, thatha ubunikazi bendima yakho kwimeko, kwaye ufumane intsingiselo kwilahleko yakho.
Yamkela into eyenzekayo, funda kuyo yonke into oyivayo ngoku kuba nokuba ingonwabanga kangakanani na, ungayifumana kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyenza. Ngenxa yokuba unaloo mandla angaphakathi okufuneka nje ukuba uqaphele, wamkele kwaye ukhuphe ukuze yonke into iqale ukuhamba kakuhle kwakhona.