Ukuphila nomnye umntu akukho lula okanye kulula. Ubomi abukho bumnandi kwaye ubunzima obahlukeneyo kunye nemiqobo kuya kufuneka yoyiswe ukuze ubudlelwane bungasokoli. Enye yeengxaki ezidla ngokuvela lixesha apho isibini sicela ukuba sifune indawo yobuqu. Ngenxa yoku, akufuneki ube novalo okanye ubeke izandla entloko kuba oko akuthethi ukuba ubudlelwane buyaphela.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe kunye nendlela yokwenza kwimeko apho isibini sicela indawo.
Indlela yokwenza ukuba isibini sicela indawo yobuqu
Xa kwenzeka oku, akukho mfuneko yokuba ujikeleze kwaye unikele kubo.. Kufuneka uvelane neqabane lakho kwaye wamkele oko bakucelayo. Kubalulekile ukumnceda kwaye umenze abone ukuba iqabane likhona ukunceda kunye nokuxhasana. Xa unikezela kwaye umnika indawo ayicelayo, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela uluhlu lweengcebiso okanye iingcebiso:
- Kuhle ukuthetha neqabane lakho ngalo mbandela kwaye ufumanise isizathu sokuba bakucele indawo kunye nexesha lobuqu. Musa ukuthandabuza ukuncokola nomnye umntu ngokuzolileyo nangokuzolileyo. Unxibelelwano oluhle luya kukuvumela ukuba uphephe iingxabano kunye neengxabano kulo mbandela kuthethwa ngawo.
- Hlala uzolile Ngomnye umba omawuthathelwe ingqalelo xa unikezela kwisicelo seqabane lakho. Kuyafuneka ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha ube ndlongondlongo okanye udlale ixhoba kuba oku akuluncedi kwaphela ubudlelwane.
Lingakanani ixesha elimele linikwe isibini
Xa kuziwa kwixesha lobuqu kunye nendawo, akukho mzekelo uqhelekileyo kuzo zonke izibini. Kule meko kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubuze isibini ukuba sidinga ixesha elingakanani kwaye uthethe ngendlela ezolileyo nekhululekileyo ngalo mbandela. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kubalulekile ukuphepha iimfuno ezithile kuba oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxabano ezithile ezingafunekiyo okanye imilo. Eyona nto ilungileyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko ibingayi kuba kukuseka naliphi na ixesha kwaye ushiye inkululeko ethile ukuze isibini sibe nokonwaba kwindawo ethile ngaphandle koxinzelelo okanye imida.
Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba nendawo ethile yobuqu kwisibini
Ngaphandle nje kokuchitha ixesha kunye nokwenza izinto ezithile ezidibeneyo, abantu abayila isibini bamele babe nendawo ethile yobuqu ukuze bakwazi ukwenza izinto ngabanye. Ndiyabulela oku, ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba komntu kuqiniswa. nokuba nokuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane kuyaphetshwa.
Kwimeko apho ubudlelwane ekuthethwa ngabo bufikelele esiphelweni, amaqela aya kulunge ngakumbi ukuthatha ikhefu kwaye babe nako ukuphinda bakhe ubomi babo ngemfezeko ethile. Ukuba nexesha lobuqu yinto eqhelekileyo kubudlelwane obunempilo kwaye apho ukuguquguquka kwamaqela kubavumela ukuba bonwabe ixesha elinjalo. Ukuba ngesizathu esithile omnye wabachaphazelekayo uyathandabuza kwaye akakwazi ukunika indawo yobuqu kumntu wabo abathandayo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kwingcali ekwaziyo ukunika izikhokelo kunye namanyathelo okulandela ukunika loo nyaniso. . Isazi sengqondo esihle sinokunceda ukuphepha iingxaki ezithile kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba isibini sinendawo ethile kwinqanaba lomntu ngaphakathi kobudlelwane ngokwawo.
Ngamafutshane, yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iqhelekile ukuba abantu abaninzi babuze iqabane labo ukuba bafuna indawo ethile yokwenza izinto kwinqanaba lomntu. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kungcono ukuphepha iingxabano kwaye unikezele kwisicelo esinjalo. Kulwalamano olugqalwa njengolunempilo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abo batshatileyo babe nexesha elithile lobuqu ngaphandle kwesibini ukuze banandiphe izinto ezithile.