Akuyonto ilula ukufana nokuqonda ukuba awusaziva ngendlela efanayo ngomntu omthandayo. Ukuthatha inyathelo lokuphelisa ubudlelwane kunzima kakhulu, ngakumbi ngenxa yomonakalo onokubangelwa kweso sibini. Ayisiyonto ifanele ukwenziwa lula kwaye ifuna ixesha lokucingisisa.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela kufuneka wenze ntoni kwaye wenze njani xa uthe waphelelwa luthando neqabane lakho.
Iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba uthando luphelile
- Kukho ukungavisisani ngokweemvakalelo kwesi sibini, nto leyo ethetha ukufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabahlobo okanye usapho.
- Uhlala ucinga okanye uphupha ngotshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho. Esi sibini asiveli kwizicwangciso zexesha elizayo ezikhankanywe ngasentla.
- Kukho ukusilela okubonakalayo kwenkuthazo malunga nobudlelwane besibini.
- ukhetha ukuba wedwa ukwabelana ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo osuku nesi sibini.
Yintoni omawuyenze xa ungasalithandi iqabane lakho
- Kubalulekile ukuhlala nomntu osondeleyo kwaye uveze iimvakalelo. Ukuthetha ngayo nomhlobo okanye ilungu losapho kunceda ukuthatha inyathelo lokuphelisa ubudlelwane.
- Isenzo ngasinye sinesiphumo saso. Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukucamngca ngombandela kwaye uvavanye iinketho ezahlukeneyo eziza kunikwa emva kokuqhawula nomntu othandekayo.
- Kuyacetyiswa ukuba kuhlale phantsi nesi sibini size sithethe ngaso njengabantu abadala. Ukongeza ekukwazini ukuvakalisa yonke into ovakalelwa ngayo, ukwazi ukumamela iqabane lakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Unxibelelwano oluhle lunceda ukujamelana bhetele ngakumbi nokwahlukana okungenakuphepheka.
- Akuyomfuneko ukusihlehlisa isigqibo kwangethuba ekubeni ngale ndlela ukubandezeleka okuthile phakathi kwesibini kuya kuphetshwa. Esi sigqibo akufunekanga solulwe ixesha elide ngaphezu kokuba kuyimfuneko kwaye sijongane nomba ngokuthembeka.
Iimpazamo onokuziphepha xa ulahlekelwa luthando kwiqabane lakho
- Nyamezela ubuhlobo ngenxa yokoyika ukuba wedwa. Ubulolo bunokuba bukhulu ngakumbi ukuba kufutshane nomntu ongaziva nto kuye.
- Ukuziva unetyala kwaye unoxanduva lolonwabo lwesibini. Oku kuthetha ukuba isibini asohlukananga, nangona uthando alusekho. Omnye umntu unelungelo lokwazi ukuba kukho ukunqongophala kothando ngokucacileyo nokuba akukho sizathu sokuqhubeka nolwalamano.
- Ukungathathi inyathelo kwaye uqhubeke nobudlelwane ngenxa yobukho benkxalabo ethile kuyo. Akuncedi ukuqhubeka nesibini ukuba uthando lubonakala ngokungabikho kwalo.
Ngamafutshane, Ukuphuma eluthandweni neqabane lakho ayisosidlo esimnandi nakubani na. Nangona kunjalo, nangona lixesha elinzima ngokwenene, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ungalithatha njani inyathelo lokuphelisa ubudlelwane. Kufuneka uchithe ixesha kunye nawe kwaye wazi indlela yokuphulaphula iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe ukuphelisa ubudlelwane.