Abazali abaninzi badla ngokubhidanisa amaphupha amabi abantwana babo kunye noloyiko lwasebusuku. Kwimeko yokoyika ebusuku, umntwana unexesha elibi kakhulu xa elele. Ngaphandle kokukhala okanye ukukhwaza, banokubonisa ukuziphatha okukrakra.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo Sithetha ngezizathu zokoyika ebusuku kwaye wenze ntoni ngabo.
Ukoyika ebusuku ayilophupha elibi
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukubonisa ukuba uloyiko lwasebusuku alunanto yakwenza namaphupha amabi. Namhlanje kukho abazali abangakwaziyo ukwahlula phakathi kwamaphupha amabi kunye noloyiko lwasebusuku. Kwimeko yamaphupha amabi, omncinci uvuka ephazamisekile kwaye ephakanyiswe kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ukhumbula iphupha. Kwinkoliso yeemeko badla ngokuba neengxaki zokuphinda balale kwaye bafuna uncedo lwabazali babo. Amaphupha amabi aqhele ukwenzeka rhoqo ebantwaneni kwaye angenzeka kubo bonke ubomi bomntu.
Ukoyika ebusuku akulophupha kwaye umntwana uhlala ebonisa ezi mpawu zilandelayo:
- Bakhala ngendlela eyoyikeka ngokwenene. Esi sikhalo siyothusa njengoko kuqhelekile kubazali.
- Basenokuba bavule amehlo okanye bavuleke isiqingatha nangona besalele. Le yinto edla ngokubabhida abazali abaninzi.
- Kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana uhleli ebhedini okanye yenza isibindi sokusuka kuyo.
- Umntwana uyacaphuka kakhulu kwaye ubetha imatrasi. Unobundlobongela.
- ukuphefumla ngokukhawuleza kwaye ukubila okugqithisileyo.
- Emva kwesiganeko sobusuku bobusuku umntwana ubuyela ebuthongweni ngaphandle kwengxaki. Ngentsasa elandelayo akayi kukhumbula nantoni na eyenzekayo.
- izinto ezikhwankqisayo ebusuku aziqhelekanga njengamaphupha amabi.
Ziziphi izizathu zokoyikeka ebusuku
Akukho sizathu sinye esichaza ukoyikisa ebusuku ebantwaneni. Ngamanye amaxesha zibangelwa yinkqubo yokuvuthwa kwengqondo. Ngaphandle koku, kukho ezinye izizathu ezininzi:
- izinto zofuzo kunye imvelaphi yosapho.
- amanqanaba aphezulu uxinzelelo kunye nexhala.
- Ukungabi nobuthongo kwaye ndidiniwe kakhulu.
- Ungeniso lwe amayeza athile.
Abazali bafanele benze ntoni xa abantwana babo besoyika ebusuku?
Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nexhala xa ubona umntwana wakho enoloyiko ebusuku. Ngenxa yoku, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale uzolile kuba umntwana akazi nto malunga nento eyenzekayo. Emva koko sikubonisa iingcebiso okanye izikhokelo onokuthi uzilandele:
- Yenza inkqubo ukunceda umntwana ukuba alale kwaye alale.
- Umntwana kufuneka alale iiyure ezaneleyo kwaye lala kwangoko.
- Kuyimfuneko ukukhusela umntwana ekubeni agxininise kakhulu kwaye Lahla ixhala.
- Abazali bafanele bahlale ecaleni kwakhe ukuze bamthintele ukuba angazilimazi ngenxa yeentshukumo zakhe zesiquphe. Ukuba uphakame kufuneka umncedise alale aphinde alale.
Yintoni onokuyiphepha ukuba umntwana unoloyiko ebusuku
Kukho izinto ezininzi abazali abangafanele bazenze ukuba umntwana wabo ujongene noloyiko ebusuku:
- Umntwana akufanele avuswe, njengoko unokuziva ungaphandle kwaye ube nobunzima obukhulu bokulala kwakhona.
- Ungamshukumisi okanye umshukumise ngelixa ujongene nokoyika ebusuku.
Ngamafutshane, Ukoyika ebusuku ziingxaki zokulala ezidla ngokunyamalala ngokuhamba kweminyaka. Abazali akufanele babe novalo kwaye bazame ukunyanga ingxaki yokoyika ebusuku ngokuzola kunye nokuzola. Ukuba ezi zoyikiso zenzeka ngenxa yokuthatha iyeza elithile, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kugqirha. Kuya kucetyiswa kwakhona ukuba uye kugqirha xa uloyiko luqhelekileyo kwaye luhlala ixesha elide.