Kukho amaxesha apho kubudlelwane athathwa ngokungaqhelekanga kwaye oku kunokuziva ngathi kukusilela kwembeko. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iqabane lakho lithatha ulwalamano lwakho ngokungenanto kuba nokuba uthanda kangakanani, akukho mntu ufanele oko. Akukho mntu ufanele ukudelwa. Kuya kufuneka uyamkele imizamo yakho xa ubonakalisa umbulelo kwiqabane lakho. Kodwa uza kuthini ukuba awunakuxela?
Uthando lunamandla okucaphukisa ukusimfamekisa. Sithandana nomntu kwaye kubonakala ngathi banokwenza okuhle kuphela. Nokuba benza ntoni na, siya kuyithatha njengento engenamsebenzi kuba singayiboni impazamo isenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokukwenza ube lusizi ungazi ukuba kutheni. Ewe, isizathu sobuhlungu bentliziyo yakho mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba uthathwa kancinci. Indoda yakho ayikuxabisi ncam. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba iqabane lakho likuphatha ngendlela efanelekileyo, nantsi eminye imiqondiso enokukunceda wazi ukuba abakuthandi na.
Akazixabisi izinto ezintle ozenzela yena
Ngokusisiseko, akanombulelo ngezinto ezintle ozithethayo okanye ozenzayo kuye. Ulindele ukuba uyenze, ngokungathi luxanduva lwakho ukuba uyenze. Ngokuqinisekileyo, bobabini abantu kubudlelwane kufuneka basebenze nzima, kodwa izijekulo ezimnandi akufuneki zilindelwe ... Zizinto ozenzayo ngokulunga kwentliziyo yakho. Ufuna ukumonwabisa kwaye ke uqiniseke ukuba unjalo. Ayilindelanga loo nto ... Uyenza kuba ufuna ukuba ubudlelwane busebenze kwaye yiyo loo nto zizimbo zomzimba ekufuneka zixatyisiwe.
Ukuba akazamkeli ezo zinto zincinci njengezinto ezintle, ezintle, kunye nobubele, akazukukuxabisa oko ukufaneleyo. Nokuba yinto encinci njengokumzisela ikomityi yekofu, kuya kufuneka abulele ngokungazenzisiyo kwaye akuxelele ukuba umkhulu kangakanani ngokwenza oko.
Uyacaphuka xa ungenzi izinto ezintle
Oku kusekwe kulindelo lwakho. Ucinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba wenza izinto kwaye xa ungazenzi, kuba uxakekile kwaye awunakuba nosuku oluhle, uyakucaphuka. Inyaniso yokuba uyonqena ngokungazenzi izinto ezintle ibonisa nje ukuba akazange azixabise kwasekuqaleni. Zizenzo zokuzincama ezingeyomfuneko. Ukuba akakuqondi oko, akakuxabisi.
Ayenzi izinto ezintle kuwe
Oku kuyakuba yeyona nto icace gca kwimiqondiso. Ycinge. Ngaba indoda yakho ikuphethe kakuhle kwaye ikwenzele izinto ezintle? Suku? Kulungile ke kuyacaca ukuba kukuthatha kancinci. Kutheni le nto kufuneka uzibonakalise unothando kunye noxabiso ukuze angaze aphinde abuye? Nokuba wenza izinto ezintle, xa kanye kwinyanga eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ayibali. Ukuba ukukhathalele kwaye ufuna ukukugcina ebomini bakhe, uya kuba nobubele kwaye athandane ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ayinaxesha lakho
Sonke siphila ubomi obuxakekileyo. Umsebenzi, izihlobo, kunye nosapho banokufumana ixesha lokuchitha nabantu obathandayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba utsala amazinyo ukuzama ukuba indoda yakho ichithe ixesha nawe, yinto enkulu leyo. Ukuba ukuxabisile kwaye uyakuthanda, uya kuligcinela ixesha lakho. Akuyomfuneko ukuba ubuze, ucele okanye ungxolise. Ungathanda ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe kuba uyathanda ukuba kunye nawe. Andifuni kulahlekelwa nguwe. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka enze umzamo wokukugcina ebomini bakhe. Xa engenalo ixesha lakho, kungenxa yokuba akalixabisi ixesha lakho kunye nawe.