Xa ikamva lidibanisa iintsapho ezimbini kunye, kwaye lizihlanganisa zibe nye, inokuba sisiqalo sento ehlala ihleli kwaye ikhethekileyo kuwo onke amalungu osapho olusandula ukudityaniswa. Ukuchola amaqhekeza omtshato owaphukileyo akukho lula, kodwa xa ikamva limanya iintsapho ezimbini, kunokuba yinto entle kakhulu leyo. Ukuba kubudlelwane obutsha kunokuba ngumceli mngeni, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwindlela owenza ngayo, kunokuba ngumvuzo.
Isibini esinabantwana abavela kuwo omabini amaqela kubudlelwane bangaphambili kunokuba nzima ekuqaleni, ubuncinci xa kuthelekiswa naxa uqala ubudlelwane nabantu ababini kuphela. Kodwa zombini ezi ntsapho zinokuba yinto enye, usapho oluhlanganisiweyo, usapho oludibeneyo.
Akukho mithetho ibekiweyo
Usapho ngalunye luhlanganisene lwahlukile kwaye akukho mithetho yenza ukuba yonke into isebenze ngcono okanye imbi. Izinto ezenziwa zizibini ezivela kwiintsapho ezihlanganisiweyo nazo zahlukile kakhulu kwizinto ezenziwa ngabantu abatshatileyo kulo naluphi na olunye ulwalamano. Amaqabane afuna ixesha lokuba kunye kwaye athethe ngayo yonke into, izinto ezintle, izinto ezimnandi kunye nezihloko ekunzima okanye kubuhlungu ukuxoxa ngazo. Kubalulekile ngaxeshanye ukuba amagama asetyenzisiweyo anyanyekelwe ukuze angamchaphazeli omnye umntu okanye amagama aguqulelwe gwenxa.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nentlonipho eninzi kwiqabane lakho langaphambili nakwikwangumlingane wangaphambili, kubalulekile ukuthathela ingqalelo iimvakalelo zomntu wonke, uthathela ingqalelo amaqabane angaphambili, xa kufikwa ekusingatheni iimeko nabantwana. Ngale ndlela unokuthintela amaxesha okwahluka okanye iintlungu ezingeyomfuneko. Kubalulekile nayo kwaye ube nombulelo kwiqabane langaphambili kuzo zonke ezo zinto zincinci zinokuthi ziqwalaselwe, ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekunyamekeleni abantwana.
Xa kukho ukungavisisani, kubalulekile ukuthatha ixesha elaneleyo lokumamela kwaye wazi zonke izimvo. Awunakuhlala uvumelana ngayo yonke into, kodwa xa kukho ukungavisisani into ebalulekileyo kukufumana isisombululo ukuze onke amaqela achaphazelekayo aphume kakuhle.
Isikwere iishedyuli
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwiintsapho ezihlanganisiweyo kukuba sikwazi ukulinganisa iishedyuli ukuze abantwana nabantu abadala bakhathalelwe kakuhle, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukuba abantwana baziva bekhuselekile kwaye bekhuselekile ngobomi ekufuneka bebuphile. Yintoni egqithisile, Nangona iishedyuli zinzima ngandlela ithile, kubalulekile ukuthatha ixesha losapho njengeyona nto iphambili.
Umzekelo, xa kufikwa kwimpelaveki yosapho, ninokwenza yonke into kunye: ukwenza ivenkile, ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya, ukulungiselela imidlalo yebhodi, ukonwabela isidlo sangokuhlwa nosapho, njl. Kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa iishedyuli zomntu wonke kwaye nangona ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka nichithe ixesha kunye, ixesha kunye kufuneka lithathelwe ingqalelo njengobuncwane obukhulu. Yindlela yokubonisa abantwana ukuba ubomi bosapho yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye nothando losapho lungaphezulu kwako konke.
Abantwana
Abantwana lelona candelo libaluleke kakhulu kwiintsapho ezihlanganisiweyo kuba ngabo, ngandlela thile, ekufuneka beziqhelanise kakhulu neemeko ezintsha, iimeko ezingathath'isigqibo kwaye ezinyanzelwa ngabanye ngenxa yeemeko. Kodwa ngentlonipho kwabo babesakuba ngamaqabane kwaye ihlala ineenjongo ezintle, abantwana banokufunda ukuba uthando lukhulu kakhulu Kwaye abazali bakhe baya kuhlala bengabazali bakhe kunye nosapho, bekhula besiya bekhula besiba nkulu.
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