Xa usebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba oluqinisekileyo, unokongeza amandla kumyalezo othethayo okanye izimvo ofuna ukuzidlulisa kwaye zikuncede ungaphumeleli ukuthumela imiyalezo edidayo. Ungaphoswa zindawo ezithile ezisisiseko onokuzifumana kwiprojekthi yokuzithemba kunye nokuvuleka.
Yenza umbono okhuselekileyo wokuqala
Ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda uhlengahlengise ulwimi lwakho lomzimba ukuze wenze umbono wokuqala:
- Yiba nesimo esivulekileyo. Khululeka, kodwa sukulala! Hlala okanye ume nkqo kwaye ubeke izandla zakho emacaleni akho. Gwema ukuma izandla zakho ezinqeni, kuba oku kuyakwenza ukuba ubonakale umkhulu, onokuthi ubonise ubukrwada okanye umnqweno wokulawula.
- Sebenzisa ukuxhawula ngokuqinileyo. Kodwa sukukhathazeka! Awufuni ukuba kungonwabi okanye kubi, kubuhlungu komnye umntu. Ukuba uyayenza loo nto, baya kudibana nokuba krwada okanye babe ndlongondlongo.
- Mjonge kakuhle. Zama ukubamba ukujonga komnye umntu imizuzwana embalwa ngexesha. Oku kuyakubonisa ukuba unyanisekile kwaye uzinikele. Kodwa kuphephe ukuyiguqula ibe kukhuphiswano olujongiweyo!
- Kuphephe ukubamba ubuso bakho. Kukho uluvo oluqhelekileyo lokuba abantu abachukumisa ubuso babo ngelixa bephendula imibuzo abathembekanga. Nangona oku akusoloko kuyinyani, kungcono ukuphepha ukudlala ngeenwele zakho okanye ukuchukumisa umlomo okanye impumlo, ngakumbi ukuba injongo yakho kukubonakala ithembekile.
Thetha esidlangalaleni
Ulwimi oluqinisekileyo lomzimba lunokukunceda ukubandakanya abantu, ukufihla imithambo-luvo yokubonisa, kunye nokuzithemba kweprojekthi xa uthetha esidlangalaleni. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezinokukunceda wenze oku:
- Yiba nesimo esihle. Hlala okanye ume nkqo, ubeke amagxa ngasemva kwaye iingalo zisasazeke emacaleni akho okanye phambi kwakho. Sukuhendeka ukuba ubeke izandla zakho ezipokothweni okanye uzingele ngaphezulu, kuba oku kuyakwenza ukuba ubonakale ungenamdla.
- Gcina intloko yakho phezulu. Intloko yakho kufuneka ithi tye kwaye inqanaba. Ukuxhomekeka kude kakhulu okanye ukubuyela umva kunokukwenza ubonakale ngathi unoburharha okanye unekratshi.
- Ziqhelanise kwaye ugqibelele ukuma kwakho. Ungayiqhelisela intetho yakho kwangaphambili, kutheni ke ungaziqhelanisi nolwimi lwakho? Yima ukhululekile, ubunzima bakho busasazwe ngokulinganayo. Gcina unyawo kancinci phambi kolunye, oku kuya kukunceda ugcine ukuma kwakho.
- Izandla zomntu ezivule izandla. Yandisa izandla zakho phambi kwakho, kunye neentende zezandla zijongane nabaphulaphuli bakho. Oku kubonisa ukuzimisela ukunxibelelana nokwabelana ngezimvo. Gcina iingalo zakho ezingasentla zisondele emzimbeni wakho. Lumkela ukuthintela ukugqithisa, okanye abantu banokuthi bahoye ngakumbi izandla zakho kunale nto uyithethayo.
- Ukuba uqaphela ukuba ingqalelo yabaphulaphuli bakho iqala ukwehla, Zama ukuthembela kancinci xa uthetha. Oku kuphakamisa ukuba ubathatha ngokuzithemba kwaye kuya kukunceda uphinde ufumane ingqalelo.
Ngezi ngcebiso unokuprojektha ulwimi oluqinisekileyo lomzimba kunye nokuphucula unxibelelwano kubomi bakho bobungcali nakubomi bakho bobuqu.