Ukudakumba kunye nokuxhalaba akuphelelanga kubantu abadala kuphela. Ulutsha oluninzi lunengxaki yolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka. Kuqikelelwa ukuba phantse i-20% yabantu abafikisayo banokuba neengxaki zokuxhalaba kunye ne-5% ngenxa yoxinzelelo. Ngenxa yoku, kubalulekile ukuthintela ezi zigulo zengqondo kweli nqanaba lobomi kwaye uncede abantu abancinci ukuze ezi ngxaki zingahambi ngakumbi kwaye zibe nefuthe elibi kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela indlela yokuchonga ukudakumba kunye nokuxhalaba kubantu abatsha.
Iingxaki ebutsheni
Ukufika kokufikisa kubonisa utshintsho olubalulekileyo kubomi bolutsha. Olu tshintsho lubonakala ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwentlalo nangokweemvakalelo.. Ingxaki ngoku yeyokuba uluntu lukhetha iinkolelo endaweni yokuchonga iingxaki ezahlukeneyo ukuze kujongwane nazo ngokuthe ngqo.
Olu tshintsho luyinyani kwaye lubalulekile, olunokukhokelela kwixesha loxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba ebomini babantu abatsha. Uluntu lunomfanekiso we inqanaba lokufikisa elibangela ukuba inani elikhulu labafikisayo libandezeleke iingxaki ezinzulu zokuzithemba, ukungazithembi kunye nokuxhalaba. Uxinzelelo luyaqhubeka kwaye kwimiba eyahlukeneyo efana nale:
- Fumana amanqaku amahle kwaye ufumane ukusebenza kakuhle esikolweni.
- abe nenkangeleko yomzimba ngokweecanon ezilawula uluntu.
- Ukukwazi ukungena ngokufanelekileyo kwintlalontle kunye Yiba nabahlobo abaninzi.
Iimpawu zokudakumba kunye nokuxhalaba kwabaTsha
Ukudakumba sisifo sengqondo esichaphazela umntu ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni.. Iimpawu ezicacileyo zolu kuphazamiseka kukuzihlukanisa kwintlalontle, iingxaki zokulala, ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kunye nokungabi namdla wokwenza imisebenzi ethile yemihla ngemihla.
Kwimeko yokuxhalaba, umntu ufumana ukwesaba okuqhubekayo kunye isimo sengqondo esiphaphileyo esikuthintela ukuba ungonwabele ubomi. Ezona mpawu zicacileyo zokuba umntu unexhala ziingxaki zokuphefumla, ukubetha kwentliziyo esifubeni, intloko ebuhlungu, kunye neengxaki zokutya.
Ukuba abazali okanye indawo ekufutshane nomntu oselula ibona naziphi na iimpawu ezichazwe ngasentla, Kubalulekile ukuya kwingcali efanelekileyo ekwaziyo ukucombulula iingxaki zokudakumba okanye ukuxhalaba. Iziphazamiso zengqondo zinzima kakhulu kwaye zinobuzaza, kungoko kubalulekile ukuba uzithintele kwangethuba.
Abazali bafanele benze njani xa umntwana wabo edandathekile okanye exhalabile
Okokuqala, isibakala sokuba umntu oselula edakumbile asifanele sibhidaniswe nesibakala sokuba edandathekile okanye exhalabile. Ukuze abazali bazi indlela yokuchonga ingxaki nganye kubalulekile ukuqwalasela imiqondiso okanye imiqondiso echazwe ngasentla. Kwimeko yokukholelwa okuthile ngayo, kubalulekile ukuthatha amanyathelo athile okuthintela ukuthintela ingxaki ukuba ibe mbi kakhulu.
Iingcali zicebisa ukuhlala phantsi nomntu oselula kwaye uthethe ngokukhululekileyo ngayo. Kubalulekile ukumamela umntwana ofikisayo ukuze abone ingxaki aze afumane esona sisombululo sifanelekileyo. Ngaphandle koku, kubalulekile ukuya kugqirha ukuze aqinisekise ukuba umntu omncinci unengxaki kwaye ukufumana elona cebiso lilungileyo.
Ngamafutshane, luyanda ulutsha oluthwaxwa ziingxaki ezinxulumene nokuxhalaba okanye ukudandatheka. Iziphazamiso zengqondo ziyingozi kakhulu kunokuba abantu becinga, ngoko kuhle ukujamelana nazo ngokukhawuleza. Kukho uluhlu lwemiqondiso ecacileyo okanye imiqondiso ebonisa ubukho bokuphazamiseka okunjalo kubomi bolutsha. Khumbula ukuba umsebenzi wabazali ubalulekile, ngakumbi xa kufikwa ekuthinteleni ezi ngxaki kwaye azibangeli umonakalo ngakumbi kubomi bemihla ngemihla bomntwana ofikisayo.