Xa kuziwa ekuthetheni ngesifo esinzulu kwaye kubalulekile njengokudakumba, sihlala sicinga ngomntu onesifo okanye onesifo. Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa abantu abakhumbulayo iqabane elihlala nomntu oxinezelekileyo kwaye kunzima kangakanani ukukwazi ukuphila ngale ndlela.
Le meko kunzima ukujongana nayo, nangona kulandelwa uthotho lwezikhokelo okanye amanyathelo, Inganyangeka ingxaki enjalo kunye nokukwazi ukuhlala kunye ngendlela esempilweni.
Ukuhlala neqabane elinexinzelelo
Kukho inani leempawu ezibonisa ukuba iqabane lakho linengxaki yoxinzelelo. Ukucaphuka, ukungakhathali okanye ukungabikho komnqweno wesini ziimpawu ezicacileyo zomntu onesifo esidakisayo. Kungabonakala ngathi umntu ogulayo ngokwakhe akayazi into eyenzekayo kuye, nangona ehlala nomnye umntu ibonakala ngokulula kuye kwaye oku kuhlala kukhokelela kwiingxaki ezithile kwesi sibini.
Enye yeemeko zesibini esichaphazelekayo kukudakumba ngokwesondo. Umntu oxinezelekileyo uneengxaki ezinzulu xa kuziwa kwimvakalelo yesondo kwiqabane lakhe. Oku kuba kukutsala kulwalamano ngokwalo, ngakumbi ukuba isisombululo asifuneki ngexesha.
Ukungakhathali kunye nokungabi namdla kuyo yonke into yenye yeempawu ezicacileyo zomntu onesifo soxinzelelo. Akululanga okanye kulula ukuba isibini sibone imihla ngemihla ukuba umntu lowo uphulukana njani nomdla kuyo yonke into kwaye ungabonisi nantoni na engekhoyo malunga nantoni na engqongileyo.
Wenza ntoni umntu ongenalo unxunguphalo
Esi sibini kufuneka sibonise uvelwano oluphezulu kwaye uqonde ukuba ukudakumba sisifo sengqondo esibi kakhulu kunokuba abantu banokuqonda ekuqaleni. Umonde yenye into ekufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo kwaye kubalulekile ukuba umntu onoxinzelelo aziqonde ukuba uyagula kwaye ufuna uncedo kwiingcali. Ukuba ayinyangwa ngexesha nangendlela efanelekileyo, ukudakumba kunokuba kubi ngakumbi kwaye kuphele isibini. Kukwabalulekile ukuba indawo esempilweni yesi sibini ibe nexesha lokuqhawuka kumaqabane abo, kuba kukho umngcipheko wokuba uxinzelelo lunokusasazeka kwaye luyinxalenye yento eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabo bobabini.
Uyiphatha njani ingxaki enjalo kwisibini
Kuya kufuneka siqale kwisiseko sokuba uxinzelelo sisifo sengqondo ekufuneka sinyangwe ngokukhawuleza. Umntu oxinezelekileyo kufuneka abenendawo yakhe xa ezibeka ezandleni zengcali. Ukuba ayiphathwa kakuhle, Ukudakumba kuya kuthabatha kancinci kancinci kwaye kutshabalalise ubudlelwane. Ukudinwa ngokweemvakalelo kubaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi kwinxalenye esempilweni yesi sibini.
Awunakunyanzela umntu oxinezelekileyo ukuba aphile kwaye onwabe, ke kwiimeko ezinjalo kulungile ukuzama ukusombulula ingxaki ukuze ubudlelwane bube sempilweni kangangoko. Khumbula ukuba umntu ogulayo kufuneka afune ukuncedwa, kuba uxinzelelo ayingomcebisi olungileyo xa kufikwa kunyango lwesifo sengqondo esifana nokudakumba.