Ukuba ne-adventure kunokuba yinto emnandi, unokuziva ngathi uku-roller coaster. Nokuba umcimbi udlulile, unokukufundisa okuninzi malunga nokwabelana ngesondo, ubudlelwane, okanye uthando. Kodwa kuyakufika ixesha apho kuyakufuneka ubonakalise ukuba ingaba le nto yenzekayo kuwe naloo mntu yinto yokwenyani na okanye yinto nje yolonwabo. Ukuba awukwenzi oko, unokugqibela ngokuba neemvakalelo ezonakeleyo.
Into efunwa ngumntu wonke kukuthandana okubandakanya umtsalane ngokwasemzimbeni, ukuhlala kunye nabahlobo, umnqweno wokuhlala kubudlelwane bomntu omnye, kunye nezinto enomdla kuzo. Ngale nto yonke engqondweni, ugqiba njani ukuba umntu onaye ngumcimbi nje okanye luthando lwexesha elide? Sikunceda apha ngezantsi.
Ukhe wadibana nabahlobo bakhe?
Usenokuba umbonile okwethutyana loo mntu kodwa awulazi usapho lwabo okanye nabahlobo babo. Xa udibana nomntu oziva unxibelelene kakhulu naye, ufuna wonke umntu azi. Kufana nesiko lokudlula, oko kukuthi, ukuya phambili (okanye hayi) kwabantu abanezimvo zabo esizixabisileyo.
Ukuba kukho ukulibaziseka kwintshayelelo yosapho, iqabane lakho linokufuna ukuzenzela izigqibo ngawe ngaphandle kokuchatshazelwa ngokufanelekileyo nangalunganga ngabanye. Ayinguye wonke umntu ofuna izimvo zangaphandle ade enze isigqibo sakhe. Nangona, Ukuba khange yenzeke ngokwendalo kwiinyanga ezimbini, unokukhetha isicwangciso sokuphuma.
Ukuba akekho phambi kwakho, awucingi ngaye
Ngalo lonke ixesha nikunye, niphezu kwenye; Nibambana ngezandla, niyangana, niyathandana ... Kodwa xa nithe nahlukana, unxibelelwano luyancipha. Ukunyaniseka, abantu abaxakekileyo bahlala bekwazi ukwahlula ubomi babo. Bajolise kwaye babekhona ngomsebenzi owenziweyo, oko kuthetha ukuba xa ungekho, mhlawumbi banikela ingqalelo kwenye into.
Kufanelekile ukukhathazeka ukuba uyazi ukuba akukho shedyuli zixakekileyo okanye amakhondo afuna ingqalelo yakho. Ukuba izithuba phakathi kotyelelo lwakho ziba nde kwaye akukho mzamo wenziweyo emva kweeyure zomsebenzi, ukubona kungalahleka, endaweni yokungabikho kokukhula kothando.
Thetha ngokulindelekileyo
Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokulindelekileyo ngaphambili. Asinguye wonke umntu ofuna iqabane lobomi. Abanye abantu bonwabile kunye nolonwabo kunye nokufuna ubudlelwane obusekwe kuphela kulonwabo nakulonwabo.
Akukho nto ilungileyo okanye engalunganga, yinto nje yokhetho. Iba yingxaki xa ucinga ukuba izinto ezilindelwe ngabanye ziyafana nezakho. Ukuba umdla wakho wothando ujonge iqabane lexesha elide, yazisa iincoko ezisekwe kwikamva kwaye ubeke ingqalelo kwiimpendulo. Ukuba umntu uzimisele ngawe, uya kuziva ukhululekile kwaye uyonwaba kukuba uze naye. Ukuba benza kuphela izizathu zakho, kungenxa yokuba abekho kumgca wakho wothando.
Cinga malunga nokuba uyafuna nyani na ulwalamano okanye ubudlelwane bokwenyani.