Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba iqabane lakho liyakudika kancinci, Sukuba nexhala, kwenzeka kweyona nto ilungileyo kuthi kuba masijongane nayo: emva kwethutyana, ukonwaba kuyaphela. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, sinomdla kumntu omtsha ebomini bethu kwaye ukuthandana naye kufana nokuphumelela iLotto.
Emva kwethutyana usiya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya, KWAKHONA, akubonakali ngathi iyathandeka. Kwaye ukuba umntu othandana naye ayilohlobo olucingayo, unokuwela kwimikhwa ekude kakhulu ukuba inike umdla. Kule nqaku, ndikunika ezinye izimvo malunga nendlela yokuphalaza ulwalamano lwakho kwakhona kwaye wenze izinto zibe nomdla ngakumbi.
Ubusuku obukhethekileyo
Sonke sifuna ukuba izibini zethu zibenobusuku obukhethekileyo. Ngelishwa, abahlali becinga kakhulu kwaye into abayithatha njengobusuku obukhulu ayisiyiyo le nto uyijonga njengobusuku obuhle. Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukuthetha ngobusuku obunokuba bukhethekileyo- into eniyifumana nobabini yothando, kunye nezinto ocinga ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ukuzihlola kunye, nokuba kukuhamba okanye kukuya kumyuziyam. Ukuba awuyazi into oyithandayo, kunzima ukwenza izinto ezizodwa.
Okwesibini, ungaqala ukuyitshintsha le nto uza nayo uyenze ikhetheke. Ubomi bemihla ngemihla bunokwenza ukuba imihla enzima ibe nzima, ke uninzi lweeveki unokukhetha ukuba nesidlo sangokuhlwa ekhaya, indawo yokutyela, okanye imovie. Kodwa thatha isigqibo sokuba kube kanye kwiiveki ezimbini, okanye kanye ngenyanga, kuya kuba komnye wenu ukukhetha into ephucukileyo njengokuphuma impelaveki okanye ukuya kwindawo yemidlalo yeqonga, umzekelo.
Ubusuku obukhethekileyo
Uluvo olonwabisayo kukuba, ulandela inqaku elidlulileyo, ungabhala izimvo ezahlukeneyo kwiphetshana uze uzifake engqayini. Banokuba yimibono yokudala ubusuku obukhethekileyo kwaye babeke ngokungacwangciswanga. A) Ewe, ngalo lonke ixesha ufuna ubusuku obukhethekileyo kufuneka ubeke isandla sakho kwaye ufumane umbono wokuba ubenze kwaye ube nexesha elimnandi.
Ukukhula kunye
Ukuba ucinga ukuba "isithandwa sam siyadika," inokubakho ngenxa yokuba ubambekile njengesibini. Izinto ezimileyo ziyafa. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, Kuya kufuneka nikhule njengesibini, nifunde kunye kunye / okanye nibe namava amatsha kunye.
Ukufunda kunye
Xa ufunda, uyakhula kwaye uyakhula, nto leyo ekwenza uzive wanelisekile. Xa ufunda into onomdla kuyo, wenza into oyithandayo, oko kuthetha ukuba wonwabile. Ukonwaba kunye kubalulekile, njengokukhula kunye.
Ncokolani kwaye nifumanise ukuba ngaba ikhona into enifuna ukuyifunda kunye. Umzekelo, unokuba uphupha ngokuya eFrance kunye kwaye ungathatha ikhosi yesiFrentshi kunye, funda ukupheka isiFrentshi kunye, umzekelo. Inokuba yiyo nantoni na ukusuka kwikhosi yokufota ukuya kufunda indlela yokuntywila. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba nenza into apho nihlangana khona njengoko nikhula kunye njengomntu ngamnye.
Musa ukuvumela ilangatye lakho lothando ukuba liphume!