Asingabo bonke abantu abaluva uthando ngendlela efanayo okanye ngendlela efanayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho uthotho lotshintsho lweemvakalelo oludla ngokuvakala xa uthandana nomnye umntu. Kwakhona kuhle ukuba sibonise ukuba uthando olufanayo oluviwa xa udibana nomntu alufani nolo luvakala emva kweminyaka yobudlelwane.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe ukuba kunjani ukuba nothando lokwenene.
Iibhabhathane esiswini
Amabhabhathane adumileyo esiswini ozivayo xa ufumana uthando, Ayikho enye into ngaphandle kweqhina elizibumbayo xa uthandana nomntu.. Kuqhelekile, ke ngoko, ukuba nemithambo-luvo ethile idityaniswe nokubetha ngamandla esiswini, ngakumbi ngexesha lesigaba sokuqala sokuthandana. Ukubona umntu omthandayo kunye nokuziva ubukho bakhe kwanele ukuba uzive ukubetha ngamandla kwisisu sakho sonke. Njengoko ixesha lihamba, oku kubetha kuncipha kancinci kancinci.
Ukubetha kwentliziyo ngokukhawuleza
Ukukhawulezisa kwentliziyo yenye yezo mvakalelo adla ngokuba nazo umntu othandana nomnye umntu. Ukubetha kwentliziyo kuba ngokukhawuleza kakhulu kwaye kubonakala ngathi intliziyo iya kugqiba ukugqabhuka ngaphandle kwesifuba. Konke oku kungenxa yokuxubana kovalo kunye nemincili eninzi. Uziva njani umntu xa ebona iqabane lakhe?
Ukuqhuma kweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo
Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba xa uthandana nomntu, kukho ukuqhuma okukhulu kweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo zitshintshwe. Ixesha elidlulele, Ezi mvakalelo zizolile kwaye zilungelelanise nokuba uziva umthanda kakhulu omnye umntu.
Chitha ixesha elininzi kunye neqabane lakho
Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ekuqaleni naluphi na ulwalamano, Ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunye nomntu omthandayo. Njengoko ixesha lihamba, kubalulekile ukuba nexesha elithile lobuqu, ukuze ubudlelwane bungabi xhomekeke. Kuthando lokwenene, iqela ngalinye linenkululeko ethile yokwenza oko likubona kuyimfuneko yaye liyayihlonela indawo yobuqu yesibini. Akulunganga ukuba phithi ngulomntu umthandayo kuba ubuhlobo obunempilo busekelwe kwintlonipho nenkululeko.
Ulikhathalele kakhulu iqabane lakho
Ukuxhalabela lowo umthandayo yenye yezo mvakalelo ezenzekayo xa ufumana uthando. Njengoko iminyaka kunye nexesha lihamba, Inkxalabo iba nkulu ngakumbi. Ukuthandana ngokwenene nomnye umntu kuthetha ukuba uzive uphelele kuye kwaye iingxaki zabo zibe zezakho.
Ukumiselwa kwesi sibini
Kuqhelekile ukuba xa ufumene uthando uze ucingele omnye umntu. Ucinga ukuba igqibelele yaye ayinalo naluphi na uhlobo lwesiphene. Le yinto eyenzekayo kwisigaba sothando kodwa iyanyamalala ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kufuneka uqaphele ngamaxesha onke ukuba umntu ofezekileyo akakho.
Xa uthandana nomnye umntu, umamkela njengoko enjalo, zombini iimpawu zakhe ezintle kunye neziphene zakhe. Awunakuzama ukumtshintsha umntu kuba ihlala ifana nasekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Oko kuvakala kukuthanda ngokwenene luthando olukhulu kunye nothando ngakulowo umthandayo ngaphandle kweziphene abanazo.
Ngamafutshane, uthando yinto ephantsi kwaye Umntu ngamnye uhlangabezana nayo ngendlela eyahlukileyo neyahlukileyo.. Nangona kunjalo, kukho uthotho lweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezihlala zivakala xa ufumana uthando lokwenene. Kukho uthotho lweenguqu ezingokweemvakalelo, ezinjengamabhabhathane adumileyo esiswini okanye ukukhawulezisa kwentliziyo, uninzi lwabantu ludla ngokuba nakho xa kufikwa ekufumaneni umntu omthandayo.