Kuba uninzi lwezibini Ukwabelana ngesondo yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kwaye iyimfuneko ukuze ubudlelwane busebenze. Kungenxa yoko ukuba kukho umlinganiselo othile wokudinwa ngokwesondo, ubudlelwane bunokuba buthathaka kwaye bubeke umngcipheko othile wokuqhekeka. Kwiimeko ezinjalo kubalulekile ukubaleka kwindlela yokuzonwabisa ngesondo njengesibini kwakhona.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela kutheni isithukuthezi ngokwesondo singenzeka phakathi kwesibini kwaye wenze ntoni ukusombulula ingxaki enjalo.
Izizathu zokudikwa ngokwesondo kwesi sibini
Nangona kukho izibini ezikhululekile kunye nenkqubo ethile kwintsimi yesini, kukho abanye abafuna ukufumana izinto ezintsha ukuze bangaweli kwisithukuthezi esithile ngokwesini. Ukuphindaphinda imikhwa ethile xa usabelana ngesondo kunokukwenza kubonakale ukukruquka kwaye ungakonwabeli ngokupheleleyo isini.
Esinye sezizathu zokuba kutheni isithukuthezi esinjalo singenzeka ngenxa yobukho be Iingxaki ezinzulu zobudlelwane. Isenokuba yimeko yokunganxibelelani kakuhle okanye ukungabi naxesha elisemgangathweni kwesibini. Ezo ngxaki ziphelela ekubeni nefuthe elingqalileyo nelibi kwiintlobano zesini.
Yintoni enokwenziwa ukunyanga isithukuthezi ngokwesondo kwesi sibini
Kuye kwangqinwa ukuba abo batshatileyo banesithukuthezi kwintsimi yesondo, baphela beneengxaki ezinzulu ngokweemvakalelo nomntu abamthandayo. Kwixesha elide, iphelela ekubeni ithathe inxaxheba kubudlelwane obuye buwohloke ngokuthe ngcembe kunye nomngcipheko wokuba oku kubandakanya ukuphela kwayo. Kungenxa yoko kwimeko yokufikelela kwisithukuthezi esinjalo kubalulekile ukuqwalasela uluhlu lweengcebiso okanye iingcebiso:
- Akulunganga ukuqhelanisa isithukuthezi esinjalo ngokwesondo, kuba ngokuhamba kwexesha kugcina kuphembelela ikamva elihle lobudlelwane. Ukwabelana ngesondo kubalulekile xa kufikwa ekuqiniseni iqhina elidalwe kunye nokufezekisa intlalontle ethile phakathi kwesibini. Ukuba ukukruquka kuyabonakala, kulungile ukuya kwingcali eyaziyo indlela yokujongana nomcimbi kwaye okwaziyo ukufumana ezona zisombululo zifanelekileyo.
- Kufuneka ubaleke kwindlela yesiqhelo kwaye uqale ukuhlola izinto ezintsha ezivuselela isondo kwisibini. Kuhle ukuhlala phantsi nize nithethe ngokuthe ngqo malunga nokungakhuseleki eninokuba nako ngokuphathelele isini. Ukuziva ukuzithemba kwiqabane lakho kunokukunceda ukuba ukonwabele ngokupheleleyo ulonwabo kunye nesondo kwaye uphume kwisiqhelo ngendlela eqinisekileyo.
- Xa ujongene nokukruquka ngokwesondo kukwalungile ukuvuselela ulwalamano ngokwalo. Ngoko ke, akuyimfuneko ukuhlala ngesondo kodwa ekuqhubeni imisebenzi ethile njengesibini esiza kuqinisa ubudlelwane obubuthathaka kwakhona. Ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni nomntu wakho omthandayo yinto enokunceda ukuvusa umnqweno nothando phakathi kwesi sibini. Ke ngoko, unganqikazi ukonwabela umsebenzi odibeneyo okanye into elula yokuba nesidlo sothando kunye nokubukela imovie kunye. Ukuvuselela amaqhina obudlelwane kubandakanya ukukwazi ukonwabela ubudlelwane bezesondo kwakhona kunye nokubeka ecaleni ukukruquka okukhankanywe ngasentla.
Ngamafutshane, kuyinyani ukuba isibini ngasinye sahlukile kwaye isini asinamava kwaye sinanditshwa ngendlela efanayo. Kukho ubudlelwane ababini apho imikhwa malunga nesondo, zibangela isithukuthezi esithile esingaluzuziyo ulwalamano ngokwalo. Ukuba nesithukuthezi ebhedini kunye neqabane lakho kunokuba yintshayelelo yokuba ubudlelwane abuhambi kakuhle kwaphela kwaye buyawohloka. Kwezi meko kubalulekile ukuphatha isithukuthezi esinjalo kwaye ngaloo ndlela uthintele ubudlelwane ekuqhekekeni.