Kobu bomi akukho mntu ugqibelele kwaye akukho buhlobo bubonakalayo njengoko kubonakala ngathi kwi-Instagram, (kodwa bubuxoki). Nangona unokuba ne-soulmate yakho, oko akuthethi ukuba ilungele wena ... inokubangela iintlungu ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ibe ngumthombo omkhulu woxinzelelo ukuba awunabudlelwane bulungileyo
Nabani na owathi ubudlelwane buhlala buxokiswa lula. Ukuthanda umntu kunokuba lula, kodwa ukujongana nomnye umntu ekufuneka wabelane naye ngobomi bakho akusoloko kulula. Nazi ezinye zezinto ekufuneka uzamkele ukuba ufuna ubudlelwane obuhle.
Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo kubudlelwane obuhle
Akukho mntu ugqibelele, kwaye ulindele ukuba iqabane lakho lingabinanto kule nto lihlekisayo. Sonke singabantu, ke sonke siza kwenza iimpazamo kwezinye iindawo. Yivume, wenze iimpazamo ezinkulu kubudlelwane bakho ngexesha elinye okanye kwelinye. Iqinisekile ukuba yenzeke… Xa usamkela omnye umntu ngenxa yoko ayiyo kunoko ayikho yonke into ayiyo, ubomi bakho abuzukuba noxinzelelo. Iqabane lakho aliyi kuhlala linakho ukwazi ukuba yenze ntoni engalunganga.
Ewe, akhona amaxesha apho amaqabane ethu enze impazamo enkulu kwaye ufana "Wayengenakuyiqonda njani?" Uya kuba lapho. Mamaxesha amaninzi. Abasoloko bakrelekrele. Ngezinto ezithile, akufuneki uxolele, njengokuphathwa gadalala, ukuthotywa okanye ukungabi nantlonelo.
Awunakho ukutshintsha iqabane lakho
Awunakumtshintsha umntu osecaleni kwakho, oko kukuthi, ngubani onako, kodwa hayi ubuntu bakhe. Awunakunyanzela umntu othandana naye ukuba aziphathe ngendlela ethile kuba ucinga kufanelekile. Umntu utshintsha kuphela xa ebona kunyanzelekile ukuba akwenzele ukulungelwa kwakhe ... kwaye ukuba awumthandi, ke kungcono umyeke ahambe ngobomi bakho.
Kuya kufuneka uthathe okuhle kokubi kwaye ubone ukuba uzimisele kangakanani na. Ukuba abakuphathi kakuhle, hamba. Kodwa ukuba iqabane lakho linee-quirks ezimbalwa ezikukhathazayo, kuya kufuneka ujongane nazo. Yamkela umntu wakhe. Uzama ukuba nobudlelwane nomntu, hayi ukuba ngumama okanye ugqirha. Awungekhe ubaxelele ukuba mabenze ntoni ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye uzame ukubenza babe ngabantu abangengabo.
Ayizizo zonke izinto ezakuba lula
Zonke izibini zihamba ngento evavanya ulwalamano lwabo. Nokuba kungumntu ocaphukisayo, ixesha okanye umgama. Sonke kuvavanyiwe ukubona ukuba ubudlelwane abomelelanga ngokwaneleyo, kodwa kufanelekile. Kuza kubakho iimfazwe kwaye kuya kubakho amaxesha anzima. Ukuba akukho, kulungile Nokuba uxoka okanye awukabikho.
Ukwabelana ngobomi bakho nomnye umntu akusoloko kulula. Xa uqala ukubandakanya omnye umntu ebomini bakho, kuya kufuneka ubeke umgudu. Unxibelelwano luya kuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kulo naluphi na ubudlelwane. Ewe, oko kunye nokuzithemba. Ukuba awuzithembi, awunanto.
Njengabantu ababini abahlukeneyo, anisayi kuhlala nivumelana kwinto yonke. Kuya kwenzeka. Awusoloko ufuna ukutya okufanayo okanye uye kwiindawo ezifanayo. Sukuvumela izinto ezincinci zingene endleleni yolonwabo lwakho.