Iimpawu ze-9 ozifumene ngaphezulu kwe-ex yakho

Kukho imiqondiso yokuba ufumene ukwahlukana ne ex yakho. Usenokucinga ukuba usentlungwini yokuphulukana nabo kodwa siyathemba ukuba ngeli nqaku ungaliqonda kwaye ufunde indlela yokoyisa ukwahlukana. Ingangunobangela wokuba woyise loo ndawo yentlambululo-miphefumlo ekhubazekileyo.

Kuba iveki inde ngokwaneleyo ukufumana ngaphezulu komntu kube kanye, kubalulekile ukuba uzihlole. Kwireferensi yakho, nantsi eminye imiqondiso oyifumene kwi-ex yakho kwaye usendleleni eya kubomi obunempilo nobonwabileyo.

Ngaba ufumene i-ex yakho?

1. Awuziva ungathembekanga xa uthandana nomnye umntu.  Ngapha koko, uya kuziva wonwabile. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngenxa yokuba ubudlelwane bakho ne ex yakho khange busebenze ayithethi ukuba akufuneki ufumane ulonwabo nomnye umntu.
2. Awuziva unesidingo sokubuyisa iifowuni zakho zangaphambili okanye isicatshulwa. Oku kuyenzeka kuba akusekho ndawo yokuqala entliziyweni yakho. Ayikuko ukuba uya kuyibona impazamo endleleni yakho, kukuba ayisiyiyo eyona nto iphambili kuwe.
3. Unomdla kwabanye abantu. Xa wena ne-ex yakho yokuqala niqhekeka, wawucinga ukuba awusoze uphinde uluva uthando, kodwa ngoku ngesiquphe uqala ukuziva umnyumbazana.
4. Ngoku uyaqonda ukuba izinto ezininzi ngobuntu bakhe zazicaphukisa. Njengomzekelo inyani yokuba waye ulixoki okanye umphathi. Ukuba awusamboni ngeiglasi ezinemibala evusayo ... uyifumene.
5. Ulwalamano lwakho ngamava okufunda. Xa ukhumbula izinto ezonwabisayo phakathi kwenu nobabini, uyancuma. Ewe, bekukho iingxaki ezinzulu, kodwa ngoku unombulelo kuba lo mntu udlulile ebomini bakho kuba sele uyazi ukuba ujonge ntoni kwixesha elizayo. Kwaye obu buhlungu buhlungu oye wabuva ngexesha lokwahlukana kunye nexesha elilandelayo lokulila? Kukwenze womelela kuphela.
6. Awusayi kumbeka ityala ngayo yonke into.  Kwixesha elidlulileyo, ubukrakra obafumeneyo ngenxa yoqhawulo-mtshato lwakho lubangele ukuba utofe amagqabantshintshi ngaye kuyo yonke incoko. Iphelile loo nto.
7. Xa udibana nomfana omtsha, awumthelekisi ngokuzenzekelayo kwi-ex yakho. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa awunakuze uhendwe ukuba uyizise ngomhla wakho wokuqala. Endaweni yoko, unomdla wokwenene wokufunda ngakumbi malunga nobomi balo mfo mtsha, kwaye xa ubuzwa malunga naye, ungazibonakalisa ungowasetyhini onezinto zokuzonwabisa ezahlukileyo kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo kwabo wabelana neqabane lakho lakudala.
8. Uzibona njengomntu ongatshatanga, hayi umntu ophelise ubudlelwane. Uzenzele ukuzisizela ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo kwaye ulungele kwakhona ukwamkela ulonwabo, i-adventure, kunye namathuba angenamda ebomini bakho emehlweni akho. Ukuba ukonwabele ukungatshati, ulungile apho kufuneka ubekhona.
9. Zama ukukhumbula inani labo kodwa akuphumi.  Ndiyakuvuyela! Inkcitho engeyomfuneko yexesha lakho kunye isuswe ngokusemthethweni kwinkqubo yakho. Ngoku phuma uye kufumana umntu ongayi kukunika i-migraine engapheliyo. Okanye thatha nje lula kwaye uchithe ixesha elinomgangatho kunye nomntu obaluleke kakhulu: wena.