Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba awunamdla kwiqabane lakho kunakuqala, okanye iimvakalelo zakho zitshintshile. Kukho imiqondiso yokuba mhlawumbi uziva ulusizi… Uthando luyinto enzima… Luluvakalelo olugcwele uthando, uthando, umdla, usizi kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, nditsho nokudideka. Kodwa Kulula ukuthandana nomntu njengokuba kunjalo ukuthandana.
Kodwa ungazi njani ukuba ubuphelise nini ubudlelwane kwaye uqhubeke, okanye uzame nje ukuvuselela uthando phakathi kwakho? Emva koko siza kuchaza ezinye Iimpawu zentliziyo ebuhlungu ukuze uvavanye imeko yakho kwiqabane lakho ngeli xesha.
Awufuni ukuba secaleni kwakhe ixesha elide
Ngexesha lesigaba somlilo sobudlelwane, mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba phakathi kweqabane lakho ngokoqobo 24/7. Kwaye ngelixa kungokwemvelo ngokupheleleyo ukufuna indawo ethe kratya njengoko ubudlelwane buqhubeka, kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kokuqhubeka nobomi bakho kunye okanye ngokungafuni ukuba kuye. Umzekelo Ukuba wenza izizathu zokungabinamhla wokuthandana neqabane lakho, usenokuba uqala ukuthandana.
Akukho thando
Uyazikhumbula ezo seshoni zokuzenzela esofeni? Ungathini ngawo onke la maxesha xa ungakwazanga ukugcina izandla zakho zisondele omnye komnye ngaphezulu kwemizuzu emihlanu? Ukuba uthando luye lwanyamalala kubudlelwane bakho kwaye awufuni nokunika iqabane lakho uthando obukade unalo, Usenokuba uthandana nothando lwakho kunye nesoka lakho okanye intombi yakho.
Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokuthetha ukuba inkanuko ifuna nje intlantsi ukuze izinto ziphinde zihambe. Ngaphambi kokuba uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba awuthandani, zama ukuvuselela inkanuko kulwalamano lwakho. ukubona ukuba ubona iziqhushumbisi elinye ixesha.
Zininzi iimpikiswano
Njengokuba ixesha lihamba, wena neqabane lakho niza kuqala ukuphikisana ngaphezulu, iyinyani. Kodwa Ukuba akubonakali ngathi unencoko imizuzu emi-5 ngaphandle kokuphikisana ngento ethile, inokuba lixesha lokuphelisa ubudlelwane kwaye uthandane nomnye umntu.
Awunangxaki nokophula
Kwakuqhele ukuba sisihogo ukucinga ukophuka kunye neqabane lakho, ucinga ukuba ngekhe uphile ngaphandle kwakhe. Kodwa ngoku ingqondo yakho icinga ngokwahlukileyo kwaye ucinga ukuba ngekhe kubi kangako ukukunika ikhefu okanye ukugqiba izinto ngokupheleleyo.
Uneengcinga ezingalunganga ngaphezu kweengcinga ezintle malunga neqabane lakho
Cinga ngesoka okanye intombi yakho- ngaba wonwabile kwaye unezimvo ezilungileyo malunga nabo? Okanye ngaba iimpazamo zigqithise ngokupheleleyo iipositi? Ukuba ukukunika imeko engalunganga ngaphezu kokuqinisekileyo, uphulukana nomdla kwaye uyawa luthando.
Uyakuphepha ukuthetha ngekamva
Olu luphawu OLUKHULU lokuba anisathandani. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, xa usebudlelwaneni obuzinikeleyo nomntu othile, ucinga kakhulu malunga nendlela eniza kukhula ngayo kunye nokwakha ikamva kunye. Ukuba ikamva alibandakanyi isoka lakho okanye intombi yakho, ngekhe ungazithathi ngokungathí sina kwaye mhlawumbi awubathandi.
Uqala ukubona abanye abantu
Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba udibane nabanye abantu abanomtsalane, kwanaxa uthandana nabantu abazinikeleyo. Kodwa lide lide liye phi eli liso lizulazulayo? Ngaba ujonge umntu ngamnye ohamba ngendlela kwaye uphupha ubathatha ngomhla? Ukuba ufumanisa ujonga abanye abantu kwaye ucinga ngabo, Awusathandani nesithandwa sakho okanye intombi yakho.