Akukho mntu uthandabuzayo ukuba zininzi izibonelelo zokulala neqabane lakho: ukusuka ekuqiniseni ibhondi ukuya ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo okanye amanqanaba okuxhalaba. Ngaphandle koku, isikhundla esamkelweyo xa silala njengesibini sinokunceda ukwazi ukuba leliphi na ixesha ubudlelwane ngokwalo. Ngaloo ndlela, kunokuthiwa ukulala kwi-spoon akufani nokulala ubuso nobuso kunye neqabane lakho.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe yezikhundla ezahlukeneyo zokulala nesibini kwaye ithetha ukuthini kwimeko nganye.
belele begone isibini
Le yinto yothando kwaye Libonisa uthando nomsa okhoyo phakathi kwabantu bobabini. Esi sikhundla sibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane besi sibini bukwithuba elihle ngenxa yothando oluchazwa ngabantu bobabini. Umntu owanga iqabane lakhe ngoxa elele uyalikhusela yaye ulithanda gqitha.
ukulala kwimilo yecephe
Kule ndawo imizimba izingela ngokugqibeleleyo ukwenza enye. Icephe linceda ukuhambisa ukuvisisana okukhoyo kwesi sibini. Lulwalamano apho uthando kunye nenkanuko yongamele kwiindawo ezilinganayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iingcali kulo mbandela wokuba esi sikhundla sinokuthetha ukuba isibini ekuthethwa ngaso sinokungakhuseleki okuthile kwaye asihambi ngelona xesha lifanelekileyo.
imizimba edibeneyo
Ukulala ngokudibeneyo kunye neqabane lakho kuthetha ukuba kukho inkanuko enkulu kunye nomnqweno wesini phakathi kwabantu bobabini. Nangona iyindawo engathandekiyo, Yeyona isetyenziswayo phakathi kwezo zibini ziqala wathi ubudlelwane. Imizimba enxibeleleneyo sisikhundla esisetyenziswa ngokubanzi emva kokuba sonwabele isondo esithile nesi sibini.
Ngamnye kwindawo yakhe kodwa echukumisa
Esinye sezikhundla kunokuba kukuhlonipha isithuba somnye kodwa kugcinwe unxibelelwano lomzimba. Uqhagamshelwano olunjalo lunokubandakanya ukuxhawula izandla okanye ukuphumla isandla emlenzeni. Kucingelwa ukuba esi sikhundla sibonisa uthando okanye umsa ubani anawo ngesibini. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokuthetha indlela yokuxolelana neqabane emva komlo okanye ingxabano.
Umva kunye nokuchukumisa
Ukuba isikhundla kukulala ngomqolo ngelixa ugcina unxibelelwano lomzimba, oko kubonisa ukuba kubudlelwane iqela ngalinye liyonwabela indawo yalo kodwa uthando kunye nothando aluhoywa. Le ndlela yokuma ngexesha lokulala ibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane besi sibini busempilweni kwaye buzinzile. Kukho ukuthembana okukhulu kwaye oku kunempembelelo entle kubudlelwane.
Ukwahluliwe kunye nomva
Ukulala ngokwahlukileyo nangasemva Ingabonisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga kubudlelwane. Idla ngokuba sisikhundla esikhethiweyo emva kokulwa nesi sibini. Ukulala ngomqolo wakho kunokubonisa umnqweno wamaqela ukuba ube nokuzimela kancinci kwimihla ngemihla.
Ngaphambili nangaphandle kokudibana ngokwasemzimbeni
Esi sikhundla sixhaphake kakhulu kwezo zibini zifuna ubumfihlo kwaye zihloniphe indawo yomnye umntu. Ubudlelwane buhamba ngexesha elihle ekubeni inxalenye nganye yamkela isithuba selinye ngaphandle kokulibala ubudlelwane ngokwalo. Luhlobo lobudlelwane obuqolileyo apho amaqela ayazi kakuhle into ayifunayo kwaye yintoni efunekayo ukuze ubudlelwane buhlale ixesha elide ngaphandle kwengxaki.
Ngamafutshane, unxibelelwano olungasebenzisi magama lubaluleke kakhulu kuninzi lwabantu kunye ngoko ke inesehlo esikhulu kwesi sibini. Izikhundla ezahlukeneyo ezamkelwa ebhedini zinokunceda ukwazi imeko yokwenyani apho ubudlelwane obuthile bukhoyo.