Ukuba iqabane lakho lisebenza ngokwahlukileyo okanye ngokukrokrela, usenokukukhohlisa nomhlobo wakho ... Inokwenzeka nakubani na nokuba ayisositya sinencasa elungileyo. Ukuba sele kunzima xa iqabane likopela kuwe nomntu ongamaziyo, kunokuba nzima nangakumbi xa ukukopela ukunye nomhlobo ... ulonwabo lwakho luya kuchukumiseka, kodwa nesidima sakho.
Emva koko siza kukuxelela imiqondiso enokubonisa ukuba umyeni wakho okanye iqabane lakho liyakuqhatha nomhlobo wakho.
I-sex drive yakho iyatshintsha
Ukuba ungumfazi otshatileyo, uyakuqaphela ngokulula ukuba akukho lutshintsho lubi kwiminqweno yesini yendoda yakho. Olunye lweempawu zokuba iqabane lakho liyakukhohlisa kunye nomhlobo wakho kukuba inkanuko yesondo yahlukile kubusuku obunye. Usenokuba awunabo obona bomi bumnandi besini ngaphambili, kodwa ngoku akunakubabiza ngokuba bubomi bezesondo. Ngapha koko, ukuba iyakuchukumisa ngokusondeleyo, sisiganeko ekufuneka usikhumbule.
Njengomyeni okopelayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uchithe la mandla kumhlobo wakho. Nika ingqalelo imeko yakhe ngokubanzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo unokuxelela xa umfazi efumana uthando oluncinci kunye nokuqwalaselwa ngokulula "kukukhanya" kwakhe.
Iqala ukunxiba ngokwahlukileyo
Umyeni wakho okanye iqabane lakho belinxiba ngendlela efanayo iminyaka. Ngapha koko, unokuqikelela ukuba uza kunxiba ntoni ukusebenza yonke imihla, ukuba unuka njani, kunye nendlela akhetha ukuba yiyo. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda akopelayo ahlala ixesha elininzi esipilini, ukutshintsha inkangeleko yayo kancinane kakhulu ukuze ilungele indlela ophila ngayo.
Ufuna ukubonisa "i-adventure" yakhe, ke uya kwenza nantoni na ukuze abonakale enomtsalane. Ukuba umbona ethenga iikawusi ezintsha okanye impahla yangaphantsi, kufuneka uqaphele! Nika ingqalelo imbonakalo yakhe kwaye uzikhathalele ngakumbi ukuze ube mhle ngakumbi.
Nika ingqalelo engakumbi kwinkangeleko yazo
Kungenzeka ukuba uhamba nobunzima bokubeletha obufunayo ukuba uphinde ubonakale umncinci, okanye unokujongana nomlingane wakho okopayo.
Kulumkele ukubuthana kosapho kunye neendibano zabahlobo
Khumbula, indoda ethandana nawe iyaya kwindibano zosapho, nokuba ayifuni nyani, ukuze wonwabe. Ukuba wayeka ukuzama ukonwaba, ngaba kufuneka uzibuze ukuba uzama ukonwabisa omnye umntu?
Kukhusela ngakumbi kwaye kuyacaphuka
Ngaba uzifumanisa ubuza umyeni wakho umbuzo oqinisekileyo malunga nokuba uphi ukuze ufumane impendulo yokuzikhusela? Mhlawumbi ubonakala enomsindo ngakumbi xa ezama ukuncokola nawe. Khumbula, indoda emsulwa iya kwenza ngokwahlukileyo kunendoda efuna ukufihla into. Xa ujonge imiqondiso yokuba iqabane lakho liyakukhohlisa kunye nomhlobo wakho, hlala uvavanya impendulo yabo kwimibuzo yobuqu. Unokudideka xa uphendula umbuzo olula, okanye unokuzikhusela.
Umyeni wakho kunye nomhlobo wakho babonakala bengonwabanga ngobukho bakho.
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba ungambona umhlobo wakho engaphantsi kwesiqhelo kwaye umyeni wakho ebonakala ekhathazekile (ngokwaneleyo ukuchitha ixesha elincinane nawe) xa ekugqibeleni ubahlanganisile okomzuzwana, babonakala bengonwabanga kwaye benoloyiko. Nangona kunjalo, oku kuyinyani kuphela ukuba banalo uhlobo oluthile lokuzisola ngokwenzekayo. Khumbula, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ayilotyala lakho. Benze isigqibo sokukopela, hayi wena.