Xa iiholide ziphelile, Nokuba ibikwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa, kunokuba nzima kakhulu kubantwana. Nangona Bayazi ukuba iiholide zidlulile, ukubuyela esiqhelweni kunokuba yinto ecaphukisayo, ngakumbi emva kokuchitha iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphandle kweziqhelo, njengokuvuka nanini na okanye ungenzi nawuphi na umsebenzi wesikolo.
Ngesi sizathu, kuyacetyiswa ukuba nanini na xa kukho iiholide abantwana balandele ezinye iindlela, nangona bebhetyebhetye ngakumbi, babancede banxibelelane nesakhiwo sabo semihla ngemihla. Nokuba uyenzile le nto okanye akunjalo, ukuba abantwana bakho kunzima ukubuyela "esiqhelweni", kufuneka ulandele ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo.
Menze ukuba acinge ngeqela elilandelayo
Ukuba umntwana wakho uziva elusizi kuba kufuneka aqale phantsi ukwenza izinto kwaye akenzi kwanto kuba akathandi kwenza nto… Thetha naye malunga neqela elizakuba kufutshane, njengempelaveki. Iintsuku ezintlanu kuphela zokulala kancinci kusasa kwaye akufuneki uye esikolweni.
Ulwakhiwo losuku
Thetha nabantwana bakho ngayo yonke into ekufuneka beyenzile ngexesha lasemini ukuze bakwazi ukwenza iskimu sengqondo malunga nemisebenzi yabo yosuku. Ngale ndlela unokuba noxolo lwengqondo ngakumbi malunga noko kufuneka ukwenze, ubume bengqondo malunga nento oza kuyenza kusasa, emini emaqanda okanye emva kwemini nasebusuku. Oku kuya kukunika uxolo lwengqondo kunye nokuzinza kwengqondo.
Cinga kakuhle
Kufuneka ube ngumzekelo omhle kubantwana bakho kwaye uphephe usizi lwangoMvulo okanye usizi emva kweholide ukubuyela emsebenzini. Ukuba unesimo sosizi okanye unxunguphalo kuba kufuneka ubuyele kwiindlela zakho, abantwana bakho baya kufunda ngayo kwaye baya kuxelisa indlela oziphethe ngayo ukuze babonise ukungazithembi ngokubuyela kwinkqubo yesiqhelo.
Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumzekelo kubantwana bakho kwaye ufumane konke okulungileyo onosuku olutsha. Cinga ngazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo ezinokwenzeka kule mihla yokuqala kwesiqhelo. Kwimeko yonyana wakho, ungamxelela ukuba uya kuphinda ababone abahlobo bakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufunda izinto ezininzi esikolweni kwaye uya kukhululeka. Khumbula ukuba eyona nto inamandla emntwaneni kukuba umfundise ngomzekelo wezenzo zakho, ngakumbi kunamazwi akho!
Ngale ndlela, ukusukela ngoku, abantwana bakho banokuba nesimo sengqondo esihle ngakumbi xa iiholide okanye nangeempelaveki ziphelile. Bayakuqonda ukuba izinto zikhona ukonwaba nokuba zizinto "zemihla ngemihla neziqhelekileyo" ezinje ngeeholide zokuphumla nokucinywa. Yonke into inamalungu afanelekileyo ebomini kwaye kufuneka uphile ngoku ukuze wonwabe kwikamva. Ukubuyela esiqhelweni emva kweeholide akukho lula kwabaninzi, kodwa inguqu elungileyo iyimfuneko.