Imfundo yabantwana kufuneka ihlale iqhutywa ngokusekwe kuthotho lweenqobo ezisemgangathweni ezinje ezifana novelwano nentlonipho ngaphandle kokulibala uqeqesho oluthile oluvumela ukuqhelisela ukuba ngumzali ofanelekileyo ofanelekileyo. Ukuze konke oku kwenzeke, ukunxibelelana kakuhle nabantwana ngundoqo ekomelezeni ukuthembana kunye nabo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukubonisa Uluhlu lwamabinzana afanelekileyo omele uwathethe rhoqo kumntwana wakho, ukuze ukuzithemba kwabo komelezwe kuzo zonke iinkalo.
"Ungayifumana"
Ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho abe nokuzithemba okuhle kunye nokuzithemba, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale umkhuthaza ukuba afezekise izinto. Akukho nto ingenakwenzeka kwaye ukuba uzibekela iinjongo ezahlukeneyo ungazifezekisa.
"Ndiyakuthemba"
Umntwana umele azi ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba abazali bakhe bamthemba ngokupheleleyo.. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu xa kuziwa ekuqiniseni ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba okukhulu xa usenza izinto ezahlukeneyo.
"Ndiyayiqonda indlela oziva ngayo"
Uvelwano yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufundiseni abantwana. Abazali kufuneka bakwazi ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zabantwana babo ukuva iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kwaye babancede ukuba bazilawule. Ndiyabulela oku, umntwana uyakwazi ukuqonda ukubaluleka kovelwano ebomini.
"Ndimamele kakuhle"
Enye yeempazamo ezinkulu ezenziwa ngabazali abaninzi namhlanje kukuba ababaphulaphuli abantwana babo. Kubalulekile ukuba ube nemizuzu embalwa ngosuku yokumamela abantwana bakho ngokuzolileyo. Nikela ingqalelo epheleleyo koko umntwana akuthethayo, Imnceda ukuba afumane ukhuseleko nokuzithemba.
"Thembela kum ngayo nantoni na oyifunayo"
Yiba nenkxaso yabazali ukusombulula iingxaki ezithile Yinto enceda ukuqinisa ukuzithemba kwabantwana. Ukungathembeli mntwini xa kufikelelwa ekucombululeni iingxaki ezithile akufani nokwazi ukuba abazali banokunceda ngalo lonke ixesha ekufumaneni izicombululo.
"Ndinebhongo ngawe"
Akukho mvuzo ungcono kumntwana kunokwazi ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nokuzibonela ukuba abazali bakhe bayaziqhenya ngaye. Ngokuqinisekileyo, eli binzana lingundoqo xa kuziwa ekwenzeni umntwana azive enentembelo kakhulu. xa ucinga ngosukelo okanye usukelo oluthile ebomini.
"Ndikuthanda kakhulu"
Ukuba kukho ibinzana elilungileyo ekufuneka nawuphi na umntwana eve kubazali bakhe, lelo. Imiboniso yothando nothando kufuneka iqhubeke ebantwaneni. Ukubonisa uthando ebantwaneni ngundoqo xa kufikelelwa ekomelezeni ukuzithemba kwabo.
Ngamafutshane, la ngamanye amabinzana abazali abafanele bawathethe rhoqo kubantwana babo. La mabinzana ayinxalenye yobuzali obufanelekileyo kwaye zingundoqo xa kuziwa ekomelezeni ukuzithemba nokuzithemba ebantwaneni.