Ba abin mamaki bane cewa yin soyayya yafi son sha'awa fiye da yin jima'i kawai. Yana da wani sabon matakin kusanci da cewa da yawa ma'aurata suna mantawa da zarar sun gama hutun amarci. Kodayake wasu jima'i na jiki na iya zama masu ban sha'awa da kima, yin soyayya kawai yana ba da wani abin da jima'i ba zai iya ba.
An ɗora shi da motsin rai da jin daɗin da ke wurin kuma ya ba da damar fiye da aikin jiki. Idan kun kasance kuna yin jima’i tare da abokin tarayya fiye da yin soyayya, to akwai hanyoyin da za a canza hakan ta yadda lokaci na gaba za a yi soyayya ba jima'i kawai ba.
Kunna kiɗa
Idan kanaso jujjuya jima'i zuwa soyayya, karin sautin kida tabbas zai taimaka. Createirƙiri jerin waƙoƙin soyayya tare da jinkirin karin waƙoƙi waɗanda za su same ku a halin yanzu. Yana da mahimmanci cewa waƙoƙin da ke cikin jerin waƙoƙinku sune waƙoƙin soyayya, babu wakoki game da jima'i, don haka guji duk abin da yake da matukar jima'i saboda zai cire ku daga batun.
Sannu a hankali, wakoki irin na soyayya sune suka fi kyau saboda lokacin da soyayya take gudana a bayan fage, da gaske zaka iya shiga cikin soyayyar da kake ciki.
Haske wasu kyandirori
Kuna iya faɗi abubuwa da yawa game da kyandirori a cikin ɗakin kwana. Dimaramar haske na iya ƙirƙirar yanayi na ƙauna da ke da wahalar guje wa, don haka ƙirƙirar ƙwarewar sha’awa ga juna. Kyandirorin da ke kusa da ku, tare da jerin waƙoƙinku a bayan fage, saita yanayin don kwarewar soyayya wacce bazaku taba mantawa da ita ba.
Wasan Tsokaci
Abubuwan da ke jagorantar jima'i galibi suna da zafi kamar yadda ake yi wa kanta jima'i, don haka idan ka ƙara tsinkaya don tabbatar da cewa soyayya kake yi, hakan yana ƙara muku damar kusancin. Ki sumbaci abokin tarayyarki tun daga kanki har kafa, sannu a hankali bincika kowane inci na jikinka ka ba shi damar yin hakan.
Lokacin da kuka sami damar zama mai rauni tare da abokinku kuma kuka ba shi damar zama ɗaya tare da ku, haɗin haɗin gwiwa zai ƙara ƙyale barin jima'i ya zama soyayya. Kandirin zai ƙone a kusa da kai kuma kiɗan zai kunna a bango, don haka zai zama kamar kai da shi abokin tarayyarka sun kasance a cikin ƙaunarka ta ƙaunatacciyar ƙawancen fim ɗin soyayya.
Idanu ido
Ba a raina ikon tuntuɓar ido. Samun damar kallon warai cikin idanun masoyinku yayin sanya soyayya iya ze zama mai ban tsoro idan baku kasance a can ba har yanzu.
Koyaya, abin zai iya taimaka muku zuwa matsayin da kuke jin daɗin haɗuwa da mutumin da kuke soyayya da shi, kuma ba kawai a zahiri ba. Lokacin da kuke kallon idanun junan ku, zaku iya zuwa wani sabon matakin kusanci kuma jima'i ya zama soyayya a cikin lokuta.
Kuma ku tuna ... kar ku yi sauri! Abubuwan natsuwa sun fi daɗi a cikin lokutan shaƙatawa kamar ma'aurata.