Da alama karatun yana da cikakken bayani: Mun zama marasa aminci. Idan muka waiwaya baya, baya a shekarun 80% 10% ne kawai suka yarda da rashin aminci. Amma wannan ya canza sosai, tunda tsawon shekaru yana ƙaruwa kadan da kadan. A cikin 2016 adadin ya riga ya tashi zuwa 33%.
Don haka, farawa daga wannan, ba zai cutar da sanin duk mabuɗan don sanin idan abokin tarayyar ku yana yaudarar ku ba. Wasu daga cikin alamun na iya zama bayyane sarai. Alamomi, dalilai da dalilai a gaba ɗaya wanda yake sanya ma'aurata bayyana manyan matsalolin su. Gano ko kuna da ɗayan masu zuwa!
Dalilin rashin imani
Gaskiyar ita ce, kodayake mun kalli kaɗan, dalilan rashin aminci suna da fadi da yawa. Abin da ya faru shi ne cewa idan muka yi tunani game da shi, koyaushe muna yarda da wasu ƙalilan.
- Matsalolin sadarwa masu mahimmanci: Yana daga cikin manyan matsaloli. Amma ba wai kawai a cikin batun ma'aurata ba har ma da wasu nau'ikan alaƙar. Sadarwa koyaushe ya kasance ɗayan mafi kyawun tushe. Amma ita ce daga faɗi zuwa gaskiya, koyaushe akwai rami mara kyau. Yaushe muna da isasshen tabbaci kazalika da ta'aziyya tare da abokin tarayyarmu, zamuyi magana akan abubuwa ta hanyar da ta dace. Akasin haka idan sadarwa ta kasa. Hanya ce ta ƙoƙarin neman wani wanda ya raba duk abin da ya ɓace a gida.
- Matsaloli tare da monotony: Ba tare da wata shakka ba, monotony koyaushe yakan zo. Abin da ya sa ya zama dole a gwada hakan, maimakon zama, sai ya wuce. Abu mai kyau shine koyaushe samun lokaci zuwa A yi abubuwa tare. Abubuwa daban-daban, ba da mamaki da fita daga cikin da'irar yau da kullun, idan ya yiwu.
- Yin Jima'i: Babban mabuɗi ga ma'aurata da yawa. Wasu suna ganin cewa jima'i wani muhimmin bangare ne na alaƙar da wasu, akasin haka ne. Dole ne ku daidaita, inda kowane ɓangare na ma'aurata suka gamsu gaba ɗaya. A wannan yankin dole ne mu ma karya monotony, ba tare da wata shakka ba, wani abu ne na asali.
Makullin don sanin idan abokin tarayyar ku yana yaudarar ku
Idan muka yarda cewa akwai wasu alamun, muna iya yin kuskure. Kodayake a wasu lokutan, waɗannan alamun sun fi bayyane. Wannan shine dalilin da yasa baya cutar da sani maɓallan mafi kyau don sanin idan da gaske suna yaudararmu.
- Canja halaye: Idan ka san abokiyar zama da kyau, zaka san cewa koyaushe suna da jerin abubuwan yau da kullun ko halaye. Idan wata rana tazo ka ga tana canzawa amma ba tare da taimakon ka ba, wani abu ya faru.
- Sabaninsu: Ba tare da wata shakka ba, shine mafi bayyananniyar dalili. Kodayake yana iya zama kamar akasin haka ne, amma hakan na faruwa. Abubuwan da suka saba wa juna da kuma neman gafara shigo cikin rayuwar ku. Ba lallai bane ku zama jami'in tsaro, amma abubuwa a bayyane suke.
- Canje-canje a cikin hali: A wannan yanayin muna nufin canje-canje wanda koyaushe kuna kan kare. Sannan zaku iya fara tunanin cewa wani abu yana ɓoyewa.
- Kamar ko'ina: Idan har yanzu ba shi da ku don shirye-shiryen kuma ya fi son tafiya shi kaɗai, wani mahimmin maki ne don la'akari. Shin, ba ku tunani ba?
- Kuna so ku inganta yanayin ku: Kodayake magana a sarari, ba mummunan abu bane, watakila a wannan yanayin zai sa mu sami tashi a bayan kunne. Kulawa da kanka koyaushe abu ne mai matukar kyau. Amma idan wani abu ne kwatsam, lokacin da bai ba da sigina a da ba, to hakan ma zai sa mu yi shakkar yaudarar.
Idan kuna cikin shakka, koyaushe za a iya samun wasu da yawa uzuri kamar yadda yake faruwa tare da batun aiki. Wannan saboda saboda ta wannan hanyar, zai sami ƙarin lokaci don kansa ko kanta kuma zai guji kasancewa tare sosai. Zaiyi nisa sosai kuma abu ne da ake gani da sauri, da kuma alamun da ake gani. Shin kun taɓa faruwa?.