Kira "Dokar jan hankali" Yana daya daga cikin ra'ayoyi gama gari idan akazo yin bayanin dalilin da yasa muke fara wasu alaƙar ba wasu ba. Amma saboda yana daya daga cikin maimaitattun abubuwa, ba daidai bane wanda yake da babban goyon bayan kimiyya, a zahiri akasin haka ne. Koyaya, akwai, samar wa mutane da yawa wani irin "sihiri na zahiri" inda dama wani lokacin sukan sakar da gamsuwa waɗanda suke kama da ƙaddarar makoma, ko kuma na ƙarfin sararin samaniya waɗanda suka fi kanmu.
Amma menene ainihin a ƙarƙashin wannan sanannen ka'idar? Dole ne mu kasance a bayyane game da wani bangare: ba kyau mu bar abu mai mahimmanci kamar dangantaka mai tasiri. Abubuwan haɗuwa, gaskiyar cewa mun ƙare tare da mutum ɗaya kuma ba wani ba tabbas yana da wani abu na yau da kullun, wani abu da ba za a iya fassarawa ba. Amma da zarar wannan dangantakar ta fara, yana da mahimmanci mu kasance a kan ragamar kowane lokaci. Abin da ke nuna yanke shawara da ƙarfinmu. Yana da daraja a tuna. Kamar yadda ya cancanci bincika dalla-dalla abin da ake kira "dokar jan hankali".
Ka'idojin tushe wadanda suka samar da «Dokar jan hankali»
Dokar jan hankali tana da babbar al'ada kuma me zai hana a faɗi ta, yawan talla. Wanda yake tallafawa da yawa taimakon kai da kuma inganta kanta. Amma bari mu ga mahimmin gatari wanda ya bayyana shi:
Tabbataccen ilimin halin dan Adam
Ilimin halayyar kirki ya gaya mana cewa a wannan rayuwar, yana da mahimmanci halinmu. Kyakkyawan ra'ayi game da abubuwa yana buɗe mana ra'ayoyi da yawa fiye da gafala da ma rashin motsi. Dole ne ku yi tunani game da soyayya, alal misali, a cikin kyakkyawan fata da tabbatacce, inda dama ta biyu koyaushe ke yiwuwa. Dukanmu mun cancanci yin farin ciki, kuma kamar yadda ka'idar jan hankali za ta faɗa mana, dole ne a sami wannan kyakkyawan abokin haɗin kanmu duka.
Ofarfin tunani
"Dokar jan hankali" ta samo asali ne daga ra'ayin cewa shine karfin tunaninmu, wanda yake bamu damar cimma wasu abubuwa. Wannan hoto an bayyana shi da ma'anar cewa akwai wasu karfi masu kuzari, masu iya daidaitawa don bamu abinda muke so. Irin wannan ra'ayi ya samo asali ne daga abubuwa Buddha da Hindu, substrates a kan wanda, wanda yana da hangen nesa daga wani «duka». Can inda tunani, nufi da nasara, komai zai kasance hade.
Ilimin halin dan Adam
Hakanan yana ɗaukar wasu fannoni na ka'idar fahimta don ayyana dokar jan hankali. Sanin mu, ko ƙimarmu na tunani A matsayin wata dabarar don sarrafa nufinmu, yanki ne mai mahimmanci. ,Auka, alal misali, waɗanda suke son su daina shan sigari. Ganin kansu kowace safiya ba tare da wannan sigarin a bakinsu ba zai zama wani mataki zuwa ga nasarar su.
Ka'idodin halayyar halayyar halayya
Fitar da halayyarmu bisa ga tunaninmu da sha'awarmu saboda haka yana da mahimmanci don cimma abin da muke so. Idan misali muna fatan samun ma'aurata masu kwanciyar hankali da kuma alaƙar da ke tattare da soyayya da so, bisa ga ƙa'idar jan hankali, zai isa a yi fatarsa. Yi fata a cikin mafi kyawun hanyar da zata yiwu, tare da sanin cewa irin wannan zai faru.
Da zarar tunaninmu ya "ruɗe mu" ga wannan manufar, halinmu Zan riga na daidaita zuwa wannan ra'ayin. Chance, ƙarfin ƙaddara da sararin duniya tabbas zasuyi sauran. Abin yarda? Bari mu gani a gaba.
Dokar jan hankali da dokar aiki
Ba za mu iya ƙaryatashi ba. Idan da za mu yi karamin bincike tsakanin ma'aurata da dama don tambayar yadda suka hadu, da yawa za su ce ai kaddara ce. Cewa akwai wani abu da ba za a iya fassarawa ba wanda ya kawo ƙarshen haɗarsu ta irin wannan hanyar, kamar dai wani zai yi a baya shirya domin hakan ta faru.
Faduwa cikin soyayya wani abu ne sihiri. Amma don ƙauna, kuna buƙatar kiyaye ƙafafunku a ƙasa. Imani da "dokar jan hankali" ba ya cutar da mu, akasin haka, yana sanya mu cikin ra'ayin inda nufin, halayenmu da haɓakaSu ginshiƙai ne bayyanannu don cimma abubuwa. Idan akwai wani saurayi da kuke so, alal misali, ya dace sosai da kuna tunanin cewa zaku iya samun damar kasancewa tare da shi, za ku iya lalata da shi, cewa ya cancanci duk wani ƙoƙari don samun hankalinsa da sha'awarsa.
Wato, abin da aka fi dacewa shine a cika dokar jan hankali da dokar aiki. Bai isa kawai fata ba. Ta hanyar barin tunaninmu ya "ture" wadannan abubuwan da ake kira kuzari marasa ganuwa don alakar ta fara daga wani wuri. Yawancin lokaci dole ne muyi namu bangaren: magana, lalata, kusanci, ba da shawara, sanin juna sannan kuma tantance ko zai yiwu a fara irin wannan dangantakar.
Yarimanmu mai fara'a ba zai bayyana ba kawai ta hanyar yi masa fata a ƙofar gidanmu. Nemi dama, duba sama; yana so amma kuma yana aiki. Da "Dokar jan hankali" Hanya ce mai kyau a cikin yanayin ci gaban mutum, wanda ke ba mu ƙarfi da kwarin gwiwa. Wannan yana ba mu ƙarfin gwiwa don nuna kanmu cewa dukkanmu muna iya manyan abubuwa idan muka mai da hankali a kai.
Kuma akwai sihiri, ba shakka, haka kuma dama da kuma waccan walƙiya wacce ke kunna idan muka haɗu da cikakken mutum. Amma yana da mahimmanci cewa a cikin kowane dangantaka, koyaushe kuna da shi ƙafa a ƙasa da kuma kallon cikin ku. Kula da darajar kanku, nufinku da kwanciyar hankalinku. Yana da daraja a tuna.