Empilweni, ezikhathini ezithile, sidlula kukho izikhathi zokwehla nosizi ezisidla usuku nosuku zikwenza kube nzima ngokwengeziwe ngathi ukuphuma emthonjeni esigxile kuwo; Isikhathi esiningi, lezi zimo zinezimbangi ezixhasa lezo izikhathi zomunyu nokudangala, kodwa futhi kuyiqiniso, ukuthi ezikhathini eziningi, yithina ngokwethu esiyimbangela yalokhu kuzilimaza.
Noma ngabe ikuphi, sikulethela le ndatshana namhlanje, eyenza kuphela sengathi ekuqaleni kosuku nasekupheleni kwalo, kukhona sine ebusweni bakho futhi hhayi neyodwa yosizi.
Konke kuncike esimweni sakho sengqondo
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi okujwayele ukwenzeka kithi empilweni (ngokujwayelekile) akukho emandleni ethu futhi asikubangeli noma sikufune (ukugula, ukufa kwabathandekayo, ukuphelelwa umsebenzi, njll.) Kepha okusezandleni zethu , futhi okungekho omunye umuntu, iyindlela yokubhekana nalesi sehlakalo esibuhlungu esike sabhekana naso futhi esisibangela lokho kudangala. Lokho kusho ukuthi, Kusemandleni ethu ukuguqula isimo sethu sokubhekana nosuku nosuku ngomoya ongcono.
Namuhla sifuna ukukunikeza uhlu lwezinto okufanele uzenze ukuze ube nosuku oluhle futhi ungacabangi kangako ngokuthi yini ebanga ukudabuka kwakho noma ukukhathazeka okungokomzwelo kwakho. Uma siqala ngento elula efana nalolu hlu, futhi siziphoqa ukuhambisana nalo, kancane kancane umkhuba uzokwakheka futhi isikhathi ngasinye sizojabula kancane, noma okungenani, sizobe sizama konke ukuzizwa singcono futhi okungcono hhayi ukuma ungenzi lutho ngo:
- NgoMsombuluko hlela impelasonto yakho elandelayo: Isonto lizoshesha uma ngoMsombuluko sesivele silungiselele okuthile ngempelasonto ezayo. Kuthiwani ngohambo? Ukuhamba ngezintaba mhlawumbe? Kuthiwani ngesidlo sothando nomlingani wakho?
- Beka umculo wakho owuthandayo nomdanso: Lokhu kungenye yezinto engizigwema kakhulu kimi lapho ngidabukile. Ukubeka ama-headphone akho nokudansa sengathi alikho ikusasa kuyazipholela futhi kukwenza uzizwe ujabulile. Kwenze usuku nosuku. Ayikho into engcono ukwedlula umculo ukudambisa izinkathazo.
- Ungabi nolaka futhi ube nesimo sengqondo esihle. Lapho sicasulwe okuthile, kuba lula kakhulu ukuvumela lolo sizi lusidonsele; into enzima ngempela ukumamatheka lapho umuntu edabukile noma ukufuna isibindi namandla okubhekana nalokhu kushaywa. Kukuwe ukuba nesimo sengqondo esisodwa noma esinye. Vumela ukudabuka, yebo, kuyadingeka nasemzimbeni, kepha lokho kudabuka akunwebeki ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kunalokho okudingeka ngokuqinile.
- Thatha uhambo lokuzivocavoca umzimba noma uvivinye umzimba. Bathi umdlalo uyakuvula futhi ukwenze ube kokunye uma izinkinga zifika engqondweni yakho. Uma udinga ukuchitha usuku ungacabangi ngezinkinga zakho, ezemidlalo zizokusiza kakhulu. Ukuhamba ihora ngosuku, ukuthatha uhambo lokuhambahamba kuzokhipha ukunganaki okuningi nentukuthelo kuwe.
- Zithobe futhi uzitotobise. Kuthiwani ngosuku lokucwala izinwele lwe-makeover? Kuthiwani ngokudweba izinzipho zakho ngombala obomvu ogqamile? Zinakekele, zinike ihora ngosuku, ukuze uzinakekele futhi uzitotose. Khumbula ukuthi amahora akho angama-24 ngosuku owabelwe wona kulokhu kuphila kungawakho wedwa.
- Yiba nomusa, uthi ngiyabonga, bese umamatheka. Uma sidabukile futhi sizisola ngento ethile, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuyikhokhela nabantu osondelene nabo kakhulu, noma bevame ukukuqonda; Kepha ukuthi kuyinto ejwayelekile kunazo zonke noma ukuthi ingenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile, akusho ukuthi abanye yibo abanecala ngokwenzeka kuwe. Yiba nomusa kubantu osondelene nabo, obani abakuthanda ngempela futhi abakukhathalele ngempela.
- Ungavumeli noma yini noma omunye umuntu asuse ukumamatheka kwakho. Susa abantu ababi empilweni yakho, labo abasalayo, ... Futhi ubathumele kude. Zizungeze nabantu abahle, nabantu abafuna ukuhlala futhi balwe nsuku zonke ngalokho okufunayo.
- Ungalahli ithemba! Usuku olubi, mhlawumbe umucu omubi ... Impilo izokumamatheka futhi kungekudala noma kamuva, kepha uqala ngokumoyizela.