Ngabe usunqume ukwethula ilungu elisha emndenini? Uzo zamukele ikati lesibili? Cishe uke wezwa ngezinzuzo zokuba namakati amabili, ukuthi bazizwa behambisana, kepha inkosi noma indlovukazi yendlu icabangani ngakho?
Ukuzivumelanisa phakathi kwamakati amabili akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi; Kungaba yinde futhi kube nengcindezi kwesinye isikhathi kubantu nasemakati. Kodwa yingakho kungafanele siyeke. Kukhona ezinye imihlahlandlela yesethulo eyisisekelo ukuthi abavikeli bachaza kahle kakhulu futhi baneqhaza ebudlelwaneni obuhle phakathi kwelungu elidala nelungu elisha lomndeni.
Ziyini izinzuzo zokuba nekati elilodwa hhayi elilodwa ekhaya?
- Ngokuvamile, yiba namakati amabili futhi ungajoyini kunciphisa izinkinga zokuziphatha okususelwa ekudikenileni. Lapho ikati lichitha amahora amaningi lingavele libe nezinkinga zokuziphatha abantu ngokuvamile abangazithandi.
- Umsebenzi uyanda namakati ahlala esebenza ngokwengeziwe; ziyavusana futhi ziphonsana inselelo.
- Isidlakela sayo sithola izindlela ezintsha zokuzishayela, sinciphise "ulaka" lwaso nabantu.
Kulezi zinzuzo kufanele sengeze eyodwa ngaphezulu lapho samukela ezimbili amakati asevele azana noma angombhede owodwa: sigwema imihlahlandlela yokwethula. Kodwa-ke, kuvamile ukuthi ngenxa "yokwesaba" noma inkinga yezomnotho sihlehlisa isinqumo sokufaka u-feline wesibili emndenini.
Sethula kanjani amakati amabili?
Ukugwema izimpi nokulwa okungadingekile lapho wethula ilungu elisha lomlingani emndenini kusezandleni zethu. Dala umoya omuhle Kusukela ngomzuzu owodwa oqinisekisa ukuthi inkosi yendlu ayizizwa ihlaselwa noma ishiye ikhaya futhi iyazihlonipha izikhathi ezibekiwe zelungu elisha lomndeni ukuze zizizwe zikhululekile esikhaleni esisha kubalulekile.
Ukufeza lokhu, mane ulandele ifayela le- imithetho eyisisekelo ukuthi sikunikeza namhlanje. Labo kini abanqume ukwamukela bazoba nemininingwane eminingi kakhulu evela kumvikeli onquma ukwenza le nqubo ngayo. Ungesabi ukubuza; Kungcono ukuxazulula ukungabaza ngaphambi kokuba uboya obusha bufike ekhaya.
- Uma uletha ikati elisha ekhaya kumthwali walo vumela ikati elihlala khona asondele asinuke. Ngemuva kwesethulo hlukanisa ikati elisha egumbini elinokuthula. UNGALOKOTHI uziqoqe lapho ufika; Ungakha ubudlelwano obubi phakathi kwalaba bobabili okunzima ukubulungisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
- Gcina ikati elisha lodwa izinsuku ezimbalwa egumbini elinezinto zakhe zonke. Ikati elisha ngeke libadinge nje kuphela ukuthi bazizwe bephephile kuleso sikhala kodwa nokuthi bafunde ukwethemba amalungu omndeni womuntu. Womabili la makati azokwazana ngomnyango futhi azobona iphunga lawo.
- Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, lapho ikati elisha lizizwa lizolile esikhaleni salo, ungaqala ukwethula ngephunga ikati elihlala khona. Shintshanisa izingubo zabo nengxenye yesihlabathi emabhokisini abo esihlabathi ukuze kuthi lapho zibonakala zibonakale ngephunga.
- Isinyathelo esilandelayo, lapho ubona ukuthi womabili amakati azolile azoba azihlanganise egumbini kugadiwe. Kufanele uhlale uzolile kungenjalo uzodlulisela ukwesaba kwakho kubo. Qaphela ukunyakaza kwabo nangaphambi kwanoma yimuphi umzamo wokuhlukumezeka, uwahlukanise ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yimizwa yakho.
- Zama futhi ntambama noma ulinde usuku olulandelayo ukuze ubahlanganise. Zijabulise ngomdlalo ukusondela nokuxhumana.
- Phinda le nqubo kaningi njengoba kuthatha kuze kube yilapho nobabili nikwazi ukuhlala nizolile futhi niyinde njengoba nizizwa ukuthi iyasebenza. Umqondo wukuthi bachitha isikhathi esiningi ngokwengeziwe ndawonye. Lapho ubona ukuthi ubudlelwane babo buphilile, ungahambisa zonke izinto ezincane zentsha futhi ubavumele bachithe usuku ndawonye.
Le nqubo ithatha isikhathi esingakanani? Amaviki ama-2, amasonto ama-3 noma izinyanga ezi-2; ayikho impendulo eyodwa eyiyo. Ikati ngalinye, njengabantu, linomlingiswa futhi lidinga isikhathi esehlukile ukujwayela. Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, lapho ikati ligoduka lodwa, kulukhuni ngokwengeziwe ukwethula okusha, kepha lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Iminyaka nayo ibamba iqhaza; Iqiniso lokuthi amakati aneminyaka efanayo afaka isandla emandleni abo afanayo ngakho-ke izinga lomsebenzi wabo nokudlala.
Cha shesha futhi ukwenza izinto kahle kuyindlela ekahle yokungazisoli ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Unenhlanhla!