Enye yezinkinobho ezibaluleke kakhulu zokunciphisa ukusebenza kwezinkinga ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zithola umyalezo ozama ukuwuthumela. Uma kukhulunywa ngokuba ngumzali, kwesinye isikhathi ukuthi imiyalo inikezwa kanjani ingabaluleka njengaleyo ozama ukuyikhuluma.
Uma uvame ukubhekana nokuziphatha okubi kwezingane zakho futhi ungazi ukuthi ungalwenza kanjani lolo shintsho ... Kusukela manje kuqhubeke ungathuthukisa indlela abaziphatha ngayo futhi, nokuthi bakulalele lapho kufanele. Ngaphambi kokuqala, khumbula ukuthi kubalulekile ukuba nozwela nokuqonda nezingane zakho. Lalelani lapho kufanele bakhulume nani futhi nibahloniphe njengabantu. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho uzokwenza ukuthi izingane zakho zishintshe indlela yazo yokuziphatha zibe ngcono.
Ungayithuthukisa kanjani indlela yokuziphatha kwezingane
Nazi izindlela zokwethula imininingwane ezinganeni zakho ukuze zikwazi ukukulalela futhi zithobele, ngaleyo ndlela kuncishiswe isimilo esinenkinga noma nezimo ezishubile ekhaya:
- Yiba oqondile. Yenza izitatimende esikhundleni sokubuza imibuzo: "Ngicela uhlale phansi," esikhundleni sokuthi "Ungahlala phansi?"
- Yiba seduze. Nikeza izinkomba lapho useduze nengane, kunokuba ushayele ucingo ungaphesheya kwegumbi.
- Sebenzisa imiyalo ecacile neqondile. Esikhundleni sokuthi "Yenza okuthile," yithi, "Sicela uqale umsebenzi wakho wesikole wokufunda."
Nikeza imiyalo efanele iminyaka yobudala. Khuluma nengane yakho ezingeni eliqondayo. Uma ingane yakho incane, gcina izinto zilula futhi usebenzise amagama owaziyo ukuthi azi: "Sicela uthathe ibhola." Ngezingane ezindadlana, ezivame ukwazi kahle ukuthi azisezona "izingane," kubalulekile ukucaca ngaphandle kokubambelela.
Nikeza imiyalelo eyodwa ngesikhathi (eyodwa ngesikhathi). Ikakhulukazi ezinganeni ezinezinkinga zokunaka, zama ukugwema ukunikeza uchungechunge lwemiyalelo: "Ngicela ugqoke amateki akho, uthole isidlo sakho sasemini kwikhawunta yasekhishini uze endaweni yokwamukela izivakashi."
Gcina izincazelo zilula. Ukunikeza ukulungiswa kungakhuphula amathuba okuthi izingane zizwe umyalo, kepha hhayi uma imiyalo ilahleka kuwo. Ngokwesibonelo: "Hamba uyogqoka ibhantshi lakho ngoba lina futhi angifuni ungenwe umkhuhlane." Esikhundleni salokho, zama okufana: “Liyana futhi angifuni ukuthi ungenwe umkhuhlane. Hamba ugqoke ibhantshi lakho ”.
Nikeza izingane isikhathi sokucubungula. Ngemuva kokunikeza imfundo, linda imizuzwana embalwa, ngaphandle kokuphinda okushilo. Izingane bese zifunda ukulalela iziyalezo ezithule ezinikezwa kanye esikhundleni sokufunda ukuthi azidingi ukulalela ngoba imiyalo izophindwa noma ithethiswe. Ukubuka nokulinda nakho kusiza ukuvimbela abantu abadala ekwenzeni lokho esikucelile ezinganeni zethu.
Ngalezi zeluleko, Uma uzisebenzisa ngokuzola nangenhlonipho, kuzokwenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo ezolile nenokwamukela kakhulu. Izingane zakho zizokwazi ukuthi ulindeleni kuzo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi zizozizwa zixhumene kakhulu nawe. Inhlonipho nothando kuyizisekelo ezisemqoka kunoma iliphi ikhaya.