Uma sikhuluma ngokuhlupheka asibhekiseli ekuhluphekeni komzimba, okungenakugwenywa, kepha kulo mcimbi esikhuluma ngawo ukuhlupheka ngokwengqondo kwesinye isikhathi sibekwa ngaphansi kwayo ngoba asazi ukuthi sizoyilawula kanjani imizwa yethu. Ukungena esimweni sokuhlupheka okungeke kuxazulule izinto noma ukuguqula izinto zangaphandle kusilimaza nje.
Uma ukubonile lokho imicabango emibi nemizwa yakho ikusondeza ekuhluphekeni okuqhubekayo, kungaba yisikhathi sokuthi ucabange ngezinto ngokwehlukile. Sizokunikeza amathiphu ambalwa wokugwema ukuhlupheka okungenangqondo.
Gwema ukuziqhayisa
Lokhu kuyinto esiyenza kaningi lapho senza amaphutha noma lapho kwenzeka okuthile okungasifanele futhi esingakwazi ukukulawula. Siyaziqhenya, ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, sikhuluma kabi ngathi futhi sizizwa kabi ngokwenzekayo. Iqiniso ukuthi lokhu kungenye ye- izindlela ezingenamsebenzi zokuhlupheka akhona. Inhloko yethu yiyo elawula imizwa yethu futhi yingakho, noma singeke silawule okwenziwa abanye abantu noma izinto zangaphandle, singakwazi ukulawula indlela esizizwa ngayo nokuthi sibhekana kanjani nakho konke okwenzeka kithi. Ebhekene nezimo ezifanayo, kukhona labo abenza ngendlela ehluke kakhulu ngakho-ke kukhona labo abangaphuma kalula kulowo muzwa osibangela izinhlungu kuphela.
Ungahlupheki ngalokho ongenakukuguqula
Uma kukhona okwenzekile ongakwazi ukukufinyelela, kunzima ukungazizwa ukhungathekile, uthukuthele noma udabukile, ucwila imicabango nemizwa emibi njalo. Akukho okwenzekayo ukuzizwa kabi, kepha akufanele kube yinto ejwayelekile noma singawela ekucindezelekeni noma esimweni sengqondo nesengqondo esisilimaza kakhulu. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuyiguqula, zama ukungayihlupheki ngenxa yayo, gxila kwezinye izinto ongazishintsha futhi uzijabulele. Ukuhlupheka ngokungenamsebenzi ngento engaphezu kwamandla ethu kungenye yezindlela zokucekela phansi injabulo yethu.
Jabulela okuthile nsuku zonke
Singaba nosuku olubi futhi kusenza sibone konke njengokubi. Kepha ukushintsha usuku olubi lube olokuhle kukithi, isimo sethu sengqondo. Asikwazi ukugwema izinkinga ezikhathini eziningi, kodwa ngenxa yalesi sizathu akufanele sicabange ukuthi konke empilweni yethu kubi. Ungenza lo msebenzi futhi nquma ukujabulela okuthile okuhle nsuku zonke empilweni yakho. Kungaba yinto elula njengokwenza isigamu sehora le-yoga, ukuzindla, ukubheka isahluko sochungechunge lwakho oluthandayo ushiye konke okunye eceleni, uthathe uhambo ngomculo wakho owuthandayo noma ube naleso sidlo osithandayo kakhulu. Kunamakhulu ezinto esizithandayo futhi esingazenza nsuku zonke. Kumele wenze uhlu lwazo ukubona ukuthi ungakujabulela kangakanani impilo uma ubeka ingqondo yakho kukho.
Injabulo ukukhetha
Bonke labo bantu abadabukile ngoba izinto ezimbi zehlele kubo bavame ukucabanga ukuthi injabulo yinto eyenzekayo. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi singakwazi khetha ukujabula nsuku zonke. Akuyona indaba yokuhlale umomotheka noma ukuzama ukujabula amahora angama-XNUMX ngosuku, kepha kumayelana nokuzama ukubona izinto ngendlela enhle ngokwengeziwe, ngaleyo ndlela kuthuthukise imizwa yethu.
Ukuze uthole thokozani ezimeni ezifanayo kufanele sibe nombono oqondile. Lokhu kuqala ngokucabanga okuhle, okungathuthukisa imizwa yethu futhi kusenze sibone izinto ngokwehlukile. Uma silawula imicabango yethu singakwazi futhi ukulawula imizwa yethu nemizwa yethu ngezinga elikhulu.