Umkhuba, isithukuthezi, isizunguLawa ngamagama angasetshenziswa kulabo buhlobo obuvumele ukukhohlisa kokuqala ukuba kube umkhuba nokuntuleka kwemizwa. Kuhle ukudlulela esigabeni esilandelayo, lapho sinethezeke ngokwengeziwe nalo muntu, kepha akumele sizethembe futhi sivumele ubudlelwane bume futhi bube yinto eyisicefe ekugcineni esifuna ukubalekela kuyo.
Lesi sigaba siyinto kwenzeka cishe kubo bonke ubudlelwano, kepha kukhona labo abakwaziyo ukusibona nokuguqula isimo, bakhe izinto ezintsha nezikhuthazayo. Kodwa-ke, kukhona nalabo abaguquguqukayo futhi bathathwe yinto ejwayelekile, bagcina sebenobudlelwano obumile. Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungayibona kanjani inkinga ukuze ulwe nayo.
Lapho inqubo ifika
Isimiso esivamile sifinyelela kuyo yonke imibhangqwana. Ezigabeni zothando ukuthatheka kuhlala iminyaka emithathu bese unikeza ukuthula okuncike olwazini lomunye nakwisiko. Akukhona ukuthi kuyinto embi, kepha akumele sikuvumele lokhu kuphenduke ukudumala nesithukuthezi, ngoba kuzolulaza ubudlelwano. Kungakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi singabona kanjani ukuthi inkambiso isifinyelele izithandani nokuthi yini esingayenza ukuthuthukisa lesi simo.
Bheka ukuzenzela
Kubalulekile yeka ukuhlela okuningi futhi ubheke ukuzenzela okuncane osukwini nosuku. Kuhle ukuba nezinhlelo nokwenza inqubo yansuku zonke edingekayo. Kepha ngaphakathi kwalokho ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele sishiye indawo yokwenza izinto ezintsha noma simane senze okuthile ngoba sizizwa sinjalo. Kulezi zimo sibhekise ekuthatheni isinqumo sokuya ebhayisikobho phakathi nesonto noma singaze sikwenze ngoba kufanele sivuke ekuseni kakhulu, siyophuza noma sijabulele ukuphunyuka ngempelasonto.
Thokozela izinto ezincane
Kukhona lokho jabulela izinto zansuku zonke. Lapho uhlukana nophathina kulapho sibona khona ukuthi kuncane kangakanani esasikuthokozela izinto ezilula njengokubuka ithelevishini ndawonye, ukudla ndawonye, ukuhambahamba noma ukumane sitshelane ngomsebenzi lapho sifika ekhaya. Kuyizenzo zomzimba eziba yimikhuba kodwa ezingekho ngenxa yalesi sizathu zingabalulekanga kangako. Ngakho-ke kufanele sibahloniphe ngokwesilinganiso sabo esifanele, ngoba uma singakwenzi lokho sizokuqonda kuphela lapho silahlekelwe yikho.
Sebenzisa ukumangala
Ukumangaza okunye njalo kuyinto enhle. Lapho ungena enkambisweni, lowo muzwa kanye naleyo nkohliso esekuqaleni ilahlekile. Kepha ukumangala kungaba yindlela enhle yokunonga ubuhlobo bese ubunonga. Ukufuna ukudlula okumbalwa ukuya e-spa nokuthatha umlingani wakho, ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa esikhethekile nganoma yiluphi usuku olunikeziwe noma ukumnika izimbali kuyizenzo zomzimba ezincane kepha kungenza umehluko omkhulu ebudlelwaneni. Akufanele siyeke ukumangala nokukhula usuku nosuku ebudlelwaneni. Ubudlelwano besikhathi eside kumele bukhuliswe futhi busetshenzwe noma kungenjalo buyama bufe.
Gwema inqubo yezocansi
Ucansi yingxenye ebalulekile yabashadikazi futhi kuhlale kuhlupheka lapho okujwayelekile kufika. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ziyatholakala ngisho nemikhuba efanayo yobulili, kusetshenziswa amaqhinga afanayo futhi iwela ekuziphatheni okuyize, okwenza ucansi lungabi mnandi futhi lube mnandi. Yingakho le ngenye ingxenye okufanele inakekelwe futhi ithuthukiswe. Kuhlala kunendawo yemidlalo emisha, lapho zombili izinhlangothi zivumelana. Ukusebenzisa amathoyizi noma imvunulo kungaba yisiqalo esihle sokuphula lesi simiso empilweni yakho njengabantu abashadile.