Wonke umuntu uke washo okuthile okulimazayo, wenza ukukhetha okungalungile, noma waba nokuziphatha okungenampilo. Okubalulekile ukuthi bathathe umthwalo walezo zinqumo ... futhi ingane yakho kumele futhi ithathe umthwalo wemfanelo noma ngabe iyisisulu noma ingumhlukumezi wokuxhashazwa.
Uma ingane yakho inomngane oyisiqhwaga kodwa engafuni ukuyivuma, mkhuthaze ukuba ayeke ukubeka izaba ngokuziphatha okubi komngane wakhe. Abangane abaphilile bayakuvuma ukuziphatha kwabo okungalungile futhi bayemukela isibopho sezenzo zabo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, iziqhwaga ezidinga usizo oluphuthumayo lwengqondo azidingi.
Uma ingane yakho inomngane onjalo empilweni yayo, kufanele isike izibopho ngokushesha okukhulu iqhubeke. Ukwamukela izaba zokuziphatha okungafanele kuzovumela omunye umuntu ukuthi aqhubeke nokuphatha ingane yakho ngokungafanele. Lowo akuyena umngani, ungumhlukumezi.
Lapha isilonda esingokomzwelo
Uma ingane yakho ihlangabezana nokuxhashazwa kuzodingeka ukhulume nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho ukukusiza ukuthi ubone ochwepheshe abafanele bezempilo yengqondo abangalapha ingane yakho. Ungabi namahloni okucela usizo kulokhu ngoba kuyadingeka impela.
Akekho umuntu ofinyelela ebudaleni ngaphandle kokuba nezingqinamba ezithile ezidinga ukuxazululwa futhi zixazululwe, futhi abeluleki baqeqeshelwe ukusiza ngalezi zinkinga. Futhi, izingane eziningi eziye zaxhashazwa zilwa nokudangala nokukhathazeka ... Izinkinga ezingaba zimbi kakhulu futhi zibe yingozi uma zingelashwa nguchwepheshe.
Kungcono ngaphandle kokuziphindisela ... gxila ekuxolelweni
Kuyisifiso esingokwemvelo ukufuna ukuziphindiselela bese uzama ukwenza ukuthi umuntu osonile kuqala ahlupheke. Umuzwa wokululazeka uvamise ukuba nesifiso sokuziphindiselela. Kufanele ukhumbuze ingane yakho ukuthi ukuziphindisela ngeke kumenze azizwe engcono. Into efanelekile kulezi zimo ukugxila ekuthethelelweni kwangaphakathi. Akanalo iphutha futhi umhlaseli uhlasela ngoba unezinkinga ezingasombululwanga ezingokomzwelo. Ukuziphatha kwabo akulungile, ingasaphathwa eyokuziphatha kwabo, futhi akwamukelekile futhi akumele kubekezelelwe. Kepha Ukugxila ekuthethelelweni kuzosiza ingane yakho izizwe inamandla ngokwengeziwe kulesi simo futhi iphume kulokhu kuvutha kwemizwa emibi emhlupha kakhulu nsuku zonke.
Ukuthethelela kudinga ukubekezela kanye nesikhathi. Ukuthethelela akumkhululi umhlukumezi ezenzweni zakhe ezimbi, kuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi iyeke ukucabanga ngokwenzekile futhi iqhubekele phambili.
Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi ayisoze yodwa
Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi ingazizwa inesizungu ngesinye isikhathi, kodwa ngeke kube njalo. Ukuhlukumeza kuvame ukwenza izingane ezihlukunyezwayo zizizwe zinesizungu, zingenathemba futhi zisengozini. Yize lokhu kungukusabela okujwayelekile ekuhlukunyezweni, ingane yakho idinga ukwazi ukuthi akuyona yodwa ngempela. Mkhumbuze ukuthi unokwesekwa kwakho nabangane bakhe. iqiniso.
Yenza noma yini edingekayo ukusiza ukukhulula imizwa yesizungu yengane yakho, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uyatholakala noma nini lapho ikudinga khona.