Bayanda abantu abasebenza ekhaya, okuyiqiniso okube nomthelela kulo ubhubhane eminyakeni emibili edlule. Abaningi baphinde baphoqeleka ukuthi bashintshe indlela yokusebenza kusukela kolunye usuku baye kolunye, bebhekene nezinselele ezinkulu. Njengoba kunjalo, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukuzivumelanisa nolunye uhlobo lokuxhumana, olubalulekile ukubhekana nemihlangano yobungcweti ku-inthanethi.
ukuxhumana okufanele nabasebenzi, ithimba labasebenzi kanye/noma amaklayenti kunomthelela omuhle kukho kokubili ukusebenza nokukhiqiza. Futhi iziteshi zedijithali zidinga ukunakwa okukhulu nokuzivumelanisa nezimo. Ngoba ukulahlekelwa ukunaka emhlanganweni wekholi yevidiyo noma ukungakwazi ukudlulisa umlayezo ngendlela efanele kulula ngale ndlela.
Uma uthole kudingekile ukuba nemihlangano eku-inthanethi, kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele usunayo uthole ubunzima bokuqala. Okunye okubaluleke kakhulu, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ikhono lokuphazamisa. Emihlanganweni eku-inthanethi, ingqondo yethu ijwayele ukubheka izinto ezikhuthazayo eziseduze, okubangela ukulahlekelwa ukunaka. Okunye ukulahlekelwa ukusebenza kahle kokuxhumana nokuthi indlela lowo okhuluma naye amukela ngayo umlayezo wethu iyashintsha uma singabhekene ubuso nobuso.
Ngakho-ke ungayenza kanjani imihlangano yobungcweti eku-inthanethi isebenze futhi ikhiqize? Ku Bezzia sikunikeza okunye amathiphu okubhekana nawo ngempumelelo. Amacebiso asukela ekubalulekeni kokuyilungiselela, kuya endleleni yokuxhumana. Isamba samathiphu ayisikhombisa esithemba ukuthi uzowathola ewusizo:
- Shayela umhlangano ngesikhathi. Lapho imihlangano iba ku-inthanethi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyibiza kusenesikhathi ukuze bonke abakhona bakwazi ukuhlela ama-ajenda abo. Kuzobaluleka kakhulu futhi ukugqamisa obizweni ukubaluleka kokugcina isikhathi kanye nokungenzeki kokujoyina uma sekudlule imizuzu emihlanu yokuqala ukugwema ukuphazamiseka.
- Chaza inhloso yakho. Lapho ubiza umhlangano, kubalulekile ukuthi inhloso yomhlangano ichazwe. Ukuthumela kanye nocingo umbhalo omncane onamaphuzu okuzoxoxwa ngawo kuzosiza bonke ababambiqhaza ukuba baqaphele futhi balungiselele amanothi athile.
- Gwema iziphazamiso. Ukuphazamiseka emhlanganweni we-inthanethi wochwepheshe kulula kakhulu, ngaphezu kwalokho ocabanga ngakho. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kuyancomeka ukuthi uthulise izaziso zeselula neze-imeyili, futhi wazise uma kunabantu abaningi ekhaya kusukela ngasiphi isikhathi futhi kuze kube yisiphi isikhathi akufanele bakukhathaze.
- Ithi sawubona futhi ube nentshisekelo kubo bonke abanye abaxoxisana nabo. Ukuba nesithakazelo kumuntu oxoxa naye, ukumbingelela nokumbuza ukuthi unjani kuyinto enomthelela ekudaleni umoya okhululekile, omnandi kakhulu. Kuyinto okungafanele siyiyeke, kungaba umhlangano nomphathi wethu, esisebenza nabo noma namakhasimende, ngoba usungula isimo sezulu esivumayo kunoma ibuphi ubuhlobo.
- Sebenzisa ulimi olulula nolucacile. Kuhle njalo ukusungula ulimi olulula futhi olufushane ngangokunokwenzeka, ikakhulukazi lapho singabazi kahle bonke abanye abaxoxisana nabo. Ukusebenzisa ulimi lobuchwepheshe kakhulu oluxakile kwelinye iqembu, kuzosiqhelelanisa nalo. Ngokufanayo, akufanele neze sicabange ukuthi balwazi lonke ulwazi.
- Nakekela ukuma kwakho nokubuka kwakho. Ukuthi sikolunye uhlangothi lwesikrini akusho ukuthi singakhohlwa imininingwane eyisisekelo kodwa ebalulekile njengokunakekela ukuma nokubuka. Emhlanganweni we-inthanethi silahlekelwa ulwazi olubonakalayo uma kuqhathaniswa nomhlangano wobuso nobuso, ngakho-ke kubaluleke nakakhulu ukunaka ulimi olungakhulumi, ukuma, iphimbo lezwi noma ukubuka. Ukugcina uthintana namehlo kuzobaluleka.
- Khuthaza ukusebenzisana. Ngokucabangela ukuthi singakwazi ukugcina ukunaka okugcwele kwabaxhumanisi isikhathi esiphezulu semizuzu engu-20, kubalulekile ukuthi kube nesikhathi kokubili sokwethula isihloko nokubuza ukuthi kukhona ukungabaza noma uma kukhona ofuna ukufaka isandla ngokuthile. Ukuxhumana okukhuthazayo kukhombisa intshisekelo embonweni wabanye futhi kuqinisa ubudlelwano kule mihlangano ye-inthanethi yobungcweti.
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