Kukhona abazali abazizwa bephutha futhi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuba negunya ezinganeni zabo kusho ukuthi kufanele bakhale noma babasabe ngenhlonipho enobuthi. Akukho okunye okuvela eqinisweni. Ukuba negunya elihle ezinganeni zakho kusho ukuthi zikuhlonipha ngaphandle kokwesaba nokuthi asikho isidingo sokukhala lapho uzama ukubayala.
Ungase ube nomuzwa wokuthi izingane zakho zishubile lapho uziyala. Bangase baphikelele ezintweni eziningi ukuze nje bathole lokho okufunayo, futhi kungaba isilingo kuwe ukuba unikezele ngenxa nje yokuthi akudingeki ubekezelele impi yokugwema ulaka. Kodwa izingane ezincane zidinga imikhawulo nemithetho ngoba kungale ndlela kuphela lapho beyofunda khona ukuba nokuziphatha okuhle, bazi ukuthi yini elindeleke kubo ngazo zonke izikhathi. Kepha unalo kanjani igunya ngaphandle kokudabula izinyembezi zokuthukuthela? Ungakwenza kanjani kahle?
Musa ukubeka intando yakho ngendlela yokujezisa
Okokuqala, kuzofanele uvikele impi yamafa ngaphambi kokuba iqale, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi unikeze izingane zakho ukwehluka umzuzu ngaphambi kokwenza ushintsho. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ugweme ukulwa ngamandla. Ngokwesibonelo, Uma isikhathi somdlalo sesiphelile, kuzofanele umazise kusasele imizuzu engu-5 ukuze wazi ukuthi isikhathi somdlalo siyaphela.
Uma, ngokwesibonelo, isikhathi sokulala futhi edlala, ungasho okuthile okufana nalokhu: 'Ungakha amanye amabhulokhi amabili bese sigqoka amaphijama ethu, siye esidlweni sakusihlwa, bese sifunda indaba yokulala.' Lapho ingane yakho isiqedile ukwakha amanye amabhulokhi amabili, mtshele ukuthi isikhathi sokudlala siphelile futhi umqondise ukuthi enzeni manje ezinhlelweni zakusihlwa.
Mnike ezinye izindlela
Ukuze izingane zizizwe zilawula kufanele zibe nezinye izindlela, kufanele zibe nezinketho eziningi ezingakhetha kuzo. Ngale ndlela bazozwa ukuthi banamandla athile okulawula isimo ababhekene naso ngaleso sikhathi. Isibonelo, uma usuzoya epaki, futhi ingane yakho iphika lapho uyicela ukuba ilungele ukuphuma, ungabuza: 'Ufuna ukugqoka izicathulo noma ibhantshi kuqala?' (ukugcina izinketho okungenani zibe mbili kuzonciphisa ithuba lokudideka).
Kungasiza futhi uma wenza ukulandelela ngokomzimba lapho ugqoka ijazi nezicathulo nengane yakho. Ngokwenza okufanayo, uzobe ulingisa indlela yokuziphatha ofuna ukuyibona enganeni yakho.
Ezinye izindlela zizohlala zimsiza ukuthi azizwe ukuthi uphethe futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuthi uhlonipha ama-idiosyncrasies akhe, ukuthi uyakwazi ukumqonda nokumhlonipha.
Inhlonipho ngaphezu kwakho konke
Ukuze uthole igunya ezinganeni zakho, okubaluleke kakhulu inhlonipho. Ukufeza lokhu, kufanele ucabange ngenhlonipho ofuna babe nayo kuwe, ngoba kufanele ube nayo kuqala.
Inhlonipho ayisho ukumemeza nokumesaba wena, kusho ukuthi useceleni kwabo ukuze ubaqondise, ukubasiza, futhi ubalalele ngokuqonda nozwela. Izingane zakho zizozizwa ziphephile uma ziseduze kwakho futhi zizokwazi ukuthi zingathembela kuwe noma nini lapho zikudinga khona. Sebenzisani imizwa yenu ndawonye futhi konke kuzohamba kangcono kakhulu.