Ingxenye enzima yezivivinyo zabafundi ihlala inentshisekelo. Izivivinyo zingena ezimpilweni zezingane zakho futhi zingaqala ukuzizwa zikhathele, zikhathele, futhi zingakhuthazeki. Abanye kungenzeka ukuthi baphupha ngamaholide vele. Yebo, izivivinyo sezizophela, kepha hhayi okwamanje. Ingxenye enzima ukuhlala unogqozi.
Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zikhuluma ngokugqugquzela okungaphezulu kanye nokugqugquzela okungaphakathi. Ngamafuphi, ukugqugquzela okungaphakathi kubandakanya ukuzikhuthaza wena futhi lokhu kuyindlela enamandla kakhulu yokugqugquzela. Kodwa kanjani? Le mibono ingasiza izingane zakho.
Khumbula imigomo yakho
Iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu okufanele ugxile kulo yisona sizathu sokuthi uthathe isinqumo sokufunda. Tshela izingane zakho ukuthi zizibuze le mibuzo:
- Uyini umgomo wami wokuphela?
- Yini engifuna ukuyifeza ngamamaki ami?
- Yini engifuna ukuyenza impilo yami yonke?
Sula abafundi bakuthola kulula ukuzikhuthaza. Kuthiwani ngesithombe sephupho lakho bese usibeka edeskini lapho ufunda khona? Lapho ubona lelo phupho njalo, lizohlala lingokoqobo kakhulu emqondweni wakho, likukhuthaze ukuthi uqhubeke nokusebenzela lelo phupho.
Shintsha umbono wezivivinyo zesikole
Isimiso esibalulekile okufanele sisikhumbule ukuthi izivivinyo azisona isitha. Kufanele utshele izingane zakho ukuthi isivivinyo umngane wazo. Kungazizwa ngaleyo ndlela, kepha isivivinyo yithuba elihle lokukhombisa uthisha nezwe lonke lokho ongakwenza.
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi akekho ozokuphazamisa, njengoba abantu bevame ukwenza ngesikhathi sezingxoxo noma ngisho nasekilasini. Unaso sonke leso sikhathi sesivivinyo "ukusho lokho ofuna ukukusho." Futhi okuhamba phambili ngukuthi uthisha kufanele "alalele", uthisha akukho okunye angakwenza ngaphandle kokulungisa umsebenzi wakhe. Lapho ubona ukuhlolwa njengethuba kunokuba kube usongo, ukulungiselela isivivinyo kuba lula kakhulu futhi kube nenjongo.
Isimiso esibalulekile okufanele sisikhumbule ukuthi izivivinyo azisona isitha.
Klomelisa umsebenzi omuhle
Ezingeni elisebenzisekayo, ungamvuza ngokufunda kanzima. Isibonelo, ungazivumela ukuthi uthathe ikhefu ngemuva kokuqeda ngempumelelo isigaba esithile somsebenzi, noma uhambe wenze isemishi elimnandi noma i-hamburger ngemuva kokufunda ngentshiseko ihora.
Uyazazi: uyazi ukuthi yini angayifeza ehoreni, futhi uyazi ukuthi yini angayithanda njengomvuzo… Khuluma nengane yakho ukuze ufunde ukuthi unganquma kanjani ukuthi iziphi izinhlobo zemivuzo enempilo afuna ukuzifaka ezikhathini zakhe zokufunda. Tshela ingane yakho: "Zivuze kahle, kodwa ziqine kuwe kuqala."
Ungakunaki konke okunye
Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi ijime, iphumele ngaphandle, iphefumule. Ukuvivinya umzimba kungenza igazi lakho ligijime futhi nengqondo yakho isebenze futhi. Ukuzivocavoca kungasetshenziswa futhi njengomvuzo. Udinga isikhathi sokwenza eminye imisebenzi oyithandayo. Njalo dala ibhalansi ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa, yize uzodinga isikhathi esanele sokubuyekeza usuku lwangaphambi kokuhlolwa