Lapho izingane ziphakathi kweminyaka emi-2 nengu-3 ubudala, ukukhula kwazo kukhulu kakhulu. Baqala ukulingisa, ukulandela imiyalo elula, ukunyakaza ngokwengeziwe, ukukhuluma kabanzi nokuqonda kangcono imizwa yabo neyabanye. Uma unencane yale minyaka, kungumqondo omuhle ukucabanga ukuthi ungamsiza kanjani athuthukise ukukhula kwakhe.
Msize ekukhuleni kwakhe
Nazi ezinye izinto ezilula ongazenza ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba ikhule kule minyaka:
- Nikeza ingane yakho ithuba lokudlala nabanye: Ukudlala kuyindlela enhle yengane yakho yokwenza abangane futhi ifunde ukuthi ingaba kanjani nezinye izingane. Kepha ungalindeli ukwaba nokushintshana okwamanje: izingane ezincane zicabanga ukuthi konke kungokwabo.
- Ikhuthaza amakhono wansuku zonke njengokusebenzisa isipuni nokufaka izicathulo. Lawa makghono afaka ukunyakaza kwemisipha emincane nemikhulu, kanye nekhono lengane yakho lokucabanga ngokwenzayo.
- Khuluma nendodana yakho. Ukuqamba igama nokukhuluma ngezinto zansuku zonke (izitho zomzimba, amathoyizi, nezinto zasendlini njengezipuni noma izihlalo) kusiza ukuthuthukisa amakhono olimi wengane yakho. Kule minyaka yobudala, ungafundisa ingane yakho ukuthi "isihlalo" kungaba "isihlalo esikhulu," "isihlalo esibomvu," noma "nesihlalo esikhulu esibomvu."
- Yenza umqondo wengxoxo yengane yakho ngokulalela nokuphendula. Uma ingane yakho ithi 'Ubisi lomama', angakuphendula ngokuthi 'Uyafuna yini umama ukukulethela ubisi? Lokhu futhi kwenza ingane yakho izizwe yaziswa futhi ithandwa.
- Mfundele: Ungakhuthaza inkulumo nengqondo yengane yakho ngokufunda ndawonye, nixoxe izindaba, nicule izingoma futhi nifunde imilolozelo yabantwana.
- Pheka okuncane nengane yakho: Lokhu kukusiza ukuthi ube nentshisekelo ekudleni okunempilo, ufunde amagama amasha, bese uqala ukuzijwayeza imiqondo yezibalo efana 'nohhafu', 'isipuni esingu-1' noma 'imizuzu engama-30'. Unganikeza ingane yakho imisebenzi elula yokupheka, njengokwenza isaladi noma ukwenza amasemishi.
- Lapho ingane yakho ifunda ikhono elisha, gubha impumelelo ngokuncoma okuningi nokunakwa okuhle. Kungumqondo omuhle ukusiza nokukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi iqhubeke nokwenza izinto ezizifundile, noma ngabe lezo zinto zinzima.
Ukukhulisa izingane ezincane eminyakeni engu-2-3
Njengomzali, uhlala ufunda. Kulungile ukuzethemba kulokho okwaziyo. Futhi kulungile futhi ukuvuma ukuthi awazi okuthile futhi ubuze imibuzo noma uthole usizo. Uma ugxila ekunakekeleni ingane, ungakhohlwa noma uphelelwe isikhathi sokuzinakekela. Kepha ukuzinakekela ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo kuzosiza ingane yakho ikhule futhi ichume.
Kwesinye isikhathi ungazizwa ukhungathekile, ucasukile, noma ukhungathekile. Kulungile ukuthatha isikhathi uze uzizwe uzolile. Beka ingane yakho endaweni ephephile noma ucele omunye umuntu ukuthi ayinakekele isikhashana. Zama ukuya kwelinye igumbi ukuze udonse umoya, noma shayela ilunga lomndeni noma umngani ukukhuluma.
Ungalokothi unyakazise ingane encane. Kungadala ukopha ngaphakathi kobuchopho futhi mhlawumbe nokulimala unomphela kobuchopho. Kulungile ukucela usizo. Uma uzizwa ukhungathekile ngezidingo zokunakekela ingane yakho encane, cela usizo lochwepheshe.