Osemusha ozuza ebudlelwaneni obunempilo nabazali bakhe bobabili angahle abe nezimo ezihlukile ezenza omunye wabazali bakhe angabi naye ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kungaba ukufa, isehlukaniso noma esinye isimo lokho kungashiya osemusha engenaye umzali. Uma abantu abadala abaseduze bebona ukuthi udinga ukwelashwa ngemiphumela engokomzwelo enganeni, imiphumela emibi yesikhathi eside ingancishiswa.
Amaqembu okusekela, ukwesekwa okuvela kuwo wonke umndeni ... banganciphisa imiphumela emibi enganeni engatholakali eyodwa noma bobabili abazali. Umuntu osemusha uzozwa imizwa ehlukile, angaba nezinkinga ekukhuleni kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka ... futhi konke kufanele kubhekelwe ukukwazi ukukuphatha.
Ubudlelwano obunezinkinga
Lapho osemusha ehlushwa ukungabikho komzali kungazelelwe, kungathinta ubudlelwane nabanye. Inkinga ejwayelekile kubantu abasha abangenawo umzali ukuthi bangazizwa belahliwe futhi baziphathe kabi. Lokhu kuzomenza ukuthi acasukele umhlaba futhi aqale ukuthembela ngokomzwelo ngokwesaba ukushiywa. Intsha ehlushwa ukungabikho ingahle ibe sethubeni lokuya ocansini olungaphephile, isimilo esinolaka, ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa noma utshwala.
Izinkinga zokuhlukumezeka
Umuntu osemusha ohlushwa ukungabi bikho kukababa angazizwa enenzondo enkulu futhi lokhu kubonakala ngesimo sokuhlukumezeka lapho imizwa ingabhekiswa amalungu omndeni, abantu abadala abasondelene noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. Ukugwema lolu hlobo lwenkinga, ingane izodinga ukuzizwa isekelwa futhi igqokile ngokomzwelo ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze ilawule ulaka oluzwayo. kuye uqobo nakwabanye.
Izinkinga zokuthuthuka kwengqondo
Umuntu osemusha okhulele ekhaya elinabazali ababili uzokwenza kangcono ezifundweni kunentsha eye yehlelwa ukulahlekelwa okungazelelwe nokungalindelekile komunye wabazali bayo noma omunye wayo engekho. Imindeni enomzali oyedwa isethubeni lokuba nezingane ezisencane eziye zahlushwa ukufeyila isikole. Esinye isici esinomthelela ekwehleni kokuqondwa kwentsha enomzali ongekho ukuthi abazali abazibheki ngokwanele izifundo zabo. Enye indlela yokulwa nalezi zinto ukufuna ukuxhaswa ngokubandakanyeka komndeni noma ngokufuna izeluleko zochwepheshe.
Izinkinga zokukhathazeka
Umuntu osemusha ohlala ekhaya elingenaye umama kungenzeka abe namathuba amaningi okuhlaselwa ukukhathazeka. Omama abakhona bangenza futhi izingane zibe novalo, zikhathazeke ngisho nabantu abadala abathembeke ngokomzwelo ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlwa. Lapho ingane ingenakho ukunakekelwa nokusondelana kobudlelwano obunempilo bomama nengane, kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu ezingokomzwelo okufanele zilashwe ngochwepheshe. Ukwehlukaniswa komama kungaholela ezinkingeni ngokusebenza kwezemfundo, izinkinga zomphakathi nezingokomzwelo kwintsha.
Lezi ngezinye zezinkinga ezibangelwa yintsha ngenxa yokungabibikho kwabazali isikhathi eside. Izingane nentsha zidinga ukuba nesibalo esisodwa noma zombili eceleni kwazo ekukhuleni futhi, ngenxa yezimo zempilo, esinye salezi zibalo sisuswa kubo, noma ngabe umndeni onomzali oyedwa ukhona futhi benza konke okusemandleni ikhono labo nolwazi, ingane izodinga ukunakekelwa kwengqondo ukuze ikwazi ukunakekela amanxeba angokomzwelo anayo futhi ngaleyo ndlela ufunde ukuphila futhi ngeqiniso elisha okumele abhekane nalo.