Isifiso sobulili sichazwa ngokwesayensi njengokuthambekela noma imizwa yokuya ocansini nomunye umuntu futhi impendulo yomuntu yezocansi inendlela yewashi lapho noma yikuphi ukuguqulwa okuncane kungadala ukwehluleka kwalowo mshini okuzoholela ekusweleni kwesifiso.
“Isifiso sobulili akuyona into engokwengqondo, kodwa into engamakhemikhali impela, kungumphumela wesikhuthazo esitholwe ngezinzwa ezibangela ukukhishwa kwama-neurotransmitters obuchopho abangela ukuphuma kwe-adrenaline. Futhi lokhu kukhishwa kwe-adrenaline kubangela ukushesha kokushaya kwenhliziyo nokwanda kokujikeleza kwegazi, ngaleyo ndlela kusebenze zonke izindlela zemithambo yegazi, zehomoni, zemisipha nezemithambo yegazi ”, kuchaza uDkt Beatriz Literat, udokotela eMnyangweni Wezinkinga Zocansi eHalitus Instituto Medical kanye neDurand Hospital.
Olunye ushintsho endleleni okuhamba ngayo impendulo yezocansi yomuntu kusukela ngesikhathi sokugqugquzela, kungaholela ekungasebenzi kahle okulandelayo futhi kuvele ngesinye sezimpawu ezijwayelekile zokushoda kwesifiso: ukungabi nesifiso.
Ngokusho kweLiterat, “impendulo yezocansi inezigaba eziningana: isigaba sokuqala, leso sesifiso, leso sikhathi lapho kukhona ukuthambekela kokuya ocansini; isigaba sesibili, leso senjabulo, lapho izitho zocansi zigcwele khona igazi nokuthi endodeni zibangela ukwakheka nakowesifazane ukuthambisa; isigaba sesithathu, leso se-orgasm nesokugcina sokuphumula nokululama ”.
AmaHormone, ahlobene ngqo
Ukuntuleka kwesifiso sobulili kwakuhlala kucatshangelwa ukuthi kubangelwa izimbangela zomzimba njengokuntuleka kokuthambisa, ukutheleleka, i-vaginismus noma i-endometriosis, noma izimbangela ezingokwengqondo njengokuntuleka komcabango, ithonya lenqubo noma isizungu noma ukungabi nalwazi lwezocansi kulaba abashadile kepha kusukela ekutholeni okusha, kuyaziwa ukuthi indima yamahomoni ibalulekile.
I-testosterone yi-hormone engagcini nje ngokulawula ukubonakala kwezici zesilisa zocansi kepha futhi idlala indima ebalulekile enqubweni yokuphendula ngokocansi, ngakho-ke, ngesifiso.
Ngonyaka odlule, kwatholakala ukuthi umehluko omncane kusuka kokujwayelekile emazingeni ama-hormone abesilisa besilisa - i-testosterone ne-dehydroepiandrosterone (DHEAS) - kwabesilisa nabesifazane, kungadala ukwehla noma ekugcineni kukhuphuke isifiso. Yize ukuba khona kwala ma-hormone kwaziwa isikhathi eside, ukutholakala kwendima eqondile abayifezayo ekuvuseleleni isifiso sobulili yizindaba zakamuva. Lokhu kutholakala kuholele ekwelashweni okusha okususelwa kulawa mahomoni, okubandakanya ukuguqula imishanguzo etholakalayo yamadoda esilinganisweni esidingekayo kwabesifazane.
"Ukuxilongwa kahle kubalulekile," kusho u-Literat, "Phambilini isiguli esasingenaso isifiso sobulili sasinakekelwa ngokwengqondo kuphela kepha namuhla kuyaziwa ukuthi ukwelashwa okubandakanya imikhakha eyahlukene kuyadingeka ngongoti bezocansi, odokotela besifazane, odokotela be-endocrinologists kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, okubandakanya ukuxilongwa okuhle , imithi eyanele nokusekelwa ngokwengqondo. "
Ngakho-ke, uma kulo mshini osebenza njengegiya, enye i-hormone isilela, kuyadingeka ukuthola ukuthi ikuphi ukuphazamiseka komzimba okubangela ukuntuleka kwesifiso. Yize izimbangela zingahlukahluka, kusuka ezinkingeni zezinzwa, ukuphazamiseka kwemithambo yegazi noma imishanguzo ephazamisa ukusebenza kwehomoni, ngokuxilongwa okuhle ukwelashwa okuhambisanayo kungenziwa.
Umsizi oyinhloko wesifiso, kokubili kwabesilisa nabesifazane, yi-hormone yesilisa, ekhiqizwa kwizindlala ze-adrenal lapho kukhiqizwa khona ama-hormone ahlobene nokucindezeleka. Ukweqa okweqile kwe-adrenaline, noma ukucindezela, nakho kuthinta le ndlela yokuphendula ngokocansi komuntu njengoba lokhu kukhishwa kwe-adrenaline kuphazamisa imetabolism yehomoni ngokuguqula inani lamahomoni emzimbeni. Okufanayo kwenzeka nge-hypothyroidism, isifo sikashukela noma ukukhuluphala ngokweqile ngoba konke kubangela ukuphazamiseka kuzindlela ezithile zokusebenzisa umzimba, ngakho-ke, kumshini wesifiso.
Ubulili: inkhulumomphendvulwano enamandla kunazo zonke
Ukubonisana ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kukhuphuke ngo-30% eminyakeni edlule.
Ngokwezibonakaliso, ukubonisana ngokungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kwabesifazane kungu-41,6% wokungasebenzi kahle kwe-orgasm, i-28,7% yesifiso sokungasebenzi kahle, i-15,4% yezinhlungu zomzimba, i-7,8% yokungasebenzi kahle kwe-arousal kanye ne-6,5, XNUMX% ye-vaginismus noma imisipha yesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Idatha yokuqhamuka ishintsha ngokushesha emhlabeni jikelele, njengoba ukwelashwa okusha nokwanda kusanda inyanga nenyanga.
Ukushoda kwesifiso nakho kungabangelwa ukuvela kwanoma iyiphi enye inkinga yezocansi efana nokushoda kwe-orgasm noma i-anorgasmia, njengokungabi namandla noma ukungakhathazeki (ubuhlungu), ukuthonya isifiso sakho ngisho nokwesinye. Ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi, futhi kulezi zimo inkinga yangempela kufanele kubhekwane nayo kuqala.
Akufaneleakhohlwe ukuthi ezocansi nazo ziyinkinga yezokwelapha futhi ngenxa yalokho kudinga ukuthi umuntu ngamunye abonisane ngecala lakhe: akubona bonke abantu imbangela efanayo ezodala umphumela ofanayo.
Uma ubheka-ke ukuthi leso sifiso socansi siwumkhiqizo womshini wasewashi, isifiso esilahlekile singatholakala. "Akuwona umbuzo wemilingo noma wezibalo, udinga ukuxilongwa okuhle kanye nendlela yokwenza ucansi," kuchaza uDkt. Literat, "Kodwa futhi, uma sikwazi ukuxhumana ngalokho esizokudla noma kulokho esikuthandayo, pho asikwazi ukuxhumana kwezocansi? Uma kungekho ukuxhumana okuhle, akulula ukuba nobudlelwano obuhle kwezocansi. Inkhulumomphendvulwano kumele ibuyekezwe, ngoba ubulili yiyona inkhulumomphendvulwano enamandla kakhulu esinawo ”.
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