Ukukhathazeka okulethwe ensimini yombhangqwana, Kubandakanya ukwesaba okukhulu nokwesaba ukushiywa nokushiywa wedwa. Lolu hlobo lokunamathisela ludinga ukugunyazwa okuqhubekayo okuvela kuzakwethu, into eyenza ubudlelwano bube buthaka. Abantu abahlushwa ukunamathela kokukhathazeka abavikelekile futhi banokuntula okukhulu ukuzethemba. Lokhu kuntuleka kokuvikeleka nokwethembana kunomthelela omubi ebudlelwaneni balabo abashadile.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma nawe ngendlela enemininingwane mayelana nokunamathela kokukhathazeka ngaphakathi kombhangqwana kanye yini okumele uyenze ukubhekana nenkinga enjalo.
Ukuzimela ebudlelwaneni
Ukuzimela kuyisihluthulelo futhi kubalulekile lapho noma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano lujabule futhi lufinyelela inhlalakahle ethile. Ngenxa yokuzimela okukhulunywe ngakho ngenhla, laba bantu banendawo yabo futhi banesikhathi esiningi sokwenza lokho abakuthanda kakhulu. Ukuzimela kusiza ukuqinisa ubudlelwano njengombhangqwana ngenxa yokubaluleka okutholwe izici ezibalulekile njengokuthembana noma inhlonipho. Ebudlelwaneni, abathintekayo kufanele babe nesikhathi sokuzijabulisa ndawonye kanye nesikhathi sokukwazi ukukujabulela ngendlela yomuntu ngamunye kanye neyomuntu siqu.
Ukuthi ukuzimela kusetshenzwa kanjani phakathi kobudlelwano bezithandani
- Kuhle ukumisa uchungechunge lwemikhawulo enempilo phakathi kwabashadikazi. Lokhu kuhlose ukuvikela indawo yomuntu siqu yeqembu ngalinye.
- Ingxenye ngayinye kufanele yenze izinto ngayodwana ukuze izuze inhlalakahle nenjabulo ethile. kokubili ngokomuntu siqu nanjengombhangqwana.
- Kuhle ukwandisa umbuthano wabangani ukwenza izinto nabo ngaphandle kombhangqwana. Lokhu kubalulekile uma kuziwa ekugwemeni ukuncika ngokomzwelo nasekufinyeleleni ukulinganisela komuntu siqu.
- Kufanele ufunde ukwenqaba ngendlela egomelayo nangenhlonipho. Lokhu kwenqaba kuyisihluthulelo uma kuziwa ekuvikeleni isikhala somuntu siqu phakathi kwabashadile.
Ukuzethemba kuwena nakubashadikazi
Uma kuziwa ekuzuzeni injabulo nenhlalakahle ebudlelwaneni, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi iqembu ngalinye libe nokuzethemba lona kanye nakubashadikazi. Bese sikunikeza uchungechunge lwezinkombandlela lapho usebenza ngokuthembana phakathi kobudlelwano:
- Amaqembu kumele aveze imizwa yawo ngokucacile lapho ekhuluma ngezinto ezehlukene ezesabayo kanye nokwesaba kwazo. Lokhu kwenza ukwesekwa kuhambisane futhi ubudlelwano buqina.
- Kufanele uqale ngokusebenzela ukuzethemba kwamaqembu. Ngenxa yalokhu, umbhangqwana uzizwa ulondeke kakhulu kuzo zonke izici futhi kukhona ukwethembana okukhulu phakathi kobudlelwano.
- Kufanele uthembeke futhi ube qotho kumlingani wakho. Lokhu kuyinto ephindaphindayo ngendlela enhle ngokwethembana.
- Kumele kucace ukuthi akekho umuntu ophelele, ngakho wonke umuntu unamaphutha akhe kanye nobuhle. Kubalulekile ukwamukelana ngendlela efanayo futhi ukusuka lapha ukuqinisa ukwethembana phakathi kwabashadile.
Kafushane, uma kuziwa ekujabuleleni ubuhlobo obunempilo, kubalulekile ukubhekana nalezi zici ezibalulekile njengokuzimela kanye nokunamathela kokukhathazeka. Ukunamathisela okukhathazekayo kungase kube nzima futhi kube nzima kunoma ibuphi ubuhlobo, kodwa ngosizo lomelaphi omuhle kanye nesithakazelo sabathintekayo, kungelashwa ngaphandle kwenkinga. Maqondana nokuzimela, kuyinto eyisihluthulelo sokuthi ubuhlobo busebenze futhi buhlale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Akukuhle ukuchitha amahora angama-24 ngosuku nomlingani wakho, njengoba kubalulekile nokuba nesikhathi sakho. Akuyona into enhle ukuhlala nomuntu ohlushwa ukunamathelana okukhathazayo njengoba ukuzethemba nokuzimela kuncipha, kubeka engcupheni ubudlelwano uqobo.