Ukuthethelela akulula neze, ikakhulukazi kulabo bantu okuqhosha noma ukucasuka kubo. Inkulumo ethi "Ngiyathethelela kepha angikhohlwa" ivela kaningi emibhangqwaneni eminingi yanamuhla.
Ukuthethelela kuyinto enhle futhi kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ubeke eceleni yonke intukuthelo ukuze uqhubeke uye phambili futhi ukuqinisekisa inhlalakahle yalabo abashadile.
Kufanele wazi ukuthi uxola kanjani
Uma kukhulunywa ngokuthola injabulo egcwele nomlingani wakho, ukwazi ukuthi ungathethelela kanjani ezimweni ezithile kubalulekile. Ukuthethelelwa kumele kwenzeke phambi kwenye ingxenye yabashadikazi nakuwe uqobo. Ezikhathini eziningi umuntu akakwazi ukubona ukuthi wenze iphutha futhi akakwazi ukuzixolela. Injabulo nenhlala-kahle yabantu abashadile izotholakala ngokwazi ukuthi ungamxolela kanjani umlingani wakho kanye nawe. Abantu abaphelele futhi kunzima ukuba nakho konke ngaphansi kokulawulwa, ngakho-ke kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi wenze iphutha futhi wazi ukuthi ungathethelela kanjani.
Thethelela kwabashadikazi
Emibhangqwaneni eyazi ukuxola futhi ivule ngokushesha ikhasi lezinkinga ezithile, kuyisihluthulelo sobudlelwano ukuba buhambe kahle nokuxhumana phakathi kokugeleza kokubili ngendlela ephelele.
Akudingekile ukuthethelela khona manjalo ngoba ezikhathini eziningi kuyadingeka ukuqeda ubuhlungu obudalwe umcimbi othile. Intethelelo kufanele inikezwe ngobuqotho obukhulu nangenxa yokuthi umuntu uzizwa ngaphakathi. Ukuxolelwa akusizi ngalutho okungasho lutho nhlobo ngoba ngokuzayo kungenzeka kube nezingxabano ezahlukahlukene ezilimaza abashadayo.
Isenzo sokuxolela kumele sinikezwe yibo bobabili abathintekayo ebudlelwaneni. Kokubili umuntu okhohlisiwe noma ohlaselwe futhi owonile kufanele abonakalise futhi athathe amaqiniso. Intethelelo izophinde ifake ukusungula uchungechunge lwemithetho nezibopho okufanele kuhlangatshezwane nazo. Ukuxolisa nezethembiso akusizi ngalutho uma kungagcwaliseki ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Intethelelo futhi ingaqukatha ukumane uvule ikhasi. Lokhu kungenzeka uma ubuhlobo bunqamukile futhi sebufike ekugcineni noma ngoba iqiniso elidalwe elinye lamaqembu alisanikezwa ukubaluleka.
Kodwa-ke, ezimweni eziningi, umuntu ohlukumezekile kumele azibeke endaweni yomunye umuntu futhi yazi ukuthi ukuphelela akukho nokuthi kujwayelekile ukuthi ube nephutha Uzwela luyisihluthulelo uma kukhulunywa ngokwazi ukuxolela nokuthi konke kugcine sekuxazululiwe. Ngaphandle kwalokho, inkinga igcina isigxilile bese abashadikazi belinyazwa yiyo.
Kwenzekani uma ukuthethelelwa kungenzeki
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ukuthethelelwa obekulangazeleleki kungezi ngoba umuntu ophatheke kabi ukhathele ukuxolela noma ngoba isenzo esenziwe sikhulu kakhulu kangangokuba umuntu owonile akafuni ukuxolela. Ubhekene nalokhu, ayikho enye indlela ngaphandle kokuqhubekela phambili bese ulinda isikhathi sokukhombisa isimo sobudlelwano. Khumbula ukuthi sonke singabantu futhi amaphutha namaphutha asemini. Ukuthethelela kuyindlela noma ithuluzi elingasiza ukuxazulula izinto nezinkinga zabantu abashadile ezenzeka nsuku zonke.