Udlame lobulili yisihlava somphakathi esithinta abasha nabadala. Kukholakala ukuthi abesifazane abaningi asebekhulile bahlushwa ukuhlukunyezwa njalo ngabayeni babo. Inkinga enkulu ngalokhu kuhlukunyezwa wukuthi sekujwayelekile, bambalwa abesifazane abathatha isinqumo sokubika lesi simo.
Ngeshwa, laba ngabantu abadala abangazi ukuthi benze kanjani futhi abangenakho ukuzimela kwezomnotho, ukuze uqhubeke nesehlukaniso.
Yiziphi izici eziyinhloko zodlame lobulili kubantu abadala
- Kuhlale kunendelelo nehlazo endodeni kunkosikazi wayo. Ukubukelwa phansi okushiwo ngawo wonke amahora osuku, kwenza ukuhlukumeza ezingeni lomzwelo kube kukhulu kakhulu.
- Kunodlame lwezomnotho kuzo zonke izici. Owesifazane oshaywayo uncike kumyeni wakhe futhi kuhle nje ukuba ngumama wekhaya.
- Ngokuvamile abanalo izwi noma ivoti. Lokho indoda ekushoyo kwenziwa ngaphandle kokucabangela nakancane lokho umkayo angase akucabange.
- Izinhlamba zisesemini into ethinta kancane kancane ezingeni lomzwelo.
- Ukulawula okwenziwa ngumyeni kukhulu kakhulu, ukuthi owesifazane akakwazi ukuzenzela lutho.
- Owesifazane uhlushwa ukuhlukaniswa mayelana nabangane nomndeni.
- Emshadweni kukhona ukukhulumisana okunolaka okuzobusa kukho ukumemeza, izinsongo nezinhlamba.
- azinakwa izidingo ezahlukene yowesifazane oshayiwe.
Izizathu zodlame lobulili kubantu abadala
- Isizathu esikhulu sodlame olusekelwe ebulilini kubantu abadala ukucwasa ngobulili. Owesilisa ukholelwa ukuthi uphakeme kunowesifazane futhi ngenxa yalokho angenza lokho akuthandayo emshadweni. Lokhu kuyinto ngenhlanhla ebilokhu ishintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
- Enye imbangela yodlame olunjalo lobulili kungenxa yokuthi owesilisa uhlushwa uhlobo oluthile lwezifo eziwohlokayo njenge-senile dementia. Lesi sifo senza owesilisa abe nolaka kakhulu futhi agcine ehlukumeza umkakhe.
- Esinye sezizathu zobudlova obunjalo obusekelwe kubulili singabangelwa ukuthi owesifazane ungondliwe futhi umyeni wakhe ungumnakekeli. Ngezinye izikhathi ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka ngenxa yomthwalo onjalo womsebenzi, uthola ukuphathwa kabi.
Okufanele ukwenze ukuze usize isalukazi esihlukunyezwa ngokobulili
Isimo senhlalo sibalulekile uma ubika udaba lodlame lobulili. Inkinga enkulu kwabesifazane bakulesi sigaba wukuthi basuke behlukanisiwe nemindeni nabangani.
Ngaphandle kwabantu abaseduze, izikhungo zokunakekela izingane ziyizindawo ezifanele uma kuvinjelwa ukuthi kuqhubeke ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo. Ochwepheshe balezi zindawo, esimweni sokubheka uhlobo oluthile lwezinkomba, kufanele baqinisekise owesifazane ukuthi kufanele ashiye ngokushesha ubuhlobo futhi faka isikhalazo komunye umuntu.