Isisho sakudala samaHindu sithi "owesifazane uyakujabulela ukuqiniseka ngokuphulula umzimba ozaziyo izimfihlo zakhe, nokuqiniseka kwakhe okuphakanyiswa okwakhe." Ukushaya, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ubuciko nolimi lapho kufanele sibe ngongoti abakhulu ukuze sijabulele ubudlelwano obumnandi ngokwengeziwe, obuhlakaniphe kakhulu, nobusondelene kakhulu.
Kunesici esisodwa okufanele sihehe ukunakwa kwethu: kunezigidi zemithambo-luvo ekhaphe isikhumba sethu. Kuye ngokuthi iphululwa kanjani nokuthi ubani owenza leso senzo, izobangela ukuzwa okuthile, ukuqhaqhazela kwenjabulo noma ukusabela kokucasuka. Izinzwa, ama-receptors esikhumba sethu kanye nemizwa kuyahambisana kulobu buciko obucashile esifuna ukukhuluma nawe ngabo namuhla ku- «Bezzia». Siyaqiniseka ukuthi kuyoba usizo kakhulu kuwe.
Ubuciko bokuphulula ngokuhlakanipha
Isikhumba sethu sifana nenkundla yezimayini yonke yezinzwa nezinjabulo, kwesinye isikhathi, esingazazi ngokuphelele. Manje, kufanele kucace ukuthi i-caress ayifuni nje kuphela ukufeza injabulo yezocansi efinyelela ku-orgasm. Ukubamba kungaphezu kwalo lonke ulimi lothando nokuhlangana phakathi kwezidalwa eziphilayo.
Thina bantu abadala siyaphathana ukuze siqinisekise ama-bond, ukunikela ngothando, ukuthanda izingane zethu, ikakhulukazi lapho zisencane kakhulu futhi zidinga lokho kuxhumana ngokomzimba ukudala ukuxhumana okusha kwe-neural. Izilwane-ke nazo ziyakudinga lokhu kusondelana, lokhu kuthintana okwakha isibopho saphakade senhlalo nomthelela.
Manje, njengoba sesikucacisile lokhu, ake sigxile manje elungelweni elihle lokuba nomlingani ongashintshisana naye ngalolu limi kwesinye isikhathi olunamandla amakhulu kunamagama. Ebudlelwaneni obuthintekayo, i-caresses iyinsika ebalulekile ebuye isize inkambu yezocansi, futhi okudingeka kuyo ukuhlakanipha okulungile, okufudumele nobuthakathaka. I-caresses yileyo mingcele eholela hhayi kuphela enjabulweni yayo, ingukukhonjiswa kothando, isifiso kanye lokho kwazi lapho omunye nomunye kufanele azi "ukuthi yiziphi izindawo okufanele aziphathe" ukuthuthukisa injabulo enkulu kakhulu.
Okuthile okubonakala kulula, kuvame ukudala umthombo wezinkinga phakathi kombhangqwana ngezizathu ezilandelayo:
- Akukho ukuthembana phakathi kwezithandani uma kukhulunywa ngokukhulumisana ngendlela yokuphulula nokuthi yiziphi izindawo ezimnandi kakhulu.
- Elinye ilungu lombhangqwana alilazisi i-caresses futhi aliwenzi.
- Ukungabi bikho kwenkinga, noma ngisho nezikhathi zokuxineka, noma lapho siwela enkambisweni kunganciphisa lokhu kukhuluma okubalulekile nokuzwela. Kwesinye isikhathi ugcina usufuna ucansi olusheshayo kepha lutho ukwakha, akukho lutho oluthinta imizwa noma olumbono phakathi kwabantu ababili.
Ukubaluleka kokuthola injabulo yakho
Isici sokuthi asikwazi ukukhohlwa ukubaluleka kokwazi umzimba wakho, izifiso zethu kanye naleyo mibono esichazayo. Asenzi iphutha uma sikutshela ukuthi umuntu onolwazi oluphelele ngomzimba wakhe, mayelana nokuthi yiziphi izindawo ezinamandla kakhulu noma ukuthi ufuna ukuphathwa ngaziphi izindlela, uzokwenza lowo athandana naye ocansini azizwe evikeleke kakhulu lapho kuyimfihlo ngokumqondisa, sebenza kalula, kumnandi futhi kujabulise.
- Ukutholakala kenjabulo yakho kuyisizo sokuyihlanganyela kamuva nabashadikazi.
- Akufanele sesabe noma sizizwe sinamahloni lapho siqondisa futhi siphakamisa kumlingani wethu ukuthi sithandani nokuthi yini esingayifuni noma simane sishiye singenandaba.
- Kuyacaca ukuthi ndawonye singathola injabulo entsha ebesingakaze siyicabange, kepha kufanele kuhlale kunendawo yokuqala. Ngasikhathi sinye, kuyindlela yokuqhubeka nokuqinisa isibopho nalowo esimthandayo, ukubazisa ukuthi yimaphi amakhona, yimaphi amaphuzu ebalazwe lesikhumba sethu afihla lezo zimayini zobumnandi.
Isihluthulelo senjabulo yangempela
Ubumnandi yilowo mculo onesigqi futhi ohlukile lapho abantu ababili bethandana khona, izifiso nezinjabulo. Lokho kuqhuma kokugcina kufinyelelwa ngemuva kwamaphuzu anele lapho izandla kufanele zihlakaniphe kakhulu, zindiza ngekhono nobuhle emizileni ebekiwe, kwesinye isikhathi kuvunyelwane noma kufunwe ngenhloso.
Ukushesha akukuhle kulokhu, futhi akukho lutho olunamandla ukwedlula ukuzola, kune-foreplay ...
- Asidingi ukukhumbula amandla amakhulu afakwe entendeni yesandla eshibilika emzimbeni onqunu. Uzothanda ukwazi, isibonelo, lokho isikhumba yisitho sethu esikhulu kunazo zonke, Cishe amamitha amabili asimbozayo futhi alukiwe ngama-receptors angenamkhawulo.
- Siyazi futhi ukuthi amadoda avuliwe ngokubona amabele, izindebe noma izinqe, kodwa abesifazane badinga ubuciko obucashile, lapho i-caresses, ukuhleba kanye namagama kuthwala isisindo esiningi. Izindlela zethu zokusebenza, kwesinye isikhathi, ziyehluka kwezinye izindlela ezincane nezincanyana okudingeka ukuthi sizazi.
IStroking ubuciko nolimi, ukwakheka kwayo okuyisipho esihle kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bethu obuthintekayo. Unganqikazi ukuyisebenzisa, ukujabulela le nsiza nokuthola ukuzwa okusha nsuku zonke.