Abesifazane abaningi bayasizana ngekhibhodi. Babuza imibuzo ngamaqembu abesifazane nabomama ukuthola izimpendulo futhi bazizwa besekelwa abanye besifazane abangakaze bababone noma bahlangane nabo. Banomuzwa wokuthi izingxoxo abanazo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ziyajabulisa futhi zangempela, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yesikhathi esilinganiselwe abanaso sokuhlangana nabanye abantu ezimpilweni zabo zansuku zonke.
Amaqembu omama
Kukhona abesifazane abajoyina amaqembu ukubuza imibuzo ngezingane zabo, kepha ngemuva kwesikhashana bangahlangana nabanye besifazane abagcina sebenobungane obuhle. Lapho bethola izindaba zabanye omama nabomama, balandela ukuvela kwemvelo ukuze bazi ukuthi banjani noma ngabe kube nomphumela omuhle.
Kula maqembu bakhuluma ngezingane, imibhangqwana, ukukhulelwa, omamezala, amalungu omndeni, ukusebenza ... konke abanye abangane abangakhuluma ngakho ngenkathi benekhofi elithule endaweni yokudlela yasendaweni. Uma benobusuku obubi, bayaduduzana futhi bakhulume ngokuhlangenwe nakho phakathi kwabo, okwenza omama bazizwe bebumbene kakhulu futhi bagcine sebakha ubuhlobo. Akunandaba ukuthi unaziphi izifundo, uma ungumama kubukeka sengathi imvelo ikushiya ungenalo ulwazi olwanele ngoba empeleni, Ukuba ngumama nokukhulisa izingane kuwumkhuba nokuhlangenwe nakho.
Omama banamathuba angaphezu kokuphindwe kabili kunabobaba abathi baphendukela kumabhodi emiyalezo akwi-inthanethi nakwizinkundla zokuxhumana ukuthola izeluleko zabazali. Lokhu akukhona ukwenqaba izindima ezibucayi obaba abazenzayo ezimpilweni zezingane zabo. Lokhu nje ukwamukela imibuthano ekhethekile eyakhiwa omama, empilweni nase-Intanethi, ukuthola ukwesekwa okubenza bazizwe bengcono ngesikhathi lapho izidingo kubo emsebenzini nasekhaya zingabonakala zinkulu.
Kulelo sayithi lomama, eliyimfihlo futhi elidinga ukuvunyelwa kokufinyelela kweqembu, imvamisa kuba nezingxoxo ezibucayi. Omama babhala ngokungakwazi ukuya emsebenzini. Babonga bodwa lapho bethola amandla okushiya ubudlelwano obuhlukumezayo. Bacela ukwelulekwa kwezokwelapha phakathi kwamabili lapho amahhovisi odokotela abo evaliwe, kepha bayazi ukuthi omunye umama, noma idlanzana, usazophaphama ukuze abafunde futhi abasize. Babelana nangezikhathi zokuhleka ... kokuhleka okuningi nokuxakaniseka.
Kuyindlela enhle
Uma unezinkundla zokuxhumana ezifana ne-Facebook, uzokwazi ukuthola amaningi alawa maqembu okusekela nobungane komama futhi kuzodingeka uthole eyodwa lapho uzizwa ukhululekile ukubamba iqhaza khona. Uma uyithola, kunamathuba amaningi okuthi uzizwe wamukelekile futhi ungahlulelwa, noma ngabe wahlulelwa, ngeke kukuthathe ukulala kwakho ngoba phela yimibono yabantu abangaziwa. Uma uhlangana nabanye besifazane futhi wenza abangane, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ngeke bakwehlulele, kepha bazokusekela ezikhathini zakho ezibuthakathaka futhi bajabulele impumelelo yakho. Ngabe uneqembu lakho lomphakathi kwi-Intanethi futhi uzizwa kahle ngaphakathi kwalo?