Njengomzali, unethonya elikhulu kakhulu ezinganeni zakho futhi udinga ukuphatha ukubumba inhlalakahle yabo engokomzwelo nengqondo. Uma uthola ukuthi ingane yakho iyisiqhwaga esikoleni kungaba yinto ethusayo impela, ungafuna kanjani ukulimaza abanye esikoleni? Kodwa-ke, kufanele ubasize babhekane nezenzo zabo futhi ubakhuthaze ukuthi bashintshe indlela abaziphethe ngayo.
Kumele kube khona usizo kulabo abahlukumezekile, kodwa futhi nalabo abahlukumezayo. Isiqhwaga akudingeki ukuthi sibe ingane embi, bamane bakhetha indlela yokuziphatha engalungile, akuyona into ebonisa ukuthi bangobani ngempela. Kudingeka isenzo sokulungisa ukushintsha lokhu kuziphatha okubi.
Ngemuva kokuhlukunyezwa
Lapho iningi labazali lithola ukuthi ingane yabo iyisiqhwaga, bayashesha ukwenza ukucabanga, bazivikele, babasole kanye nesikole. Abahlukumezi besikole bavame ukuhlupheka ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo, futhi ukuxhashazwa kuyindlela yabo yokubhekana nesimo esibenza bazizwe kabi. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ngaphambi kokuthatha noma yisiphi isenzo kuyadingeka ukuthi abazali bathole ukuthi kungani ingane yabo isiye yaba yisiqhwaga, ngoba kungale ndlela kuphela lapho kutholakala khona indlela yokukhiqiza.
Uma ingane yakho iyisiqhwaga kufanele uyibuze ngomoya ophansi ukuthi kungani ihlukumeza abanye. Izingane ziyavaleka emoyeni uma zihlanjalazwa futhi ukuze zikhulume nawe futhi zikulalele, udinga ukumthulisa.
Kungani
Udinga ukunaka izizathu ezimbalwa zokuthi kungani izingane zingaba yiziqhwaga esikoleni:
- Bavezwa ekuziphatheni okunolaka nodlame ekhaya bangaziphinda lezi zenzo.
- Phambilini babenqatshwe ontanga yabo futhi baziphindiselela ngokuxhashazwa ababhekana nakho.
- Izingane ezinokuzethemba okuphansi zivame ukufuna ukuzizwa zibalulekile futhi zinamandla. Ukuqinela abanye kungabanikeza lowo muzwa.
- Iziqhwaga eziningi zihlukumeza abanye ngoba zingatholi uthando noma ukunakwa ekhaya noma esikoleni.
- Ezinye iziqhwaga aziqondi ukuthi ukuziphatha kwazo kuzithinta kanjani izisulu zazo.
- Izingane ezake zahlukunyezwa zingaba yiziqhwaga ukuze zizivikele ziphinde zithole amandla azo.
- Ezinye izingane aziqondi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuzimela futhi ngokungazi zibe yiziqhwaga.
- Lapho izingane zenqatshwa ontanga yazo, zingaba yiziqhwaga ngoba zesaba ukuba zodwa.
- Ukuba nabazali abangabeki isiyalo nakho kungenza ingane ibe yisiqhwaga ngoba bayazi ukuthi ngeke kube nemiphumela ngezenzo zabo.
- Iningi lezingane alikuqondi ukujula kokuxhashazwa, ngakho abazali badinga ukubenza baqonde
Ingabe ingane yakho iyisiqhwaga esikoleni?
Ukuba nobuhlobo obuseduze nengane yakho kuzomsiza ukuthi abone ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Kufanele uthathe isinyathelo ngokushesha ngemuva kokubona izimpawu zokuqala ... Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho inokuziphatha okungajwayelekile, kufanele wenze ngokushesha futhi uthembe imizwa yakho. Ukunakekelwa okusondele kufanele kunikezwe indlela ingane yakho ekhuluma futhi idlale ngayo nabanye. Kufanele futhi ubheke ukuthi uyagconwa noma unolaka kwabanye, nezizathu zokuziphatha kwakhe esikoleni.