Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomqondo nguzakwethu yinto okungafanele ivunywe ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo njengoba imiphumela yokuhlukunyezwa okunjalo ingaba yingozi futhi ibe mibi kakhulu kumuntu ohlukunyeziwe. Lolu hlobo lokuhlukumeza luyagqitshwa futhi alubonakali njengoba lwenzeka ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba. Uma inganqunywa ngesikhathi futhi iqedwe, impilo engokomzwelo yomuntu ohlukunyeziwe ilimala kakhulu kanye nabo bonke ububi obuhambisana nalokhu.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma nawe yemiphumela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokomqondo kwabashadile.
I-sequelae nemiphumela yomuntu ohlukunyezwe ngokwengqondo ngumlingani
Kunemiphumela eminingi yokuhlukunyezwa ngokwengqondo okuqhubekayo nguzakwethu:
- Umphumela omkhulu wokuhlukumezeka ngokwengqondo nguzakwethu, Kuwukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba nokuzethemba. Kuvamile ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umuntu ohlukunyeziwe akahlonishwa noma ahlonishwe. Uma ukuhlukunyezwa kuqhubeka futhi kungayekwa, umuntu ohlukunyezwa kanjalo angase akubheke njengento enhle ukuthi umlingani wakhe ambukele phansi futhi amphathe kabi.
- Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokwengqondo kuzodala ukuthi umuntu asondele emhlabeni wakhe futhi aqale ukusuka embuthanweni osondelene womndeni nabangane. Isizungu sihlasela impilo yomuntu ohlukunyeziwe futhi akakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye abantu.
- Kuvamile ukuthi umuntu ohlukunyezwe umlingani wakhe agcine ephethwe ukucindezeleka. Ukuzethemba nokuzethemba kubonakala ngokungabibikho kwabo, okubangela ukuthi alukho uhlobo lwesikhuthazo sokuphila.
- Ukwehla nokwenyuka kwemizwelo kuvamile ekuhlukunyezweni kwengqondo, okugcina sekuhunyushwa ezinkingeni zokukhathazeka nengcindezi. Lezi zinkinga zilimaza kancane kancane impilo engokomzwelo yomuntu ohlukunyeziwe ngakho konke okubi okumbandakanyayo.
- I-blackmail isetshenziswa njalo umhlukumezi futhi Lokhu kuzodala imizwa yecala kumuntu ohlukunyeziwe.
wafunda i-syndrome yokungakwazi ukuzisiza
Lesi sifo ngokuvamile siphathwa yilabo bantu abahlale behlukunyezwa abalingani babo futhi abavuma ukuphila ngaleyo ndlela ngaphandle kokwenza lutho ngakho. Ngale ndlela banquma ukwehlisa izingalo zabo futhi baphile ngokuhlukunyezwa njengengxenye yempilo yabo. Ukungabi nakuzisiza okunjalo kubenza bangafuni ukulwa nokuqeda ubuhlobo nomhlukumezi. Ngumuntu okhulumayo othatha isinqumo sokuqhubeka nabashadikazi naphezu kokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomqondo kusemini. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungafinyeleli kuleli qophelo ngoba kunzima kakhulu kumuntu ohlukunyeziwe ukwamukela ukuthi uhlukumezekile nokuthi angabuqeda ubudlelwano.
Ngamafuphi, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokwengqondo noma ngokomzwelo kusekukhanyeni kosuku futhi ngeshwa baningi abesifazane abaphathwa yiso njalo. Njengoba ubonile, kunemiphumela eminingi kule ndaba, yingakho kubalulekile ukuqeda lobu buhlobo obunobuthi ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.