Abantu abaningi abaqapheli ukuthi injabulo ibaluleke kangakanani ekukhuleni kwezingane ngokomzwelo. Njengamanje ngobunzima bezomnotho nezenhlalo obukhona emphakathini wethu, imindeni eminingi ikuthola kunzima ukujabula ngoba inezinkinga kuphela ekucabangeni kwayo, kepha konke kuyindaba yesimo sengqondo, noma ngabe umhubhe umnyama kangakanani.
Njengoba wazi kahle, izingane azikwazi ukukhula ngaphandle kokwesekwa kwakho, ngazo zonke izindlela. Kufanele ube ngumhlahlandlela wakhe wokumsiza ahlole lo mhlaba onenselele. Kuzofanele ube yisibonelo esifanele sobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu futhi kuzodingeka ufunde ukubeka imithetho nemikhawulo ukuze abancane, ngaphezu kokuzizwa bephephile, bazi okulindelwe kubo ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Izingane zamukela isimilo, imikhuba, amasiko nezindlela zokuphila zabazali bazo... kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlala ebudlelwaneni obunempilo phakathi kwabazali nezingane ukuze izingane zikhule kahle ngokomzwelo futhi zibe nobuntu obuqinile nobukhaliphile. Abantu abajabulayo bazokwazi ukukhulisa izingane ezinempilo futhi ezijabule, inhloso yami namuhla ukuthi ubona ukubaluleka kokujabula wena nezingane zakho, nokuthi ubheke indlela yokujabula noma ngabe iqiniso lakho lamanje liyini.
Izingane ezijabulayo nempumelelo yomuntu siqu
Umndeni ojabulayo uyindawo enethezekile kunazo zonke ezinganeni ezikhulayo futhi ngenxa yalokho, zingaba ngabantu abaphumelelayo. Izingane zibona abazali bazo njengonkulunkulu abazi konke, ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba lesi sigaba siphele (esizodlula), kubalulekile ukuthi wamukele umthwalo ohambelana nawe kulokhu futhi ulawule izenzo zakho namazwi akho ukuze babe ngcono kakhulu isibonelo sabancane bakho. Izingane ezikhula emindenini ejabulayo zivame ukufinyelela izinhloso zazo kalula futhi zibe nethuba elingcono lokuphila izimpilo zazo ngokugcwele.
Injabulo nokuqeqeshwa ngokwengqondo kwezingane
Umndeni njengomthetho unendima ebaluleke kakhulu ekuvuthweni ngokomzwelo kwezingane, ngokwenhlalo, ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Njengabazali kuzofanele ukhombise ingane yakho ukuthi kunjani ukuziphatha kahle futhi ube yisibonelo enganeni yakho. Kepha kufanele uqaphele, ngoba izingane zibamba ngekhanda futhi zilingise kokubili okuhle nokubi. Imindeni ejabulayo imvamisa ikufundisa ukuthuthukisa amakhono amahle wokuxhumana nabantu, amakhono abalulekile futhi azokusiza ekutholeni ulimi olufanayo nabantu abakuzungezile futhi wakhe umqondo omuhle wobuholi.
Futhi, uma ufuna izingane zakho zijabule empilweni kuzofanele umkhulise ngokwesimo sakhe. Ubushushu buvela ebuntwaneni futhi abunakuguqulwa kamuva ngoba buyingxenye yengane yakho. Lokhu kwakheka kobumnene kuzoncika ekusimeni ngokomzwelo komndeni kanye nendlela ingane efundiswa ngayo ukubona okungokoqobo. Ukuzinza ngokomzwelo emndenini kubaluleke kakhulu ukwakha isimilo sengane nokuthi ukuzethemba kwayo nakho kuyaqiniswa.
Ukuba ubaba akulula kepha kuyinto enhle kakhulu engenzeka kuwe
Ukuba ubaba akulula njengoba ucabanga, futhi lokho kwaziwa kuphela lapho umuntu eba ubaba noma umama. Kungumsebenzi wamahora angama-24 ongakhokhelwa okuphoqa ukuthi uhlale ukulungele ukufundisa, ukusekela nokuthola igama elifanele lokukhuthaza ingane yakho. Unguthisha wokuqala futhi kufanele usize ingane yakho iphathe amakhono ahlukene ahlukile ukuze imnikeze amathuba amaningi ngokuzayo.
Izingane ezivela emindenini ejabulayo ziphathwa ngothando nangenhlonipho futhi lokhu kuzofundisa izingane ukubambisana emphakathini nokubhekana nengcindezi nezinkinga ngombono omuhle futhi njalo zifuna izixazululo. Ukuba ngumzali kunzima kodwa lapho ubona ingane yakho ijabule futhi iphumelela, uzozizwa njengomzali oziqhenyayo emhlabeni.