Kulokhu umphakathi ogcwele ulwazi lapho abahlala besithengisela khona indlela yokuphila enenhlalo kakhulu, engaqondi impilo ngaphandle kwezinkulungwane zamasu nsuku zonke, kuyadingeka kakhulu ukuthi ufunde ukuba wedwa, okungafani nokuzizwa wedwa. Uma ungumethuli, lokhu kuzoba lula kakhulu kuwe, kepha noma kunjalo, kukhona labo abangakwazi ukujabulela izikhathi bodwa, futhi yilokhu okudinga ukuguqulwa.
Ukuba wedwa kungaletha Izinzuzo eziningi nezinto ezinhle empilweni yethu. Ukuma ngaphambi kwalesi sisekelo sezinhlelo, imininingwane nemisebenzi nakho kuyinto edingekayo kuwe. Noma ufunde nokuchitha isikhathi ngaphandle komlingani noma uwedwa lapho sinomlingani. Sishilo vele ukuthi ukuba wedwa akufani nokuzizwa unesizungu.
Gxila kokubalulekile
Lapho sisodwa siyakwazi bheka izinto ngombono, futhi ungathatheki yimibono yabanye abantu namathonya abo. Singakwazi ukuhlaziya yonke into ngokombono wethu bese sigxila kokubalulekile. Ngalokhu sisho konke kusuka emsebenzini kuye kozakwethu. Uma sisodwa sikhombisa okuningi ngaphakathi futhi lokho kusenza sikwazi ukubona okubaluleke ngempela, ngaphezu kwezintshisekelo namathonya.
Zazi wena
Kunabantu abaningi abangakwazi ukukwenza chitha isikhathi wedwa futhi abazazi nokuzazi. Ukwazi ukuthi sisabela kanjani, ukuthi imizwa yethu isebenza kanjani nokuthi sinjani kubalulekile ukufunda ukuhlobana nabanye kanye nemvelo yethu. Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomlingani wakho noma nabangani noma nomndeni kungabeka isimo sokuziphatha kwethu ezingeni lokuthi asazani futhi asazi ukuthi sithandani ngempela noma sizizwa kanjani ngempela.
Khulisa ukuzethemba
Ukuzazi futhi ungazizwa uwedwa ukuba wedwa nokuzenzela izinto kuyinto kuzokhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho. Ukuzethemba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi sizihloniphe futhi sihlonishwe, ukuze singazilimazi noma sivumele abantu noma izimo zisilimaze. Ngakho-ke uma uzizwa uphansi emoyeni noma untula ukuzethemba, chitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nawe, uzazi futhi uzinakekele.
Yiba nokuzimela ngokwengeziwe
Uma sazi ukuthi singasichitha kanjani isikhathi sisodwa futhi asinandaba, sizoqala ukuzenzela izinto, ngaphandle lindela usizo noma ukuvunywa kwabanye. Lokhu kuzosenza sibe namandla kakhulu futhi sibe ngabantu abazimele ngokwengeziwe. Umuntu ongakwazi ukuchitha iminithi eyedwa kungenzeka ukuthi adinge abanye ukuthi benze noma yini empilweni yakhe, kepha uma ungomunye walabo abakwaziyo ukusebenza wedwa, uzobe usufunde ukuzimela.
Zithande futhi uzitotobise
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzithanda futhi zitotobise, into esingayenza futhi okufanele siyenze sodwa. Ukuchitha isikhathi nawe, ngokugeza okuphumuzayo, noma ukubukela uchungechunge lwethu oluyintandokazi, kungaba yindlela enhle yokuthuthukisa usuku. Futhi akudingeki siphelezelwe ukuze sibe nesikhathi esimnandi.
Shayela ukucindezeleka
Izikhathi zizodwa izikhathi zokuzihlola ukucabanga nokuphumula. Kungakho ukuchitha isikhathi sisodwa, ngaphandle kokukhuluma noma ukwazi abanye abantu, kungaba umqondo ophelele wokususa ukucindezeleka emzimbeni wethu, into ezoba nomthelela omuhle kakhulu empilweni yethu.
Isikhathi sekhwalithi enkampanini
Sivele sifunde ukuba sodwa futhi sijabulele lezo zikhathi nathi. Yebo, lokhu kusenza saneliseke ngokwengeziwe, ukuthi asibadingi abanye nokuthi sinokuzethemba okukhulu kithi uqobo, okuhumushela kukho isikhathi sekhwalithi esiwanikela esibathandayo. Isikhathi lapho sikhetha ukuba nabo.