Eminyakeni edlule kujwayelekile impela ukuthi ubudlelwano bube nokuguga okuthile. Kunezimbangela eziningi noma izizathu ezingadala ukuthi ukugqoka okunjalo kusheshe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kwehle ijubane noma kungahambi phambili futhi kuhlale kungabonakali. Konke kuzoncika ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni okukhonjiswe womabili amalungu obudlelwano kanye nentshisekelo abanayo ekuxazululeni lezi zinkinga.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokukhombisa uchungechunge lwezinto noma izici, Lokho kungadala ukuthi othile akhathale ngengozi okubandakanya lo mbhangqwana uqobo.
Umona ebudlelwaneni
Akukho okwenzekayo ngoba umona uvela ngezikhathi ezithile ebudlelwaneni. Kungabhekwa njengokujwayelekile njengomphumela wemizwa ehlasela lo mbhangqwana. Kodwa-ke, uma umhawu oshiwo uqhubeka ukwanda, kungenzeka ukuthi uzodala ukungavikeleki okukhulu nokungathembani phakathi kwabashadile. Uma lokhu kungaphathwa ngendlela efanele, ubudlelwano bungaphela kancane kancane buze bufike ekugcineni.
Ukwesaba ukuqeda ubuhlobo
Uma omunye wabantu abasebudlelwaneni eba novalo olwedlulele lokuthi abashadikazi bangaphela, Kuwukugqokwa kwangempela kulobu budlelwano. Lokhu kwesaba kucabanga ukuthi ukuncika kuthathwe komkhawulo okwenza ukuthi umlingani uqobo ahlupheke ngokugqoka okungagcina konke.
Ukuhlala ndawonye endaweni efanayo
Ukuhlala ezindaweni ezihlukene akufani nokuhlala phansi kophahla olufanayo. Ukuhlalisana kubanga ukungqubuzana ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene zosuku futhi izingxabano zivela okungenani. Ngokunikezwe lokhu nokugwema ukugqabhuka kombhangqwana, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungazixazulula kanjani izinkinga ezingaba khona phakathi nosuku, ngaphezu kokuhlonipha indawo yangasese yabashadikazi.
Ukulwa nokuphikisana
Izimpi phakathi kwalezi zithandani azizimbi zonke, inqobo nje uma wazi ukuthi ungafinyelela kanjani ekuqondeni futhi uthole isisombululo esenelisa bobabili abantu. Uma lokhu kungenjalo, izingxabano eziqhubekayo zizodala ukukhwabanisa okukhulu ebudlelwaneni. Umbhangqwana lapho bobabili abantu bengazi khona ukuxoxisana noma ukuxhumana ungenalo uhlobo lwekusasa futhi kuba nokuguga nokuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kungadala ukuphela kobudlelwano obunjalo. Izingxabano ziholela ekutheni ubudlelwano bube nobuthi futhi bube nempilo.
Ngamafuphi, kunezici eziningana noma izimbangela ezingadala ukuthi umbhangqwana uphele ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ikusasa lakho lizohluleka. Ukugqabhuka kobudlelwano kungaba yinto eyejwayelekile kepha kubalulekile ukuvimbela ukuwohloka nokonakala okunjalo ukuthi kungabi kubi. Womabili la malungu obudlelwano kumele enze ingxenye yawo ukuzama ukuxazulula izinkinga ezahlukahlukene ezingavela usuku nosuku. Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho ubudlelwano noma izithandani zingaqina futhi zikwazi ukubhekana nokuwohloka okwehlukile okungabhekana nakho.