Akuyona into yase-Asia, futhi idlangile nasemazweni aseNtshonalanga. Ezweni lanamuhla lokuncintisana, abafundi badonswa emikhawulweni ukuze baphumelele… kepha ingcindezi enkulu ingabakhinyabeza ukufunda kwabo nogqozi lokuphila. Abazali banezinhloso ezinhle kakhulu zezingane zabo futhi kuyaqondakala bafuna okuhle kakhulu emfundweni nasemsebenzini wabo.
Inkinga yindlela laba bazali abenza konke okusemandleni abo ezinganeni zabo ukuze bakwazi ukufeza lokho abakwazi ukukufeza. Kodwa-ke, kwabanye abazali, izingane zabo sezivele zengezwa ngokwazo. Laba bazali bafuna ukuthi izingane zabo zizuze lokho ezingazange zikufinyelele noma zazingenalo ithuba lokuzizuzela zona. Ngakho-ke, Bacindezela izingane zabo ukuthi zizuze impumelelo enkulu ezifundweni nasemisebenzini.
Ngifuna indodana yami ibe ngummeli
Kukhona abazali abafuna izingane zabo zihlangabezane nezinhloso ezithile, kungakhathalekile ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ngempela noma bafuna ini. Kubukeka kungekho ukucatshangelwa ukuthi indodana ifuna ukwenzani ngempela.
Uma abazali becindezela izingane zabo ukuba zenze lokho abangafuni ukukwenza, abajabuli. Abanye banomuzwa wokuthi bayizehluleki ngoba abakwazi ukufeza okulindelwe abazali babo. Lokhu kungaba nemiphumela efinyelela kude ekuzethembeni kwezingane nokuzethemba.
Yonke ingane yehlukile
Njengabazali, kufanele sikhuthaze futhi sisekele ingane ngayinye ukuthi izuze lokho enakho futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi yini ekuthandayo. Impumelelo yangempela ukuthola umsebenzi owanelisayo osuselwa kuzintshisekelo zomuntu siqu nasethalenteni. Akufanele siphoqe izifiso zethu ezinganeni zethu noma sifeze amaphupho ethu.
Ngeshwa ithalente liyamosheka kwezobuciko nasemculweni, njengoba izingane zanamuhla ziphoqeleka ukunikela ngesikhathi namandla azo ezifundweni zezifundo. Uhlelo lwamanje lwezemfundo alusizi kakhulu kulezi zinkinga futhi. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bagxile ezithakazelweni zangempela zezingane. Kugcizelelwa kakhulu izivivinyo nokuncintisana - bakhiphe ubumnandi ekufundeni.
Kwenzekani kwamanye amazwe?
Kwamanye amazwe afana neNew Zealand, sebayekile ukwenza imicimbi yokuhlomulisa izingane eziphumelele ezifundweni zazo. Isizathu ukuthi banomthelela omubi kubafundi abangafundile kangako. Izikole eNew Zealand zethule izifundo zamakhono empilo njengokulima, ukupheka nokwenza isabelomali sabafundi ukuze bathole imfundo ephelele.
Imfundo yazo zonke izingane ibalulekile, kepha imfundo yangempela idlulela ngale kwekilasi nokuhlolwa. Abazali nezikole ngokufanayo kufanele bafundise futhi bakhuthaze abafundi ukuthi bakhuthazwe, bazethembe, futhi baphumelele kunoma iyiphi indawo abanentshisekelo kuyo ukuze babe nemisebenzi efanele.
Ngakho konke lokhu engqondweni, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali babonakalise ukuze ikusasa lezingane zabo liphumelele, bagxile kakhulu ezintweni abazithandayo.