Ukuze ubudlelwano buhlale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kubalulekile ukugcina ilangabi lothando livutha. Kunezimo lapho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, elinye lamalungu ombhangqwana liqala ukubonisa ukuntula isithakazelo esithile futhi likude nomunye umuntu.
Lokhu kungabi nantshisekelo kungaba okwesikhashana futhi okwesikhashana, ngakho akufanele inikezwe ukubaluleka okukhulu kakhulu. Nokho, kwezinye izimo, ukulahlekelwa isithakazelo kungase kube into engathi sína engafaka ubuhlobo ngokwayo engozini.
Izimbangela noma izizathu zokulahlekelwa intshisekelo kumbhangqwana
- Umjikelezo ungenye yezitha ezinkulu zanoma ibuphi ubuhlobo. Umbhangqwana kufanele unakekelwe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba ngaphandle kwalokho kungase kwenzeke ibanga elingazuzi muntu.
- Ukulahlekelwa intshisekelo kwabashadikazi kungase kube ngenxa yokuhlangana nomuntu ongaphandle kobudlelwane, lokho kuveza imizwa ethile lokho akusekho phakathi kwabashadile.
Izimpawu ezibonisa ukuthi kukhona ukulahlekelwa isithakazelo kumbhangqwana
Kunochungechunge lwezimpawu ezingaguquki ngokuphelele ezizokhombisa ukuthi kukhona ukuntula intshisekelo kumbhangqwana:
- Izimpawu zothando nothando zibonakala ngokungabi bikho kwazo. Lawa masampuli ayadingeka nsuku zonke ukuze ubudlelwano bungahlupheki futhi buqhubeke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
- Kunokuntuleka kokuxhumana okusobala futhi kunokulahlekelwa okukhulu kwentshisekelo uma kuziwa ekwazini ukuthi umbhangqwana uqhube kanjani. Ukungabaza kwenza kungabalulekile ukwazi imininingwane ethile yosuku nosuku lombhangqwana.
- Izimpi nezingxabano kusekukhanyeni kosuku. Abashadikazi baxabana nganoma yini futhi kuhlale kumemeza nokuthukana. Ubudlelwano abukwazi ukusimama ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, uma abathintekayo bengakwazi ukuxoxisana futhi bafune izixazululo ngendlela ezolile nepholile.
- Laba bashadikazi bachitha isikhathi esiningi kumaselula abo futhi abanaki izinto ezithinta ubudlelwano. Umuntu ukhetha ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi neselula kunasenkampanini yomlingani wakhe.
- Izinhlelo njengombhangqwana zigqama ngokungafiki kwabo futhi elinye lamaqembu likhetha ukwenza izinto ngabanye.
Okufanele ukwenze uma umlingani wakho ephelelwa isithakazelo
Akusizi ukungenzi lutho futhi uvumele igebe ebudlelwaneni libe likhulu futhi likhulu. Uma ukungabaza kuyiqiniso futhi kungokoqobo, kubalulekile ukuhlala phansi nomlingani wakho nibhekane nenkinga ngqo. Uma inkhulumomphendvulwano ingenamsebenzi, Kuyancomeka ukuya ekwelashweni ukuzama ukuqeda lesi simo.
Gcina ubudlelwano lapho omunye wabathintekayo ekude khona akufanelekile. Akusizi ukwandisa isimo njengoba ubuhlungu buzoba bukhulu kakhulu. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi ukulahlekelwa kwesithakazelo akunaso isisombululo, kubalulekile ukuqeda ubuhlobo futhi ngaleyo ndlela ugweme ukuthi ukuhlupheka kungase kube kukhulu nakakhulu.