Kuningi izihluthulelo zokufeza izinhloso zakho okufanele uzisebenzise. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ezinye zazo zicacile kunezinye, kodwa zonke zizosisiza ukuthi sithathe izinyathelo ezifanele kukho konke esifuna ukukuzuza. Ngezinye izikhathi sicabanga ukuthi ngeke sikwazi ukubafinyelela, sicabangela ukuphila kwethu ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi lokhu kwenza ukukhathazeka kubonakale kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele sikuvimbele ekulawuleni ukuphila kwethu, ngoba kungokwethu kuphela futhi kufanele siguqule indlela esikubona ngayo futhi sikujabulele. Akudingi ukucabanga kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi sinemigomoNgoba sonke sinawo. Ngakho masibalandele. Ngingazithola kanjani? Hhayi-ke, landela zonke lezi zikhiye esikushiyela zona manje.
Chaza izinhloso zakho
Nakuba kubonakala kungaphezu kokusobala, kufanelekile ukukukhumbula. Kufanele sichaze ngokucacile ukuthi yimiphi imigomo esifuna ukuyifinyelela, engokoqobo futhi ezoshintsha izimpilo zethu. Ukwazana kahle nokucacisa lapho sifuna ukuya khona kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokufeza izinhloso zakho. Ngoba kuyisiqalo sokukwazi ukuzibophezela kuwena, ukuba nomthwalo wemfanelo kanye nokuzuza ugqozi oludingayo. Uma usunakho konke lokhu futhi uzizwa ulungile, kuzoba yisikhathi sokuqala.
Ungabeki izaba uma izinto zingahambi ngendlela yakho
Ukuze ufeze izinhloso zakho udinga ukuzinikela futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukubekezela. Ngoba indlela ihlale iwukubekezela futhi kufanele uyazi kusukela esinyathelweni sokuqala. Ngakho-ke, asikho isidingo sokuzithethelela ukuthi ushiye yonke into. Uma into ingahambi ngendlela ofisa ngayo, akusona isikhathi sokubhidlika kodwa wukuthatha umfutho ukuze uqhubeke. Sonke sinawo lawo matshe emgwaqeni kodwa akufanele siwabone njengesikhubekiso kodwa akumele siwabone njengethuba lokufunda kuwo wonke. Ingabe lokho akubonakali kufaneleka kakhulu?
Nsuku zonke thatha isinyathelo
Nakuba izinhloso ziyisikhathi eside, akulimazi ukuthi ungenza okuthile nsuku zonke. Ngale ndlela uzoqaphela ukuthi waneliseke kakhulu ngokwazi ukuthi ubeke i-granite yakho yansuku zonke kulowo msebenzi owuthanda kakhulu. Umsebenzi owenziwe kahle ufinyelelwa kancane kancane, uthuthuke futhi wenze umzamo nsuku zonke. Ngale ndlela, ngeke ushiye konke kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina futhi inhlangano izongena, ihlale igcina ugqozi.
Ukufeza izinhloso zakho wukwabelana ngazo nalowo omthanda kakhulu
Impela lapho wabelana ngemicabango yakho, okukukhathazayo noma izindaba zakho ezinhle, uzizwa ungcono kakhulu. Ngoba ukwenza nabo bonke labo bantu abasondelene nawe futhi abayingxenye yempilo yakho. Kungakho, mayelana nokufeza izinhloso, kuvamile futhi ukuthi uxoxe ngakho nabo bonke labo bantu abaseduze kwakho. Ngoba kungenye indlela yokuzibophezela futhi ukwazi ukucela usizo uma kwenzeka uyidinga. Kukhona njalo izinsuku eziphansi kunezinye futhi yingakho kudingekile ukuba nabalingani abahle.
thatha iseluleko
Njengoba sabelana ngezinjongo noma izinjongo zethu ukuze basilalele futhi basisize, Sekuyisikhathi sokuthi iseluleko samukelwe. Ngoba lapho bevela kubantu abayiqondayo le ndaba noma abasifunela okungcono kakhulu, bayohlale bewusizo olukhulu. Bangaba umfutho futhi lokho kuyancomeka.
Ungavumeli imicabango engemihle ibe yingxenye yempilo yakho
Uma sehla kuyiqiniso ukuthi sizohlala nemicabango emibi kakhulu. Omunye walaba abasitshela ukuthi ngeke sisakwazi ukukuthwala futhi kungcono ukuphonsa ithawula. Kodwa hhayi, esikhundleni sokubi kangaka, kuhle ukucabanga ukuthi kungase kubize kancane, kodwa sizokuthola. Ngoba uma kungenjalo, lezi zinhlobo zemicabango zizoba yizo ezikhukhula amakhanda ethu kanye nalezo eziholela ekuvunguzeni okungabangela ukukhathazeka noma ezinye izinkinga ezifanayo. Ukwenza impilo yethu ihlupheke futhi izinhloso zethu zishiywe eceleni.